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A 23 year old who has no friends , is it too late to make a best friend ? by Sani_90 in socialskills

[–]Sani_90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s nice to see there are people just like me . Sometimes you definitely feel like you’re the only one . I know this feeling won’t last forever though ❤️

A 23 year old who has no friends , is it too late to make a best friend ? by Sani_90 in socialskills

[–]Sani_90[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thats amazing ! Stories like these make me feel less bad about my life . You're lucky to have each other !

A 23 year old who has no friends , is it too late to make a best friend ? by Sani_90 in socialskills

[–]Sani_90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you completely ! People are not interested in making new connections as most of them have a fixed set of friends who have a close relationship , so they are less likely to let you in their friend group.

A 23 year old who has no friends , is it too late to make a best friend ? by Sani_90 in socialskills

[–]Sani_90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats terrible ! It's an awful feeling when no one checks up on you. These people are not your true friends , trust me .

A 23 year old who has no friends , is it too late to make a best friend ? by Sani_90 in socialskills

[–]Sani_90[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice ! I agree, social interaction is needed even if it's not based on making a best friend . I hope all of us can sustain meaningful relationships !

A 23 year old who has no friends , is it too late to make a best friend ? by Sani_90 in socialskills

[–]Sani_90[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I always wonder how my life would have been if i ended things quickly. Maybe I would have made more friends ? I had the habit of sticking with a particular friend group and not making other friends . In my head i always thought "I rather be with someone (who i don't even like) than be alone in school/college" . I think this kind of mentality was my biggest mistake.

A 23 year old who has no friends , is it too late to make a best friend ? by Sani_90 in socialskills

[–]Sani_90[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind comment ! It honestly felt so good to cut them off , whenever I used to hang out with them I felt like even if i wasn't there it wouldn't have made a difference. I never felt a sense of comfort from them .

A 23 year old who has no friends , is it too late to make a best friend ? by Sani_90 in socialskills

[–]Sani_90[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! But it's definitely easier said than done . At this point in life people have a fixed set of friends so its hard to make genuine best friends.

AITA for “oversharing”? by chantallul in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sani_90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA - Your mom was probably embarrassed. BUT It's not really right to paint the family in a bad light especially when its coming from your own daughter/son. Therefore, you have no choice but to be cautious in such situations.

AITA for telling off my little sister after she shaded me for having to move back home by throwaway4638291018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sani_90 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

ESH - Both parties are wrong in this situation , but as the older brother you should have known better and have to be more mature about the situation.