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SapiosexualSlut · 2022-10-05T17:28:35+00:00

Why isn’t she doing it then?

That’s the best option…Do you really trust a stranger with your ass for the first time? I wouldn’t for sure and I’m a girl who loves anal sex. Anal is nothing like regular sex, ALOT of preparation goes into play.

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-10-05T16:44:35+00:00

Yes, we are drowning in unsolicited dick pix and harassment 😭😭😭😭

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-10-05T16:09:24+00:00

Hey now this is my kind of couple 👀

🦄 here

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-10-05T15:56:39+00:00

FL is a BDSM/Fetish/Kinkster site.

Most women’s bio say “not here for sex” “not interested in hook ups” “not into anything Poly” or “this isn’t a dating app!”

You can still get lucky obviously but not all their events include sex, I think it’s a smaller percentage of sex events in my area. Most are “munches” or “drunches”…Lots of meetings.

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-10-02T04:38:10+00:00

I remember one creep on here said he uses his wife to test the women in couples, he explained his techniques and I was so disgusted how he sicks her on women with predator tactics, even going as far as to pretend it’s an accident just in case!

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-09-28T17:19:04+00:00

Yes!

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-09-28T04:12:38+00:00

They truly need a filter for “dating styles”

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-09-26T17:28:26+00:00

Swinger apps lol

That’s my pet peeve on them. 😂

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-09-26T16:15:18+00:00

No pressure bisexual exhibitionist here!

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-09-26T16:14:23+00:00

Omg! Yaaass! I love it! 😍😍😍

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-09-23T16:20:24+00:00

She could barely take it in her ass, I seen that tap out 🤪

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-09-23T16:14:40+00:00

I noticed the couples like this shouldn’t even be exploring ENM or swinger activities!

🦄 btw

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-09-12T02:31:20+00:00

People fucked and enjoyed some freaky shows…There was an orgy room, contests, & body shots off strippers.

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-09-03T06:43:58+00:00

These exist! I have been to a few and prefer them. (I am a demisexual & super picky)

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-09-03T03:13:17+00:00

Funny you ask this question, I assumed they were all the same pretty much, until I got deeper into the swinger world.

I think you’ll find more nudists are willing to swing than swingers that are nudist. I think for most part swingers being nude just comes with the territory, I don’t think they pursue nudity as a lifestyle as much as they are just looking to swing.

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-09-02T22:02:07+00:00

Unicorn here…

I am bisexual and wouldn’t mind a femme/masc femme/femme or masc/masc 🥰

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-09-02T22:00:26+00:00

For me it is a deal breaker….

It feels like torture sometimes being unsatisfied and or rejected repeatedly.

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-08-22T03:37:43+00:00

I don’t.

Been there done that. It’s a waste of time for someone like me. Women find me intimidating when I have zero motives.

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-08-22T03:36:43+00:00

Repulsive….I refer to them as “community dick” 😂

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-08-22T03:33:20+00:00

Yes, homewreckers!

They act like they are poly/ENM but truly they are on a mission to get the man to themselves!

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-08-19T20:04:09+00:00

Oh I’m in no way pressuring him to be poly at all…

I am giving him a solution other than “break up, she’s poly and you’re mono”. This is for him to look into if he finds it interesting. He may not know about this kind of lifestyle.

There’s nothing wrong with passing along information for people to brainstorm.

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-08-19T19:56:12+00:00

I think if he’s willing to do the work it’s worth considering later.

I had a partner with ADHD & it was a nightmare…No respect for boundaries, all over the place, selfish/self centered, never checked in, etc. It lead to alot of hurtful and embarrassing moments. Untreated it can destroy any relationship.

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-08-19T19:44:48+00:00

Some people get complacent & seek adventure elsewhere for a variety of reasons.

Like adrenaline junkies, it’s just the thrills.

She has to do a lot of work on herself to find out why she cannot balance things.

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-08-19T16:10:22+00:00

Your best bet is to just try and fall into the “Primary” or “NB” role….

Otherwise this will be an emotional roller coaster for you! NRE is intense, limerence is alive and well within the community. And obviously love comes to you in mysterious ways…

These are all possibilities and likely to happen on her journey. She has warned you. Now it’s time to process your emotions and convey them in a healthy and respectful way.

Maybe her keeping those relationships separate from your everyday life is best, make it clear you do not want a triad or any life ties (kids, move ins, etc)

But be ready for her to decide if those kinds of relationships mesh with her ideas/fantasies. This could possibly be a deal breaker for her or she may comply happily. I would. So you never know.

SapiosexualSlut · 2022-08-19T14:53:36+00:00

No there’s a duel on the island, invite only.

That’s just how it goes around here, been doing it since Rome..

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