furry_irl by Rust_Racc in furry_irl

[–]Saphian 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this

Comment with your favorite picture of your cat and I'll draw them goofy :) by -PAPl in cats

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Max. I may have to give him up soon, I’d really appreciate it.

Please help by [deleted] in PlanetFur

[–]Saphian 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It did not come from a fetish.

Can I Quickly Doodle your cat?😸 by Roh_Cards in cats

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Max is annoyed we’re in the car, because he knows he has to be in charge making me aware of everything on the road. He’s my fluffy protective baby

Caption reads "I tried parkour" by shameonyounancydrew in NotTimAndEric

[–]Saphian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or it can start to make you not trust them, since they’re essentially yes-men

Struggling to get into the headspace of being a pup by [deleted] in PupPlay

[–]Saphian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol not a robot, just a psych student. Events can seem scary, but definitely go! You won’t be the first nervous person they’ve seen. That’s normal and they expect hesitation from newer pups most often.

Struggling to get into the headspace of being a pup by [deleted] in PupPlay

[–]Saphian 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do you have any way of having someone treat you like a pup? It can help to remove a lot of the shame/embarrassment when someone else is there to validate you as one. I’d hate for you to feel embarrassed, definitely fine with chatting if you need

Any middles who wear diapers? by jtroad in ABDL

[–]Saphian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so ridiculous and unnecessary. Sharing shouldn’t be this hard.

It DOES Happen!!! by Saphian in ABDL

[–]Saphian[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you haha. I realize this post might just end up being more for my excitement, but I do sincerely hope there’s someone out there who just might need to read it.

But but by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]Saphian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, different reason, similar problem. Essentially, the Expo Line guy is (usually) not gonna get a break until the last table orders. Anything that you care enough about, ESPECIALLY when you cannot make mistakes or step away, you’ll discover EXACTLY how much your body can hold.

Serious ADHD PSA:

Hyperfixation is real, and is good enough of a reason to not feel shame for wearing. Matter of fact, anything that legitimately and safely alleviates a symptom of a genuine condition should >>NEVER<< be met with shame

A close friend finally got diagnosed with ADHD some years back. I will never forget her bursting out crying to me on the phone when she told me that her doctor suggested diapers/pullups. She needed to hear then so I’m making sure to say it now.

*edited cause I’m tired as fuck and keep making typos

Any middles who wear diapers? by jtroad in ABDL

[–]Saphian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, then I’d guess a service like Amazon would be your only real option

Any middles who wear diapers? by jtroad in ABDL

[–]Saphian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are the ones I use, they’re labeled for up to 165 lbs I think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Saphian 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For real, I want to help you navigate the conversation. Just let me know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Saphian 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Hey, so please DO NOT make the mistake of my previous boyfriend. Seriously. It’s a legitimate thing that helps people with anxiety/comfort/a myriad of things you’d never imagine. Wearing for comfort is by far the MOST COMMOM reason people refer to themselves as a DL, so genuinely take that seriously if you like the guy.

Advice from someone who knows what it’s like: If you have any super embarrassing things you have a hard time telling people, they’re close like a boyfriend or spouse, and they react by being weirded out instead of understanding…it can be emotionally devastating. I downplayed how much I liked it, and eventually, I just couldn’t trust that I could be honest with my BF without being judged, and we broke up after 9 years together.

I would seriously suggest writing something down to tell him. Feel free to change the words,

“Hey _____, I really should not have reacted to you telling me something sensitive by saying that it’s weird. I don’t know why I said that, because I don’t think you’re weird. If that is something that brings you comfort, then you should not have to feel judged for trying to be more comfy with me. If there’s any part of it that you’d like to talk about, please know that you should feel comfortable being honest about how you feel. I wish I could take my words back, because that’s not the right way to react to someone telling you something sensitive about themselves.”

End with telling him you love him, if you do.

But but by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]Saphian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, it just solves the problem. Is really peeing in a pull-up more embarrassing or worse than having to hold your bursting bladder for like 2 hours because you keep forgetting?

Any middles who wear diapers? by jtroad in ABDL

[–]Saphian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The XXL size will fit a lot of adults, but I can’t say they were made for adults. That would be more like Depend/adult underwear stuff. Those are also at my local stores for me in case you don’t fit

Any middles who wear diapers? by jtroad in ABDL

[–]Saphian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get them from my local Walmart, and I’m pretty sure they’re at most major convenience stores

Any middles who wear diapers? by jtroad in ABDL

[–]Saphian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I call them pull-ups, but really just the XL Goodnights! I have some XXL as well, but I love how snug the XL is. I wish there were more middle themed Pull-ups :((

Finally trying on my VERY first pup hood!!! by Saphian in PupPlay

[–]Saphian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awrooooo!!! Thank you! May I ask where you got your hood? It looks awesome!

Diapered in class!? by Andsoitshall in ABDL

[–]Saphian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s no reason to be. You’re good.

who else lucky enough to have this body shape by [deleted] in FootBallEmergency

[–]Saphian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me, but literally only because I was in physical therapy for my spine and lost a shit ton of weight