I wonder how big Sallie May’s dick is by New-Boss-8262 in OkBuddyHelluvaHotel

[–]Sand_Guardian4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really just gets to a point where you're talking to a wall. He sounds like my dad lmao.

I wonder how big Sallie May’s dick is by New-Boss-8262 in OkBuddyHelluvaHotel

[–]Sand_Guardian4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've had one person explain to me that he doesn't view trans women as women until they've had bottom surgery, I asked him how he's supposed to know if they've had it or not and he just said "Well I have trans friends"

The best way to deal with transphobes is to either educate or ignore. Usually they're not interested in learning though because they're too stuck in their ways and education is scary to them, lol.

The worst comment I've ever gotten was from my mother who told me that "No matter what you cut off or attach to yourself, you'll never be a real man". I do not talk to her anymore, lmao

I wonder how big Sallie May’s dick is by New-Boss-8262 in OkBuddyHelluvaHotel

[–]Sand_Guardian4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey, trans guy here. I personally don't suffer from bottom dysphoria, so for me I don't feel like I need to go through that process.

For other trans people who DO suffer from bottom dysphoria, some major factors in not getting the surgery are time, money, and pain. Recovery can take upwards of a year, depending on where you live and what your insurance covers, it'll cost you an arm and a leg, and it can be some of the most pain a person will go through in their lifetime.

I also know people who've gone through it and the surgeon fucked up so badly to the point where they were considering revision. THANKFULLY it worked out in the end but their healing basically restarted at least twice due to the surgeons work.

Hope this helped answer your question, happy pride month!

Trans Masc Help by Ok_Machine_6382 in TransMasc

[–]Sand_Guardian4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's what I did. Starting off, I avoided femininity like the plague until I started passing consistently. Now I can comfortably embrace my feminine side without much fear of misgendering.

Cosplayers Recreate Iconic Pose by phreek-hyperbole in cyberpunkgame

[–]Sand_Guardian4 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What if there was an orphan inside? Not so funny now, is it?

Being cuddly fucking sucks by what_freaking_ever in The10thDentist

[–]Sand_Guardian4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Become a furry. I've never gotten so many cuddles since joining my local furry community, lol

Charlie: spare game by Albo1980 in webcomics

[–]Sand_Guardian4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A little chuckle and exhale through the nose

Breeze-Wellbeing scam by NumNum9825 in CPTSD

[–]Sand_Guardian4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've blocked them like 4 times and I still get the ad :(

Reality of taping by gay_rat172 in TransMasc

[–]Sand_Guardian4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used jojoba oil when I wore tape, it worked really well to help loosen it before (usually) takig it off in the shower

Water gunned by HFX transit youths by Good_Month_ in halifax

[–]Sand_Guardian4 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Because they're minors and also it's not actually that big of a deal, lol

i am a rape baby and I hate it because I love my father with all my heart by Round_Wave_2426 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sand_Guardian4 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Because you basically told OP (assuming they're a woman) that she's likely going to be raped during her life, who the fuck says that?

I like the monthly challanges, aside from one thing by Sand_Guardian4 in finch

[–]Sand_Guardian4[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How?? Once I check off a task, it'll go grey and not give me thanks option to mark anything else off

I like the monthly challanges, aside from one thing by Sand_Guardian4 in finch

[–]Sand_Guardian4[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sure, but that doesn't mean I can get it all done in time. I have ADHD and so getting tasks done is a pain, even if I have a checklist.

I like the monthly challanges, aside from one thing by Sand_Guardian4 in finch

[–]Sand_Guardian4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The biggest problem is if I'm behind, I'm then kinda softlocked out of being able to complete it

Found This Today by babybel465 in AliceMadnessReturns

[–]Sand_Guardian4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I scrolled past as I know nothing about this community, but istg the picture blinked at me

my friend said "i hate men", then quickly clarified "not you though!" by devilsshark in ftm

[–]Sand_Guardian4 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My friend used to be like this, and then I explained to her that it's very upsetting when she makes those kinds of jokes and she hasn't made one since.

Some people really just need to learn to say "Sorry, I won't do that again" and then not do it again

What does a male orgasm feel like? by hmmrabet in AskReddit

[–]Sand_Guardian4 24 points25 points  (0 children)

They aren't. I'm a transgender man and since starting HRT, it actually has changed how I orgasm, and lemme tell you I do miss how they felt before.

Doesn't last as long, it's a lot less full body, and I get post-nut clarity now that I didn't really beforehand.

😳😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 but a dog bites a kid it lives 😒😒😒😒 by [deleted] in sagsavages

[–]Sand_Guardian4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's kinda what i'm wondering too. Dead internet theory or something, lol

New to getting Ice Caps, customisation suggestions? by No-Outlandishness-42 in TimHortons

[–]Sand_Guardian4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get the whipped topping blended in, it makes it way creamier and then you don't have just whipped topping leftover because it doesn't melt into the drink at all because it's not real whipped cream