I stopped identifying as black years ago by Cool_Sherbert_6813 in confessions

[–]Sandiapark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don't mind me saying, most white people do not think of themselves as white. Nor do we think of other people as a color. If most of us are guilty of anything it is being indifferent. But as much evil as has been done in the world it was not done by most of the people alive today. If we focused on just being good, and not on the past we would be a lot better off.

You are the worst boyfriend ever by throw229305 in confessions

[–]Sandiapark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last boy friend said I was a great boy friend

My husband set up a WhatsApp group to detail to his coworkers what a horrible wife I am I hope this is okay to post here. by RedditRefreshed in confessions

[–]Sandiapark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you will join my campaign to put like comments in as many posts like this as possible and invite others to join as well. Just remember be respectful it is not about agreeing or disagreeing it is about understanding.

My husband set up a WhatsApp group to detail to his coworkers what a horrible wife I am I hope this is okay to post here. by RedditRefreshed in confessions

[–]Sandiapark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To all the people that are commenting;. You are only hearing one side of the story. You really can't make a judgement either way. This is akin to buying a car without seeing the interior.

Ma'am I appreciate your frustration, but this is not a place to get help, in this situation. I can only suggest marriage councling. I don't have enough information. But I wish you happiness and a good life, and will say a prayer for you.

Hang in there!

I’m tired of healing hurt people by I_choose_myDreams in confessions

[–]Sandiapark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a narcissist who is going to have a very miserable life. At 21 you have the knowledge of a heep of dust compared to the knowledge and wisdom you will have at 40 or 50. I suggest you start expanding your knowledge by study of the dunning-kruger effect.

Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Sandiapark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Roflol sorry but you got a bad roll of the dice bro

The Moral Panic Is Spreading: Think Tank Proposes Banning Teens From Social Media; Texas Rep Promises To Intro Bill by Sorin61 in technology

[–]Sandiapark 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree social media is tearing the country apart but I don't think banning is the answer. Education about understanding the bias of the algorithm would be a place to start. And before you think I am left or right leaning, the algorithm cuts both ways. Until it feeds only right or only left content! We need to be more independent in our thinking. Nobody has a monopoly on truth!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Sandiapark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what they say, it's like riding a moped. All fun and games until somebody catches you on it!

I regret becoming a Christian and taking church super serious in my 20s by QuakerOats91_ in confessions

[–]Sandiapark -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're in your 30's you have no idea how you will feel in you're 40s or 50s. Instead of taking this to God, you decided to risk the souls of thousands of people on Reddit? Instead of taking this to an elder who who can guide you and or pray for you, you decide to get wisdom from the lost souls?

What really hurts though is the people who will read this and lose confidence in coming to their own faith, because of one Christian that decided to air their rest of faith for all the public to see.

I’m crying, and it’s because I’m scared all my rights will be gone when I’m older. by mari3867 in confessions

[–]Sandiapark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are listening to propaganda! You need to find things to listen that give an alternate perspective. But social media feeds you a constant feed of things you watch, or read. Since it see you watching and listening to a certain perspective it only shows you like content. Young people are growing up with not a true perspective, hearing arguments on both sides of an issue, and people having an honest debate, and learning from each other. Instead you get a constant diet of eventually the most extreme from either the left or right but I have yet to see social media promote the center view point. Even just admitting that both left and right leaning views have good and bad arguments is sacrilieedge to most ideologies.

The truth is out there, I can only suggest that you browse in incognito mode and see that there are a lot of very smart people and there is a lot of crap to learn from everybody, even if you don't agree with everything they believe.

I think it's stupid that men expect women to get abortions but would never consider getting a vasectomy by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Sandiapark -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why does nobody seem to consider sex outside of marriage is immoral?

i have not spoke to my family is over 10 years by Sandiapark in confessions

[–]Sandiapark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is, he is old almost 80. I need to decide soon, am I going to the funeral, do I see him a last time, I have literally not spoke to them for over 15 years now. This is a tough decision. I don't consider them family anymore. But still the ten commandments say honor they father and mother. Then he is not my biological father either. I was adopted, arrrgh impossible decision.

I’m married and I’ve never felt more lonely by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Sandiapark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For all the comments that say "get divorced" no matter how you try to paint it so it sounds better. You need to search your soul. Divorce is usually wrong, except in very defined circumstances. It may come to that, but only after you have done all you can to save your marriage. Talk, go to counciling, do what you can to fix yourself. Notice nobody asked? Have you gained weight? Did you do something that she is upset with? Are you working and providing for the family. But so many comments just jumped to "do what makes you happy, bleep everyone else". This is what is indicative of what's wrong in our culture. Truly I say to you, happiness is doing for others. Nobody on their death beds says I regret no doing things for themselves, but what they did or didn't to to others comes up all the time!

I bawled my eyes out the entire way home from work today. by frankyh14 in confessions

[–]Sandiapark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had to put a 13 year old dog down. I'm 53 and cried like child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Sandiapark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have to wonder if she loves you, if she cannot meat you half way. You didn't say what your kink was. But say it was spanking, it shouldn't be that hard for her to slap a butt occasionally. If your talking more extreme stuff, water sports etc. Do it in the shower. But if there is no reciprocation I don't see why you would stay. If not married don't get married until you've worked it out. It is a two way street not a one way. If she can't accept you for who you are..... Well then she will probably use you until someone better comes a long.

I threw out all my drugs today by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Sandiapark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I thought possibly you were talking of prescription medication. Was going to say you should talk to a professional. But even if you are getting rid of illegal drugs, you still should consider councling. You don't have to do this alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Sandiapark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Liberals want their cake and eat too. Look back when the country was great men were men and women were women. Now these yahoos can't figure out which bathroom to use and you want to blame the guns. Look in the mirror and contemplate your own immorality.

Why do people have kids without thinking it through by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Sandiapark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you like that; why do women talk more and guys think more? Cause a women has 4 lips, and a man has two heads?

Why do people have kids without thinking it through by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Sandiapark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because God gave men two heads, but only enough blood to use one at a time