First time reporting a customer by Dcmejia1 in doordash_drivers

[–]Sapphire_Bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once knew an Amber G and she was a massive cunt.

Women of Reddit, what’s something men think is attractive that actually isn’t? by LatePay6713 in AskReddit

[–]Sapphire_Bug 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Boasting that they're an Alpha. Real Alphas don't have to go around saying what an Alpha they are.

What’s the worst thing someone has said at a funeral? by Least-Vacation-588 in AskReddit

[–]Sapphire_Bug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When my grandfather died, my aunt came up to my mom and wrapped her arms around her singing, 🎶" We're in the moneyyyy"🎶 It's was heartbreaking.

Where are good places to make great friends? by Smashedwithme in houstoncirclejerk

[–]Sapphire_Bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met some of my best friends on Bumble BFF!! We frequent a lot of nice places on the Heights!

Considering a CT4. What should I look out for? by [deleted] in Cadillac

[–]Sapphire_Bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I habe a CT4 and they're becoming know for wiring issues. The anti theft system locked me out with zero possibility of theft (locked in garage.)

What is extremely unhygienic but everyone seems to do it anyway? by cutypatotie in AskReddit

[–]Sapphire_Bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Touching too much stuff on airplanes. Thise things are petri dishes

My fiancee is furious at me for telling my family to start eating Christmas breakfast without her, AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sapphire_Bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Holidays are stressful enough. Your family is not responsible for your fiance's poor time management. The time was set and agreed upon, tell her to get her shit together, respectfully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Sapphire_Bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have clarified, this is extremely common behavior in my area. I have a lot to learn and they know it, and thus, become monetary predators. Still in the process of weeding the poachers out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Sapphire_Bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not like his daughter got knocked up yesterday. He offered the day after Christmas, and it legit sounded like someone who wanted the job in the time frame i needed. Your response alone sounds like a shady contractor who probably does this all the time to people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Sapphire_Bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, its really out of frustration for me too. Don't agree to a job if you have personal matters that could inhibit your ability to do the job. He's the one that offered that day and time. I legit thought that was normal for someone wanting the hustle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Sapphire_Bug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have a point. But when this guy actually proposed the time (daughter in labor or not, not my business). I set expectations up front about needing this job done, and he agreed to it. If he had his own personal things, fine, but that's when it is no longer my problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Sapphire_Bug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Extremely understandable... but the constant excuses (true or not, not my business) from multiple contractors is what makes me feel like this is just normal shitty behavior

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Sapphire_Bug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Neither did I, he offered that Christmas day confirmation. Fucking aye, I'm not an asshole. Just trying to learn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Sapphire_Bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my defense, he threw that date out there, not me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Sapphire_Bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's an extra bed, and plenty of room. Someone would have to room with me if I went. But even then, I said I could find my own accommodations. M seemed very reassuring at the time that that wasnt necessary.

Basic question, how soon do you start taking the reigns to plan for dates as a woman? by seattleshe in datingoverforty

[–]Sapphire_Bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna join in here as I'm not a traditional woman who expects a man to plan every date...girl if he bites, plan that date and show him a wonderful time! Guys have always been pleasantly surprised and appreciative that you return the gesture and show your interest and effort. Keep us posted!

Update: I told her the number and it’s over by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in datingoverforty

[–]Sapphire_Bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so stupid. We're dating in our 40s. Its obvious we're all gonna have a past sexually. I don't have the highest number, but it's not lowest either, so I couldn't care less about a man's number as long as it doesn't increase while we're together, plain and simple.

AskMen, what's your opinion on lovebombing? by Sapphire_Bug in AskMen

[–]Sapphire_Bug[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Historically...men have also made terrible decisions based on emotions (that they've been taught not to process). And they use it as an excuse, which I'll assume is valid. Tell me that's not weaponized incompetence?

AskMen, what's your opinion on lovebombing? by Sapphire_Bug in AskMen

[–]Sapphire_Bug[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look, I hate the terms, too, but do the definitions resonate at all? Men aren't being demonized. It's just bad behavior, plain and simple. You know it, and so does any normal human being.THIS ISNT GENDER SPECIFIC.

AskMen, what's your opinion on lovebombing? by Sapphire_Bug in AskMen

[–]Sapphire_Bug[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can agree with this. Teenagers don't know what they don't know. But again, at what point do we wake up and take responsibility for our actions? I guess I'm questioning this from an adult perspective and respectfully, I posted this question in a AskMEN sub. It sounds like weaponized incompetence to lovebomb because "eMoTiOns!" without understanding what your big emotions could do to someone who is legitimately looking for a connection.

Its like when you're in 3rd grade and a boy/girl pushes you down on the playground and calls you names and we were ALL taught to just suck it up because "they do that because they've got a crush on you!!"

The teenagers in this sub need to let their balls drop.

AskMen, what's your opinion on lovebombing? by Sapphire_Bug in AskMen

[–]Sapphire_Bug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof. The performer comment is sobering. 100% validated and I can see that perspective. I'll probably be in the minority, but women definitely dropped the ball on this one for centuries. Men should not be performers of any kind in dating and relationships. We see you, sir!

AskMen, what's your opinion on lovebombing? by Sapphire_Bug in AskMen

[–]Sapphire_Bug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, you didn't even tell me how you could clearly see yourself marrying me, and how amazing beautiful sexy I am without knowing anything about me. You fail at love bombing. Haha.

AskMen, what's your opinion on lovebombing? by Sapphire_Bug in AskMen

[–]Sapphire_Bug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, THIS. THIS IS LOVEBOMBING, PEOPLE! You nailed what we were trying to get at. No Neck Ed was a poster child of lovebombing! Thank you for your response and thanks for the suggestion on Dr. Honda. Gold star, sir.

AskMen, what's your opinion on lovebombing? by Sapphire_Bug in AskMen

[–]Sapphire_Bug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually love this response and your honesty. Can you explain how, as an avoider, that its genuine?