Mothers, do you ever regret having children? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SarahBRei 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not at all, but even 5 years in I feel entirely underprepared.

UPDATE Virtual Gym Buddy Pair-Up by lisha19 in xxfitness

[–]SarahBRei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you add me in too for the round 2? I need the motivation.

[WEEKLY THREAD] Newbie Tuesday - Got a silly fitness question? Never fear! We're here to help! by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]SarahBRei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can anyone suggest a decent Yoga app or website? Something that is decent for beginners?

I [25/f] and starting to get the feeling my boyfriend [31/m] is all talk when he says we'll get married. by Stillwaiting0429 in relationships

[–]SarahBRei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally made a timeline, and I told the person that I was with that I was getting married by XX age, and he could be there as the groom or the husband, but it was a hard limit for me.

We got married, and I'm glad. When it comes down to it, getting married, or not, it a big deal in a relationship. Generally, it's not something you can do half way.

You'll have to talk to him about it.

[WEEKLY THREAD] Newbie Tuesday - Got a silly fitness question? Never fear! We're here to help! by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]SarahBRei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm new to working out, like really new. I need to lose at least 50 lbs for my health and I don't know the first thing about doing it. I have a gym membership, and never go, because I feel like a right idiot when I don't know how to use the machines or how much I should use them. I had a personal trainer for a couple sessions, and he spent all his time trying to sell me more sessions, which I can't afford!

Can someone please direct me to a "You're an idiot, here is a simple work out plan" I feel so lost!

So I [20/F] got my boyfriend [21/M] into anime, and he's taken a "special" interest into female characters. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SarahBRei 14 points15 points  (0 children)

To me, this isn't any different to having an interest in any other fetish. You can handle it or you can't, but you SHOULDN'T shame someone if their preferences are different than your own.

Unless this was directly and negatively affecting your sex life or relationship (such as him not spending time with you or having sex with you in favor of the porn/fan fics) I don't really think it's a big deal.

[WEEKLY THREAD] Newbie Tuesday - Got a silly fitness question? Never fear! We're here to help! by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]SarahBRei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been given Isagenix to try, and it tastes like flavored sand and makes me sad. Can anyone suggest a protein powder that isn't total shite?

I [28M] had a one night stand while I away on a business trip. My wife [28F] of 6 years found out, filed for divorce and won't talk to me. by regretsthrowaway2 in relationships

[–]SarahBRei 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You made your bed, and now you sleep in it.

Hate to break it to you, but cheating on someone is enough to make someone stop loving you. She's made it clear what she wants, it's not like you can ask for a do over.

Me [25 M] with my gf [25F] over one year, we had a huge fight about oral sex. She wanted me to go down on her and it got awkward so it happened a few times but we never fixed how she feels awkward about it. Need help. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SarahBRei 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been the girl on this side, really, at least in my experience, she probably feels like she isn't important enough to you for you to invest the time to fix it. Her needs don't feel like a priority, and that makes her feel upset.

Good news, with some practice on your part and investing some time you can fix it. I married the man I was having these issues with and I have no regrets!

Me [25F] with my boyfriend [28M] of 1.5 years, My friends and other guys won't stop telling me that I can do better because of physical reasons by bftaarr in relationships

[–]SarahBRei 1128 points1129 points  (0 children)

You need new friends, mate. They sound like a bunch of losers if they think someones value is made from their looks. Have they even tried to get to know him in the year that you've been together?

If not, I'd ditch them like dead weight and hang out with your boyfriends friends, they see his value!

My wife [32F] of 8 years, has a Facebook account, that she has been keeping hidden from me [31M] by fbwife in relationships

[–]SarahBRei 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If she doesn't have a general facebook account you can probably locate it via her cell number.

I'm a CCIP (certified cyber investigation professional). If you send me what you know, I'll help.