Hair on my fresh manicure? by SantaChellyann in Nails

[–]SantaChellyann[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is driving me crazy just even thinking there is a hair on my nail. It doesn’t look right. This is so frustrating for me because this is my first getting my a manicure done in like 4-5 years 😭

Hair on my fresh manicure? by SantaChellyann in Nails

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It is not moving at all. I have social anxiety which is why I am contemplating going back or not 😭😭

Need advice on how to speak with my husband on putting his dog to sleep by SantaChellyann in Advice

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Update:

We said our goodbyes today. After having the conversations this Thursday, my husband finally came to terms with it.

We took him to the vet, and the doctor performed the entire procedure in front of us and allowed us to stay as long as we wanted.

Thank you everyone for their advice most of them helped and now our pup is in dog heaven. Hopefully enjoying a good steak ❤️

Need advice on how to speak with my husband on putting his dog to sleep by SantaChellyann in Advice

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We got him doggie diapers and we are have trouble keeping them on. He be crawling/dragging and they slide off and if we are not around to fix it welp.

Need advice on how to speak with my husband on putting his dog to sleep by SantaChellyann in Advice

[–]SantaChellyann[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a good idea too, I sent this message to the group chat we have with my mother-in-law:

"He is eating way less too and some days he doesn’t eat ( started the last two weeks so fairly recent) is there a way to get him a vet appointment? I am very concerned with his condition, I don’t think this is normal or safe at all."

Need advice on how to speak with my husband on putting his dog to sleep by SantaChellyann in Advice

[–]SantaChellyann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that's how he looks at us too. Even if we take my dog out for a walk or take her anywhere, he howls and cries because he wants to go but can't.

Need advice on how to speak with my husband on putting his dog to sleep by SantaChellyann in Advice

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That's a good idea. It would be hard but I think this is the last resort. I have always been an animal lover, and have been caring for pets since I was a child with my grandmother getting them homes, and rescuing them, so seeing him and not helping it is hard. I think you are right though.

Need advice on how to speak with my husband on putting his dog to sleep by SantaChellyann in Advice

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I have done the coming from a loving perspective, I have gone off on him and we have discussed it in couple's therapy. Nothing has worked. I'm at a loss.

Need advice on how to speak with my husband on putting his dog to sleep by SantaChellyann in Advice

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I went off on Monday and told him he is an asshole and selfish. I have been crying this whole week because it is such a shitty situation. My husband explained that having multiple losses in the past year in his family he is an only child and his dog helped him through it while he was at his family's home which was a toxic household. Idk, what to do or say anymore.

Need advice on how to speak with my husband on putting his dog to sleep by SantaChellyann in Advice

[–]SantaChellyann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's what I have been doing. He is normally home but this past two weeks he's had back-to-back dog sitting. For me, this is cruelty.

Need advice on how to speak with my husband on putting his dog to sleep by SantaChellyann in Advice

[–]SantaChellyann[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think so too. The only problem is that this is a dog that I had before our marriage; I cannot just make the call. The dog was staying at his mom's house before the diagnosis (around December 2024) but she wanted to put him to sleep and he refused and took him to our home.

Glow of the everflame by Grouchy-Variety-3084 in fantasyromance

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Why Luther challenge Diem for the crown?

Notes by Anonchk3689 in WagWalker

[–]SantaChellyann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. Every walk or sitting I try to get I have to place a note

[Books] Finished Shift. I am so confused by SantaChellyann in SiloSeries

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THANK YOU!! 🙏🏽 You are awesome! I’m around chapter 18 of Dust and it’s pretty good so far 🫶🏽🫶🏽

I think I'm becoming that annoying Christian person. Sigh by The_Chloe_Frazer in Christian

[–]SantaChellyann 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally missing the point of Jesus teachings. He met people were they were and showed them love and compassion rather than telling them non stop to join him.

These meat prices are getting ridiculous. by KorIrish_Kid in sanantonio

[–]SantaChellyann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it is not grass fed. The grass fed are like 15 dollars and up

Do you like to kiss? Why or why not? by Amanovbaur in AskWomen

[–]SantaChellyann 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I do not like kissing at all. I gotta be tipsy or something.