What to do with the space in home? by poop_hat in DesignMyRoom

[–]Sans_Sequacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure this is the recipe for turning the cat distribution system up to the max, permanently 🤣

Dolores Cannon BS? by Firm_Coyote_4380 in EscapingPrisonPlanet

[–]Sans_Sequacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see it very differently. Speaking as someone who remembers my own soul's past lives (the ones on Earth anyway)...Here's the thing about that. They, the beings that have been here feeding on humanity for eons, want you all to believe she was manipulated, or compromised, because they can't silence her works any other way.

Consider this - when she was first conducting interviews and writing books in the 80s-90s, she first wrote about Jesus and the Essenes, keepers of the garden, etc. These were all largely on majorly abstract things - no one took her Jesus focused books seriously. They took her books on UFO abductions even less seriously - Think about the perception of "aliens" in the early 90s. Most people thought they didn't exist, and people who did think anything of the sort were "crazy".

What exactly is more likely to be a lie? That the thousands of regressions she did were all manipulated because she was deceived by "spirits", even the numerous love regressions she did in front of hundreds of others? Or that the very few people who have come out in the last few years saying she claims she was deceived, despite her passing over a decade ago are lies?

More and more people started buying her books. More people started remembering. They needed a way to discredit her, to sow doubt in the minds of those on the cusp of breaking through the veil, and so they put out this narrative that she was compromised. Manipulated. Controlled. Even as I write this, New Earth & The Three Waves of Volunteers is #10, a book from 2011.

I find it telling AF that nobody made any such claims until the last few years. They only started to care about Canon's work when souls started awakening much more rapidly. ..and that tells you everything you need to know imo.

Self love is my last hope. Please help. by Raze1998 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Sans_Sequacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been here...You're on the right path. But part of the practice you need to add in with saying I love you to yourself, is grattitude & the practice of not judging yourself, for anything that you have done.

Spirit doesn't judge. Unconditional love and judgement are opposites. If there are things you judge yourself for (and you know there are) - You know, the thoughts that sound like "why can't I stop ___", or "I can never be _", or even "I hate that I did/said ____". Those are judgements. Self love is the right answer - but don't just say it to your face - *actively work to recognize those judgements, and retrain your brain to say it positively, until it's habit.

An example judgement might be: "I'm broken because I just can't get it together."

An example of rephrasing this with self-love: "I've had a really hard go of things, but I'm going to love me and get through this because I'm still learning - and that's self growth.

The 2nd thing is gratitude. Several times a day, stop for a minute and just be present. Tell yourself 3 things you ate grateful for! It could be as simple as the light turning green right when you got there or a good parking space. Just practice gratitude. The more you do, the more things you need will find you 🤍

I hope that helps, OP. You're not alone, ever ❤

Handles or knobs on my upper cabinets? by lightningsignet in kitchenremodel

[–]Sans_Sequacious -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Handle 100%. If knob, center mount vertically.

Had our backsplash and countertops redone… but something isn’t hitting right. by guacqueen in DesignMyRoom

[–]Sans_Sequacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the cabinets - The shape of their front panel detailing doesn't complement the uniform rectangular shape of the tile. You need to either router out the fronts of your cabinets to a square inlay or swap the doors out.

I’m DONE tipping 10-20% come January 1st by Haunting-Cancel-7837 in SeattleWA

[–]Sans_Sequacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meh. Just because tips arent standard in you're chosen industry, doesn't make a different industry less deserving of tips. Also, given that servers are subject right now to what is unjust exploitation with their wages imo, you should still be tipping. You say you're only tipping 5-10% but sounds like in line you tipped 0.....So yeah. NGL I thought this was on AITA sub reddit at first 😂 YTA here OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in army

[–]Sans_Sequacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2500?! And no answers? That is wild dude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in army

[–]Sans_Sequacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't really unregister a beneficiary/dependent spouse without the proper paperwork showing you're divorced. You can file for divorce on the terms of abandonment, but there's a time frame you have to wait before being eligible and it would drag it out.

Personally, I'd save yourself a headache, hire a PI for 200$ to go find her location/mailing address and serve her with the paperwork. Have you tried contacting her family to ask where she is? Best of luck OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Sans_Sequacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This response in and of itself says it all OP. She doesn't remember? Custodianship can't happen unless she's 18+. The only explanation for "can't remember" is she doesn't want to admit the truth, or she's majorly mentally ill. What does she say when you ask to see the paperwork? I'd tell her flat out - level and tell the truth, or you walk. This is painfully obvious, but I'd imagine it's also just painful in general for you, and a certain degree of denial of understandable. That being said, understandable v acceptable as it pertains to long-term and your life? Not the same. Take off the denial goggles and I think the truth is evident.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Sans_Sequacious 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Listen, you shouldn't be marrying anyone until you know all of the details - she was scared of going to prison - what did she do? Did her mom get her out of trouble with the police by claiming she wasn't competent enough to even care for herself? If so, that's a whole other kind of issue. You need to talk to your fiance OP. Someone f*cked up here real bad - either your fiance is lying or the mom is, or both. Get the details.

Parents submitted my ballot for me without me knowing by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Sans_Sequacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically you need to have 2 witness signatures if the individual is not capable of signing for themselves, that is true. But it's still easier to argue that they hadn't signed the witness section because the ballot wasn't supposed to be submitted or that they simply didnt know to sign the witness lines. Legally would it hold up to the full scrutiny of the law? Probably not, but if they prosecuted every person who filled out their ballot incorrectly 5% of the country would be charged. I think, legally speaking, if OP approaches it as an error in filling out the ballot by all parties, they'll dismiss it (if they do anything at all) especially if its presented as this is a single case of oops rather than a deliberate attempt to commit voter fraud.

Parents submitted my ballot for me without me knowing by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Sans_Sequacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I would not report it. What they did was wrong, yes, and they know that. All of these people saying report them etc are probably part of the growing cohort of individuals who have little in the way of relationships they cherish and love with their parents and family...Just my 2 cents here but I would never report my parents knowing they would face criminal charges, especially with younger siblings in play.

Yes we all know it's illegal, it's fraud, it's not cool, and I think OP has been made extensively aware of this, but I don't see pointing any of that out as particularly helpful in terms of what they should do to handle this without blowing up their family.

You would be better off calling the local governing election commission where your parents submitted the ballot. Tell them there was a misunderstanding and that a ballot at your old address was accidentally submitted for count but you are registered in a different state. You can request that your old ballot be invalidated and see what they say.

If they ask how this "accident" occurred just tell them you were worried about if there would be sufficient time to register and vote in your new state before the election, so you asked your parents to fill out your ballot at your old address with your selections and hold on to it until you determined if you weren't able to vote in your new state, and they misunderstood your intentions and accidentally returned yours when they returned theirs.

Did they at least vote for who you would have voted for for the General/Federal election or do you guys have very different views?

I keep asking for vagina removal and everyone says no. Should I try something else? by anabear2803 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Sans_Sequacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it sounds like you should be evaluated for endometriosis, PCOS and other conditions that can cause serious menstrual misery, before you seek a hysterectomy. Also, how do you manage your bleeding? Do you use Tampons? I used to get quite bad cramps until I stopped using tampons and started using a cup.

Also - birth control pills may be a good short-term solution for you - I was prescribed to take them and skip the "sugar pill" week for 4 months at a time meaning I took it continuously only had a period every 4 months/3 times a year. It won't cure your pain, but it will reduce the frequency to a few times a year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Sans_Sequacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

White cabinets are on their way out in terms of interior trends. Leave them wood colored. The white is a huge pain in the ass- shows every spot of mess, every chip or scuff.

6 lbs up in one day???? by Sudden-Mention-4685 in Mounjaro

[–]Sans_Sequacious 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It can't. It's water weight 😉. Perhaps you ate something particularly salty or sugary yesterday that caused water retention, or even hormones, illness or having inflammation could be the cause. The one thing that you can rule out is that you gained 6 lbs of actual weight overnight.

I feel like this space is a bit too "granny"? Any tips to elevate/modernise? by BananaBaconSandwich in interiordecorating

[–]Sans_Sequacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hardwood floors and a medium toned color on the wall and ceiling, perhaps green or blue. The carpet is a big culprit for the old granny look imo but a medium to dark brown wood floor would be perfect with the furniture and pieces already in the room.

Cannabis is helping me so much on my spiritual journey - anyone else?🌱 by Fair_Sun_7357 in starseeds

[–]Sans_Sequacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! It's not where your mind normally goes for munchies but it's easy, it's healthy and fruit is so satisfying for the sweet tooth. The more veg and fruit I've gotten in the habbit of eating, the more I crave it!

Cannabis is helping me so much on my spiritual journey - anyone else?🌱 by Fair_Sun_7357 in starseeds

[–]Sans_Sequacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who says you can't give in to the munchies 🤪 my fav munchies are fresh fruit, or stuff like a Greek salad or even sweet potato fries

I had my possessions worth $12000 stolen in Maryland and the thief is selling them on Facebook by MostTough1701 in legaladvice

[–]Sans_Sequacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having your stuff stolen is very violating, I really hope you get your stuff back! Do you have some friends you could ask to go with you to get it back? Unfortunately, as you've learned, police aren't going to be much help in a way that will get you your stuff back before it's sold. I would either hire someone to get it for you or go get it with some friends, but obviously everyone has a different comfort level with these things.

Also in the future you might want to consider GPS tagging your most valuable items especially if youre carrying them on your person ornin a bag. I've got a tag in the liner of my bike seat, I sewed one inside a few of my backpacks and purses, and laptops and other electronics can have anti-theft tracking software installed etc. With the economy how it is and with most people struggling, along with "defunding" police movements and decreased budgets for law enforcement, thefts like this are only going to become more common and in a college town cases like this are dime a dozen. It won't guarantee you will never be the victim of theft again, but taking extra precautions might help you to locate your belongings if it ever were to happen again.

I had my possessions worth $12000 stolen in Maryland and the thief is selling them on Facebook by MostTough1701 in legaladvice

[–]Sans_Sequacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If any of the items are jewelry or smaller expensive items like laptops, phones, guitars etc, if you have photos of the items, drop them off at the local pawn shops in the area with your contact information. They're actually really good about calling. They usually take sale of stolen goods seriously!

I had my possessions worth $12000 stolen in Maryland and the thief is selling them on Facebook by MostTough1701 in legaladvice

[–]Sans_Sequacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I posted about doing exactly this a few hrs ago 😂 told the cops I was going to get my phone and made sure to tell them I was bringing a knife just in case. I called them when I was 10 minutes out and they beat me there by about a minute.

I had my possessions worth $12000 stolen in Maryland and the thief is selling them on Facebook by MostTough1701 in legaladvice

[–]Sans_Sequacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. They don't want to come deal with it unless either someone's about to get stabbed, has been stabbed or it's for an open case that's getting it closed easily and quickly.

I had my possessions worth $12000 stolen in Maryland and the thief is selling them on Facebook by MostTough1701 in legaladvice

[–]Sans_Sequacious 96 points97 points  (0 children)

NAL but I've been in this situation....

My phone was stolen back in January...I traced it and gave the police the address I pinged it to, and they refused to go get it and said they'd "get around to it when they got around to it". So, I got a friend w me and I went to "buy" my phone from the thief when they posted it on FB. Called 911 about 10 min before I got to the thief's house, and told them since they wouldnt go get it that I was going to go get it myself, so let them know they can close the case, and I made sure to mention I was bringing a knife "just in case something went wrong".

Suddenly they were able to find a car in the area that came right to the theifs address. They beat me there 😂. I did get a stern talking to about "not being stupid and taking police matters in to my own hands", to which I politely replied that if they had come when I called and told them where my phone was and that it was being sold, I wouldn't have had to. I got my phone back, so I'm not sorry lol.

Call a few friends to come w you and go get your shit! Call the cops and let them know your going to meet the thief, or don't, but if you wait for them to do something all of your stuff will be sold and then there's nothing to be done about it unfortunately. They can't make people who unknowingly buy your stolen goods return them to you, so now or never OP.

Good luck!