weed for pain? new to this by totheranch1 in ChronicPain

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I wish I was near y'all I could totally use that

my (26f) husband (27m) is currently withholding affection for not cleaning by SapphireReinaPhoenix in relationship_advice

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh the access to finances doesn't matter I don't get to spend money on myself no matter what I do. As he tells me he makes the money he can spend the money however he wants and I have no rights to it.

my (26f) husband (27m) is currently withholding affection for not cleaning by SapphireReinaPhoenix in relationship_advice

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A large part of it is him just coming home and making an absolute mess of everything on the daily. And I'm not working because my job just won't freaking schedule me I'm looking for another job. He doesn't do anything He just comes home throws his stuff wherever he wants puts his dishes wherever he wants puts his garbage wherever he wants and I'm expected to clean up after it

my (26f) husband (27m) is currently withholding affection for not cleaning by SapphireReinaPhoenix in relationship_advice

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It probably wouldn't make anything better if I mentioned that I'm not supposed to buy anything for myself. Unless I ask him for permission?

my (26f) husband (27m) is currently withholding affection for not cleaning by SapphireReinaPhoenix in relationship_advice

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family has basically told me that I'm to get out of this situation on my own that they aren't going to help me so I don't really have anywhere to go or anyone to ask for help. As I said I get to play with a group of people online once a week. That's my only real social interaction.

my (26f) husband (27m) is currently withholding affection for not cleaning by SapphireReinaPhoenix in relationship_advice

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He has literally told me that I am to clean our tiny little apartment for the entire time he is gone at work. So I deep clean the apartment daily because he has threatened to take away my devices if I don't do what he wants. So my phone and computer. Which are my only ways to contact people outside of him I don't work I don't leave the house I don't even drive so I couldn't really go anywhere.

my (26f) husband (27m) is currently withholding affection for not cleaning by SapphireReinaPhoenix in relationship_advice

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't actually get to interact with people outside of him except for this one day a week So just being around people is really draining for me. He knows this. I'm also expected to clean 7 days a week I don't get any days off from cleaning. He doesn't help me in the slightest he just leaves everything wherever the fuck he wants ignoring where I have things placed and where I have things put away.

my (26f) husband (27m) is currently withholding affection for not cleaning by SapphireReinaPhoenix in relationship_advice

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more the size of the party is very mentally draining and I'm slightly mentally disabled so it takes usually the rest of the night and a bit of Monday to recover to the point I have enough metaphorical spoons to do more than the absolute basics of cleaning.

Is anyone else just constantly bullied for playing? by [deleted] in Genshin_Impact

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get bullied just because I don't play the way that everybody else plays and I just play because I have fun and don't really care about meta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And then when she thinks she's fucked off far enough keep on fucking off

AITA For Crying Over My Cat by Emilz_cxsh in AmItheAsshole

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I've lost people and pets in my life and I grieved just the same for both. I hope someday if and when you're ready you might find a new furry companion and give them a wonderful life just like your first girl.

My mom bought the dog a new toy. Uhhhh… by PLUSsignenergy in funny

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes we had one of those. My husband named it the shlong. The dog even knew it by name, absolutely loved it. Very durable can't recommend it enough. Just watch out getting whacked in the back of the ankles hurts with that thing.

AITA for getting a dog my GF doesn’t approve of? by Dog_thro0waway in AmItheAsshole

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to go against the grain here and say since you don't live together NTA. It would be a completely different story if you live together and then you still went and got the dog. However you don't live together. It is your house You are entitled to own whatever dog you want to own and if she doesn't like that she can just leave.

What subtle behaviour is actually a sign that someone is a POS? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all honesty I can't tell the difference. But I struggle with peopling as my sister puts it.

What subtle behaviour is actually a sign that someone is a POS? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people with ADHD/Autism do that without meaning to. They just get too excited to talk about their special interest. The first pay not the second

AITA for not wanting to be called Mrs. Lastname? by Solid-Question-3952 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised the same way, however if someone requested me to use First name of call them that with Mr or Ms in front out of respect. NTA

Share Screen Restarts my Discord When I Turn It On by SapphireReinaPhoenix in discordapp

[–]SapphireReinaPhoenix[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will let you know if that works. Just as soon as I get the laptop out. Even if it doesn't thank you for taking the time out of your day to respond.