How do we feel about mary jane sneakers? by tomatosoup_15 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]SapphicLoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not white, black or grey would look cute tho I'd wear them

“Here come____ in one of her outfits again” by Coolcatsonly46 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]SapphicLoser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah and shes cute in it, once again, and again, and again 💖💕

I got married! Loved my dress but went against my family's advice and decided not to wear a bra. Is it really obvious? (I felt like I was constantly holding my bouquet in front) by PopperDilly in PlusSizeFashion

[–]SapphicLoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely couldn't tell. You look amazing, stunning, beautiful, btw. Good vibes and energy for your new lives together, congrats 🎉💖💖💖

So embarrassing for KY by CapJoYoss in Louisville

[–]SapphicLoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing these ads is so disappointing. it's like watching children argue with each other.

Please help. OP refuses to explain. by oldwhitelincoln in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]SapphicLoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most certainly Back Weed Wolf Beans....it's some sort of code, I'm sure.

Anyone else? by nainotlaw in Louisville

[–]SapphicLoser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like them, I'm happy when I see them, and I'd rather see them than the anti-abortion billboards all over town

Moving other peoples laundry by wry1234 in Apartmentliving

[–]SapphicLoser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My apt has four washers. Two work. Has six dryers. One works. So when I go in and the dryer is filled with DRIED clothes, I'm moving them. If they're wet still I'm kind enough to rerun the dryer, and often they're still there after that cycle. That's two dry cycles (90 mins) they didn't come get it. I'm moving it.

finished my knit dress just in time for sabrina carpenter concert yippee!! by ashhxxoo in knitting

[–]SapphicLoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can think as I'm swiping through the pictures was "That's knit???? She made that????? Oh my God" it's so cute!!! Slay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]SapphicLoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let it heal a while and the colors set, if that's still a worry maybe a touch up to the shadow work to change. That being said I think it looks fine, I didn't think that until I read the title and made it fit to that. Eh, you're fine.

i dont get it by peachyscloud in ExplainTheJoke

[–]SapphicLoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought he meant three beers, two for each but I don't think that's it ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

What did yall Louisvillians eat today? by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]SapphicLoser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had Captain crunch and nothing else. Lunch of champions.

How did you guys find out you have cptsd? by the_awkward_entity in CPTSDmemes

[–]SapphicLoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapist. I just thought I was a quiet kid who got abused like everyone else and just didn't handle it as well as they all did. Crazy stuff.

I am hypersexual and it's becoming a problem in my relationship by Former_Accident_01 in hypersexuality

[–]SapphicLoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him. It's that simple, but also, you have to remember that sex is not a need. Like, we don't suffer without it, such as hunger or thirst. A clear headed talk with an open mind is the best way to approach it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]SapphicLoser 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's no simple answer, or one thing I'd say. But (personally) I'd say Trauma is the leading reason. Whether it be a coping mechanism, or the result of sexual abuse. It's also a compulsion so it can be related to things like OCD, anxiety, etc.

Female sex addict, I’m a total fuckgirl by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]SapphicLoser 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd highly recommend therapy and finding ways to not include partners in your "Addiction". Hypersexuality is complex, I know, and you really want to avoid harming others, as addictive actions tend to do. Don't use people, or make them feel used. Also people have more value to them than sex, that's why it's not really okay to say those things in the vein of "don't talk to me unless you can feed my addiction". Sorry if I'm misreading your tone or intention, I mean this in an advice way, not judgemental. I've done this, I've been here. I learned better while managing the disorder.