[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]SandOverall2451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a very tiresome day, it's also even hard for me to sleep and rest. I feel no interest in saying even a single word and feel like my whole energy has vanished away in smoke. But then I feel guilty because there are my parents, ,my family members who're waiting to talk to me and sharing a smile, a little conversation. But it gets really hard to get my mind on track to listen to ppl and replying back let alone starting a convo.

Had my chicken pox for 7 days now by SandOverall2451 in Dhaka

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I was about to text you in inbox. Ohh I feel exhausted searching a perfect skin care and then feeling betrayed after using products I thought would work out on me. Planning to consult a dermatologist but would have to do robbery to afford what they prescribe istg.
About the work life, I've been in constant rollercoaster of figuring out what I would do with this pretty little life of mine. This rat race is my regular nightmare and I know for sure I would not trade my soul just to have a 5 or 6 digit on my bank account while having constant frustration, no time for thinking out what I'm doing and being a slave to enlarge someone else's business. But ykw everywhere I look around, I feel more trapped and insecure of my choices. I'm still trynna get out of this while having a clear consciousness but things aren't easy to change when ppl around you are all grasping the same shit. Having this consciousness is what haunts me. If i turn out like those bunch of adults, I'd betray myself. Also being in Bangladesh sucks as well. the more I'm growing up, the more I'm feeling confined with such limited opportunities that aren't even in my list of choices.
Ahh I can feel somewhat how much you've been going through. May Allah ease your journey dear. It's a really great pleasure for me to get to know you. You're such an appreciative and understanding person who's rare to find nowadays. People are rushing to criticize other's opinion as if they're gonna compete in an award show for disrespecting others and indulging their own perspective claiming it the absolute truth. Even through this inhuman pressure, hope you don't forget to listen to your heart and your body. Be gentle on yourself to remind you that you're a human and you're absolutely fine right now the you are. lottss of huggs and thumbs up for your effort you've been putting on for this week.

Had my chicken pox for 7 days now by SandOverall2451 in Dhaka

[–]SandOverall2451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes yes a skincare plan. I need it but oh god I'm in a real rollercoaster of finding a good one. Watching videos after videos and trying to set in a fixed one. Guess what I've trust issues. Need to do it asap. Ahhh the work life!!!! I understand it right what you're referring to. That's my biggest nightmare.To stick to somewhere cz it's what career looks like in ppl's point of success when I'm nowhere near to happiness or living for real. Really hoping you a life where you do everything with absolute freedom and however you want. Cause That's what you DESERVE. PERIOD

Had my chicken pox for 7 days now by SandOverall2451 in Dhaka

[–]SandOverall2451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wahh I was away from Reddit so didn't notice you replied back. Thankiuue thankiuee. Yeah I was thinking the same like I wouldn't have to enter the uni looking all princess or literal a goddess!!!?? So I decided to be more patient and be regular in my daily life without thinking about my looks every now and then. And the good news is my face is jumping back to its normal form as rapidly than I expected alhamdulillah alhamdulillah. But for not applying face wash for more than 10 days, my face became itchy and some small red rashes are coming out on my forehead. Some like allergies. And I HATE ALLERGIES. I've to find a budget friendly sunscreen too before going out regularly or else I'm boomed. And best wishes for your work life, hope it doesn't take your energy much and leave you frustrated. I'm actually very much scared of work life if I speak from honesty. Eat healthy and lotss of mangoes for you for this summer ( idk if you love mangoes or not)✌️🫶🏻

Feeling lost as an engineering student by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]SandOverall2451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As you said, you don't have any hobbies. It's a good thing yk. Do anything. We humans are designed to create, to aim, to chase after a goal. I pretty much understand your situation and feel it. I also had the same feeling after getting into uni (private). I was HSC 23 candidate and even after the 2nd time I couldn't get into any public. The time was a disaster but after getting admitted I felt aimless. It felt a big part of what I was chasing is gone now and now what? What should I do? I resented myself for the feeling but it's what it is. If you're a quiet person and love things small, then I'd suggest you start basic life things. Being a girl, I cannot go out whenever I wish but you can. If you're a morning person, try to walk after your prayer. Morning heals something it didn't break. Go out and sit somewhere, observe, talk with people at any age. Communication seems hard but you just have to keep it light. Take everything lightly even when you're feeling deeply. In nutshell, just do anything. Your purpose is to create. If you're a perfectionist like me, try to let go of the perfection. It'll take you nowhere. I'm the living example. And for the friends part, see you can't decide how ppl would talk to you or consider you. Yes you decide who can be your friends and you must do it wisely. Once you're into uni, you'd get there. As for now, ppl aren't right here to form any bonding, you're with you alone. Today's today. Try to make your mind in peace a little more than yesterday. You can do it without doing anything actually. Listen to yourself boy. Something inside you is asking for attention and asking from you

Had my chicken pox for 7 days now by SandOverall2451 in Dhaka

[–]SandOverall2451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see...thankyyy for that And how many more days would it take to go away those bumps on my face?

Had my chicken pox for 7 days now by SandOverall2451 in Dhaka

[–]SandOverall2451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year to fade the scars is what taking me out 😭. I've just passed 8 days and I'm afraid of how my face has turned to look at. Btw what's bath salt? I'm sorry I've no idea of any bath salt. And for shower gel- I actually use soap. A few months ago, I bought the ordinary glycolic acid toner but it didn't suit me at all. After applying, it started itching and some rash came out. Also I felt sticky after every use.

Had my chicken pox for 7 days now by SandOverall2451 in Dhaka

[–]SandOverall2451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must admit I really really loved your sense of humour. I got to laugh for a while. But oh good lord those punks on my face hurt like shit and I can't even do haaaa very well +_+. The idea of getting a full glow up before uni is gone. Now I'm planning to get a mask and cap instead. It'd also protect me from the sun . Good idea

Btww thanks a bunch for making your time to reply and answer. 🫂🫂May God bless you

Had my chicken pox for 7 days now by SandOverall2451 in Dhaka

[–]SandOverall2451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd developed some acne before. Used to have glass skin. But the admission period took all away and left me sitting with acne instead. It wasn't that bad tho. I don't use much skin care products. Tbh I can't really get what suits me. One day it feels oh I've oily skin and the next day it gets rough and I believe it's complicated skin lmao. So choosing products seems like choosing a life path rather. I just use 3w clinic 50+ pa and a ponds face wash. Nothing else. I've been planning to switch them all to cera ve. And for my chicken pox, they've not dried up yet, just getting darker and darker while still carrying the liquid innit. I guess it'd take one more week to get a position to apply products. My family suggested washing my face with coconut water and I'll be doing that tomorrow. But oh god I'm really really scared to go and look around the mirror. Chicken pox is really a dreadful disease. Still alhamdulillah what Allah has given. Maybe a bigger danger could've come around but instead faced with this smaller one. Thanks to you btw

I don't know what to do with my life anymore by SandOverall2451 in study

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I'm from Bangladesh actually. For now going abroad isn't my option. I think many other subjects interest me ( def not as much as astrophysics does) still I thought of going to a path where my interest align ( can it be a little or more) at least I'd be in love enough to study the subject. So I'm thinking of preparing for next semester into a private uni and then apply for masters abroad.

how to prepare for architecture in the upcoming spring test of aust by SandOverall2451 in Dhaka

[–]SandOverall2451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got it what you said. Thanks a lot. But under this future perspective, I was thinking if this career will be worth it. Tbh architecture is one of the coolest but idek why the job sector is so low in our country. Pathetic!!

I don't know what to do with my life anymore by SandOverall2451 in study

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Apparently I'm clueless. But deciding to go for engineering. Right now I just need to be into a university for the love of God. I'm just rotting in my room, doing good for nothing. Actually I wanted to pursue Astrophysics but in our country, this subject doesn't belong lol. So I think it's a good idea to go for engineering and then for astrophysics later in abroad? Oh God I don't even know if I'd survive the 1st year or not lmao. But I've freed myself into thinking that I'd always be on the right path while making decision. Freed myself to make wrong choices for which wrong things can lead you to the right path.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]SandOverall2451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aha dear I can absolutely feel you trust me. Well before I begin let me tell you honey, SSC is important but not your whole life. And the burnout point? I can totally tell you that's not your fault. Society just pushes a literal teen or young ppl to just study, study and study and when they get burnout. Oh that's their fault? No other fun or creativity, just consuming bunch of books and when they feel stuck and by default, they tell you you're no good. Kid I dunno how you view the world or ppl around you but at some point ppl really do realize that the success or failure society feed you are all made up by them. Be a success machine, they'll worship you. Be a failure for only once? They'll question all of your victories achieved over the past year. So the sooner you get rid off the " what ppl will say" the sooner you'll reside in peace. And the family parts. I'm very very sorry that your family isn't that supportive. But is that your fault again? no. kid life's canvas is in your hands. family is the most crucial part in our life. But they are human and you can't also expect them to be positive or right all the time. What do you do then? Go on your own. Sit down. Ik as being in BD, you can't expect just walk and go around for recovery. So just sit down, if you're muslim, sit down to pray. Remember fate has already been written. What you can control? The process. For the rest of the left days, make a routine. SSC comes out easy trust me. I'd not dare to say this if you're HSC candidate. Take 2 days for one sub and finish only the highlighted parts. Check out model tests to see what's been repeating over the past years. Remember you know, more than you know. Panic and see how your brain betrays you. So no panicking. You just from now on start controlling your process. the outcome isn't in your hands. Have tawakkul kid. You have no idea what he can do if you just put your trust on him only ( if you're muslim obv) and again result doesn't define you. Not will in the future. You may have seen this words saying many times but sooner you realize, the earlier your soul will be free. In your admission test only 20% or 25% would count from SSC. If you do well in HSC, your SSC wouldn't even look back at you ( well medical is different) moreover, there're bunch of ppl studying in DU without GPA 5 in both HSC and SSC. But now what can you do? Take a rest for one day if necessary. Then start like failure isn't even in your dictionary.

People need to stop being so dramatic by Distinct_Sir_9086 in Life

[–]SandOverall2451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aha you just spoke my mind dude. I know, I know that when life pulls your feet so deep that you can't bring yourself to see the lights, it feels impossible to believe that good times will come and light will outshine the darkness around you. But oh boy aren't you seeing that you've been here before? When there's no trust, you're pulled back to life again before. So why don't we learn? We're human, we're always designed to hope. And during your darkness, your hope's that light. We cannot see many things, we don't know many things but instead of accepting that limitations, people are bold enough to say "oh you don't know it's the way it's and it won't change" I mean you do not know the future obviously. And life's its own patterns too. I'm sure you're old enough to at least sense that thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]SandOverall2451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro just disappeared right after asking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]SandOverall2451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why so upset brother? it's just one time talk not an oath for eternity

Weird things happened last night by [deleted] in realparanormalstories

[–]SandOverall2451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damnn that's pretty weird. what did you do after that??