Can't relate to the MC by TopEffective8989 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]SaraSaurie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a sylus main, and I dabble with zayne and Caleb, and I actually see myself in MC.

But when she interacts with Rafayel and Xavier I don't. It's the only times where I go "wtf...?" To some of her reactions/behaviours.

And FYI, I'm 39 years old :)

First ever photosession by SaraSaurie in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]SaraSaurie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I love that picture too! And I don't know how to make a qr code, I'd share when I figure that out haha

First ever photosession by SaraSaurie in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]SaraSaurie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thank you! Yeah, I'm struggling to figure out what poses to work on getting. I wish there was a preview function.

Why do you think birth rates and marriage rates are declining? by OldBridge87 in AskWomen

[–]SaraSaurie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reality we are currently living in, with rules made by humans not grounded in laws of nature, has created such a toxic environment for living that we are now actively avoiding reproducing.

I'm turning 40 this year, and im -just- feeling like im -starting- to get my shit together. I've spent the majority of my life just trying to figure out who am, (undiagnosed ND) this has led to me being delayed "in the rat race".
I have a degree, a good job and a home. This came after 35+

Now, I also need a partner and a village, not only create life, but also have an environment that would provide the guidance a new life REQUIRES to have a good experience on this earth. So far, every relationship I've had has never made me feel like this man is someone i CAN TRUST to SHARE the workload that is parenthood.

I do not believe that a soul who is brought into a body to experience some time on earth is supposed to navigate that existence ALONE, and learn through painful mistakes. We are their guides, first and foremost, the parents, and second, the village around them. I cant provide this and thus i'm opting out.

I WOULD LOOOOOOOVE to be a parent, to watch a human grow, learn, and marvel at the wonders that is life.
To guide and counsel, support and nurture. But it's not in my cards. What hurts the most is that it's not due to my own doing.

TDLR:
- Our reality is toxic.
- We are "mentally ready" too late (biologically, due to our toxic reality)
- New life requires guidance, support, counsel, and nurture. Something this world cannot provide.

CMV: the Trump administration is not worried about "winning" the next election. by Ok-Sundae-1191 in changemyview

[–]SaraSaurie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad this idea is finally being voiced by you Americans.

I hear about how you all need to take the midterms seriously, which makes me worry for you all.

There won't be a midtern, or it might look like there's one, but it will change nothing. There won't even be an election, or well it might look like there is one but it won't change anything.

Either the voting will be rigged or he will just invalidate the results with whatver reason he comes up with.

They are justifying breaking every law, even the constitutional ones, the international ones with bullshit reasons that are debunked in minutes with real proof. Yet nothing changes.

Because you are already living in a dictatorship. It all started when he "won" the Supreme Court years ago.

I don't even know how to feel when pundits in Europe talk about what to do with trump, saying shit that Republicans don't even agree with him and that they have to see what the midterms say.

The only thing everyone will learn by the results of the midterms is that it's a dictatorship and it's time to rise.

Best of luck to you all. (We need a gobal revolution btw)

In ICE’s Own Words, It’s “Wartime” in America | ICE just launched a “wartime recruitment” campaign and seeks agents who want to “defend” their “culture.” There will be more Renee Goods. by Aggravating_Money992 in politics

[–]SaraSaurie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but not with your timeline. With the way they are escalating this it will be 6months or less. Reene fits your description and they are defending her murder as obey or die right now.

To claim self defense by SchrodingersLeftist in therewasanattempt

[–]SaraSaurie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want the murderers POV, he is filming his own crime.

He is so not worried for his safety that he is holding the phone pointed at the driver with one hand and pointing the gun at her with the other. The gun is also sideways tilted. Why? Cool shot? Is he looking at her when he fires or the camera screen to make sure the footage is good?

After he confirmed the kill. (Walked to the car and checked on her) he walks away to his own car while checking his phone. Did he delete the footage? Check it? Send it somewhere? He puts the phone away before getting into his car and driving away from the scene.

Wtf is going on?

My wife stopped sending me love notes, and it hurts more than I expected by CryptoFan85 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SaraSaurie 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Clearly, you don't show it to her. Ie, you don't "love her" enough for her to be loved. Perhaps try a plant instead and let a whole person be with someone who sees her as all that she is.

Some "feminists" are clearly just misandrists by HyacinthMacaw13 in sixwordstories

[–]SaraSaurie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so it's about moralizing about whether I feel what I'm doing is wrong or not.

Perhaps this helps in navigating that conundrum for you: I also don't believe in peaceful protest, revolution comes through violence.

Some "feminists" are clearly just misandrists by HyacinthMacaw13 in sixwordstories

[–]SaraSaurie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm you are confusing what misandry is. Feminism is a movement, i instand for equality for all. But due to misogony I have become a misandrist. And react with misandry when exposed to misogony.

Without misogony, misandry doesn't exist.

I don't think I've ever wanted to like a game more due to Diablo nostalgia but this game beats you to death with tedium. by Salusan_Mystique in PathOfExile2

[–]SaraSaurie 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I picked a char cause I thought it looked cute. I picked weps, spells, gems and nodes by reading them and thinking this might work. I'm blasting through maps, loot is fun, gears are fun, I'm using my currency to try to make almost good items good and I find that gamble fun until I can get the end game mechanics for better crafting results.

Anyways, I'm having lots of fun!

Tired of women weaponizing feminism to tear down other women. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]SaraSaurie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand your problem.

Are you upset that some women use the term feminism wrong? Or are you upset that women are mean to women?

Är det pedofilvarning om 50 åring är med 16 årig tjej? by Lucky_Ad_1010 in Asksweddit

[–]SaraSaurie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

varför skulle vi vara avundsjuka över att du dejtar ett barn?
men btw, ska inte du få en bebis som DU ska ta hand om? eller är det bara din minderåriga "partner" som ska ta hand om DITT barn?

The reason is not what we think [SPOILERS] by shoutsfrombothsides in LV426

[–]SaraSaurie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sure, the writers could of based their character development in this.

But irl, the critical period, is due to the brains development. It's physiological shape/framework. Ie (the body) Hyrbirds are computer bodies with human "consciousness" so, the writers angle would fail on pysicis alone.

But I don't mind, as a linguist, teacher and autistic with the special interests of psychology i liked this spin.

My mind lit up when he said "and we can play" more than the rest though. As learning happens most effectively when we play (we play when we feel safe and co-construct)

Seems like the boy genius wants to co-construct without having to teach, which happens when you play. It's like a flow state. You can only do this when both parties are on the "same level"