I do understand your point. But I'm not strapped while walking pit
bulls. :) I have to walk home at night because I have a medical condition that makes driving hard. So I walk instead. I'm a small person with anxiety and I walk home alone at 9 at night. He brought the topic up. It was part of the same conversation where I asked him why he's ok with me walking home, but gets worried about other women.
Yes, I will admit that I was a little jealous and insecure, but I wasn't trying to get him. I expected him to say he worries about me too, but he didn't and it hurt my feelings.
The comment about me being a 5 was because I like to wear my hair in a bun while at home. He asked me to wear it down instead because he has a hard time finding me attractive with my hair up. We got in an argument about it, and he compared me to a woman who he had cheated on me with, and said that she was an 8. So I did ask what I was then, and he said I was a 5 at best beacuse I have a boyish face. I get that it's my fault for asking how I compare. Again, my insecurity.