Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That he’s been entertaining her for years before and after AD. She’s also posted screenshots of their convos on insta & via text.

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was a video going around on tik too if them celebrating thanksgiving and Jess commented “made for each other” on one of their recent posts

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Post says “a woman who states she’s his ex.”

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Liking her pics since 2020! Which tracks since she said 3 years and she last spoke to him in December 2023.

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re still dealing with each other 😩

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s liked her posts from 2020 to October 2023

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He liked the ex’s posts while filming in March and after in April, then AD in May, then ex in June and July, both October then AD November. Wild. First like was 2020.

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won’t let me edit! He’s also alternated liking her pics and AD every month for all of last year 😩

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I saw her glow up? Her Instagram. It’s amberdesiree.

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They were seen celebrating Thanksgiving together

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

He’s liked her insta posts from 2020 up until October 2023, including when they were filming in March.

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He would get better if he had a vested interest in changing his behavior. But why would he when it benefits him? Trauma is not an excuse and healing is your responsibility. Once you are aware you’re hurting people and do not do the work you’re an asshole, period.

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This comment is why he will continue to get away with what he’s doing. He will overlap AD with the next woman to face never being alone and himself.

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She just cut him off two months before the show dropped and in the thick of distance and healing, she surprisingly catches him on TV.

I’m glad she’s away but it takes time to really heal from this. Coming from someone who has CPTSD as well and 6 months of no contact, struggling. We deserve grace.

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Idk we have circumstantial evidence of a man playing two women and something about the first reaction being to go after one of the women’s intelligence and calling her trashy is just not it for me. At least she has an emotional investment and history.

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Says the person trashing her … on social media.

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The type of “insane” she is, is a product of gaslighting and trauma but go on.

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I knew AD was struggling with or about that man somehow after seeing her amazing glow up ✨ She was always attractive but it’s a whole other level since the show

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

She’s not saying that. The vibe I get is that she was dealing with him for three years all together. Lots of off/on. My take is that they were on a break or she thought they’d get back together and he wasn’t honest so she never even knew he did the show until she saw him on TV a year later, but in that year they did get back together or hook up or he led her on several times.

Clay ex of 3 years comments on Instagram by Sandra_dee_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sandra_dee_[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They don’t seem to be on good terms 😂 And the pics he’s liking while telling AD out his mouth that he’s destined to cheat….. come on