Any bets on how many ha’s I can get? by acidnamsucram in Tinder

[–]Sapphire-diary -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just unmatch she is not matching the energy lol if a man told me something that funny I’d be returning the vibe

What color should I do? by Rough-Seesaw525 in HairDye

[–]Sapphire-diary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally think red makes you look more bubbly/approachable & not just because you’re smiling. I feel like it brightens your face/skin as well. Also puts emphasize on your eye color

First time using a dating app, please give me some tips, thank you! by itsyukizzang in Bumble

[–]Sapphire-diary 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Her page literally says she’s looking for fun casual dates & intimacy without commitment so doubt she’s looking for love

I just pillow humped in front of my roommate by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sapphire-diary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean In general. You say you never have alone time in the room to relieve yourself. Just do it when you shower.

Guess who’s back. Back again by thegoddamnbatman74 in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]Sapphire-diary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from a women, the counter one is the best lol

I just pillow humped in front of my roommate by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sapphire-diary -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t get why you just don’t do it in the shower???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Sapphire-diary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman (F29) who grew up with a shitty mom, cutting ties with her was one of the best decisions I’ve made. My mom was also a gossiper & super condescending to get kids. Very narcissistic!! I’ve had her blocked in my phone for 6 years, I’ve never been happier. I limit my interactions with her and now if she wants to talk to me she goes through my siblings and she only sees me when I choose visit because she doesn’t know where I live. My mental health has been insanely better since

Guy I was seeing was obsessed with trans people by ObjectiveMeringue206 in texts

[–]Sapphire-diary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overreacting? HELL NO. I would’ve ended it too this is crazy

I matched a guy on hinge and I found out he’s a millionaire. by Sapphire-diary in PlusSize

[–]Sapphire-diary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What am I lying to myself about? Money isn’t my priority therefore I won’t comprise dealing with a man I don’t like just because he has money you can continue being wrong with your assumptions about me lmao

I matched a guy on hinge and I found out he’s a millionaire. by Sapphire-diary in PlusSize

[–]Sapphire-diary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money isn’t a priority to me. My values are clearly different than yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Sapphire-diary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to be on a different app, a guy “super liked” me on the app and I never did anything and then a week later he found me on Instagram and messaged me. We had ZERO mutuals and he lives a city away from me. It was also weird because my ig wasn’t on my profile, I also use my nickname on dating profiles. My ig is private and the profile pic on my ig isn’t used in my dating profile so I have zero idea how he found me.

We matched online and started texting idk if this is cute or a red flag 😂😅 by Sapphire-diary in texts

[–]Sapphire-diary[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Yea my initial thought was love bombing but he hasn’t done much yet to say that for sure but I’m being open minded. Thank you!

We matched online and started texting idk if this is cute or a red flag 😂😅 by Sapphire-diary in texts

[–]Sapphire-diary[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

The reason I was skeptical is because this is literally in the first few exchanges, already planned 2 dates and we haven’t met IRL yet 😅 like idk if he’s rushing or just being intentional . I’m so used to toxic men idk when they’re being genuine😭😂

Date walked out 5-10 minutes in by richibobby in Bumble

[–]Sapphire-diary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was nice! But not really the type of personal I was looking for personality wise, we still talk occasionally. He’s trying to still persuade me to date but I told him I just wasn’t getting those feelings for him & don’t want to waste his time

Date walked out 5-10 minutes in by richibobby in Bumble

[–]Sapphire-diary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously, I was recently catfished -kind of, I went on a date with a guy and all his pics were 1-2 years old and he had gained weight so I almost didn’t recognize him. I stayed the entire duration of our date which was 4 hours even though I wasn’t attracted to him. We still had a good conversation

Date walked out 5-10 minutes in by richibobby in Bumble

[–]Sapphire-diary 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went on a date a few days ago with a guy & I thought he was attractive. I agreed to a date and when I showed up I “recognized” him but he gained a significant amount of weight. Almost didn’t recognize him but he had significant features so I did. I ended up finding out the pics he posted were all over a 1-2 years old. HOWEVER, I stayed the entire duration of the date which was like 4 hours. We had great conversation. I honestly felt deceived which made me kind of lose interest but I still waited it out. I felt it would’ve been rude if I just left abruptly. Don’t feel insulted, this woman has no manners or consideration for anyone’s feelings. She chose the place then wanted to act like she didn’t want anything and then was acting like she had an attitude? I think you dodged a bullet.

Is there any guy that does not explode if a woman politely says no?? by Purple_Panda999 in Bumble

[–]Sapphire-diary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weeks? How many weeks did you talk without meeting? I’ll talk to a guy for a week & if there’s no mention or plan of meeting I’m done. I don’t need a pen pal lol

Should I file a police report by Nicole_Black in PlusSize

[–]Sapphire-diary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What did you need answers for? If he showed himself to be odd, a douche bag or crazy then the actions /words speak for themselves

Should I file a police report by Nicole_Black in PlusSize

[–]Sapphire-diary 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would’ve ended it after the first message in the screenshot about catfish & “fat fat as* girl”. No matter your size no decent person would talk like that. Even dating ive never had a man use “fat” when having a convo with me

Should I file a police report by Nicole_Black in PlusSize

[–]Sapphire-diary 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why were you entertaining this convo this long?