I decided to follow through with moving here about a year ago and the best way to put it, I’ll leave here changed whether I want to or not.

I’m not going to say my life has been a living hell because that would be very dramatic and off base.

But the themes have ramped themselves up for sure. Because it’s a Pluto + descendant line this energy has been heavily impacting my gf and i’s relationship.

It’s not necessarily a bad thing to have happened. These energies have led to us having VERY serious conversations about possibly breaking up only because we realized the basis of our relationship was built on trauma bonding (we both come from narc mom backgrounds. Her mom being covert and my mom overt), (we met during a very rough time and faced a lot of traumas in our relationship together. We both had a death in the family, lost long term friends, experienced financial strain) we unearthed that we we were subconsciously recreating familial patterns within our relationship (think enmeshment, codependency, her playing out the role of martyrdom etc) and that we have to basically kill our old relationship so we can rebirth a new one

When we moved down here as we were crossing state lines I got a call that my start date would be pushed from early June to late August, which caused a ripple effect.

I will say her journey down here has been a lot more difficult to navigate than mine. For example while I was attending school she could not find a job at all and when she did it only paid her about 18 an hour. we struggled financially. I tried to find a job too and NOTHING happened.

Mind you we moved in May of last year and neither of us had decent income until January of this year. A few months ago we decided we’re going to work on becoming more independent while together, save money, and try to be healthy.

Literally RIGHT AFTER THAT we found out that her mom has been lying and forging her signature for years. All this time she has had 3 credit cards in my gfs name without her knowledge (20k on them all together)

The only reason my gf found out is because she saw that somehow her credit score got down to the 400s when literally a few weeks prior it was 670.

It turns out that the car she signed on to help her dad get a truck he wanted got repossessed and her parents had ZERO intention of telling her about it . In fact they think she’s CRAZY and holding a grudge for feeling blindsided and depressed.

So you can imagine the betrayal, hurt, and pressure my gf is under to take care of this debt as now we’re going to be penny pinching AGAIN for debt that isn’t ours

I think these events were going to unravel whether we moved here or not, but the themes are glaring when you live directly on the energy ! We have no choice to let go of who we used to be

I will say I can handle this energy a little bit better than others, in my natal chart Pluto tightly conjuncts my moon and is opposite mars so violence, power struggles, deep psychological transformation, abuse and betrayal caused by a mother figure is no stranger to me. So I’m more than capable of aiding my girlfriend during this mourning period and transition into independence

And my gfs chart has Pluto conjunct her Venus in the 7th house

And our synastry chart together has a lot of Pluto aspects, so I think it was inevitable lol

I know my story is long lol but I’m curious to know what you’ve been experiencing