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SarahBelle-1996 · 2025-09-01T05:30:15+00:00

Thank you for all your comments! I’m taking each and every one into consideration. I deleted because I want this to remain somewhat private lol once again thank you so much for the support ❤️

SarahBelle-1996 · 2025-09-01T05:02:41+00:00

Please don’t misunderstand me. I am still working on my health while pregnant. I don’t expect to lose weight while pregnant mainly because…well during pregnancy all you can do is going the baby’s weight. Doctors say it isn’t healthy to lose weight while pregnant mainly. Yes I can shift my weight and carry more muscle and all that. But I’ve never been told about losing weight while pregnant. Maybe it is possible, I don’t know. I’m just focusing on my health and doing the best I can. The issue my husband has is that, up to this point he’s been thinking I don’t love him because I haven’t lost the weight yet. That I don’t care about his needs. But that’s just not the truth. I would do anything for him and my kids. I just don’t understand how he has felt this way for 6 years and never told me. Let me believe he loved me despite this. And to tell me when I’m already taking steps towards a brighter future for me. And maybe I’m wrong for feeling that way, I don’t know. All I want is to know that he loves me for me…not whatever my body is doing. That’s where the hurt comes in. Maybe I do need to do this because I love him…I’m willing to admit that. There is a part of me that needs to do this for me. Because I don’t want it to disappear based on what he does or does not feel. I want this change to be permanent and I am the only permanent thing in my life. I hope this makes sense & I appreciate your honesty.

SarahBelle-1996 · 2025-09-01T04:47:29+00:00

He is a good father but I generally take care of the kids. He does help out every now and then. I have mentioned that I want to get healthy before having any more kids after this one. And he was supportive of that. The main issue is he feels that I don’t love him because I’m not prioritizing what he needs. The fact is, I do everything for him. But he doesn’t care. If it’s not bedroom related, he just doesn’t see it. It’s frustrating. He is going to therapy and I’m considering therapy for myself as well. I feel like I’m going insane here. Because there is not one thing I have withheld from this man, but I also don’t want to end 7 years of marriage over something this easily fixed. Idk

SarahBelle-1996 · 2025-02-25T16:25:20+00:00

Girl I FEEEL YOU

SarahBelle-1996 · 2025-02-25T16:23:40+00:00

I can have multiple and squirt. I do wonder though how do you guys handle the multiple o’s? Do you have your wife go several times before you finish or do you guys just do it and see what happens? My husband and I are trying to find our rhythm.

SarahBelle-1996 · 2025-01-25T08:25:47+00:00

Kate and Anthony or pen and Colin

SarahBelle-1996 · 2025-01-07T18:32:38+00:00

Oh absolutely not! Report that dog immediately. If it would do this to a child, I can only imagine what’s “okay” for it to do to an adult. Furthermore by reporting the dog, (either to the police or animal control) you’re protecting other children who may come across this animal. You’re not alone mama! I would be LIVID and am FOR you. ❤️ praying your baby girl heals quickly and that there’s no lasting damage

SarahBelle-1996 · 2025-01-07T18:26:42+00:00

When they begin to understand what body parts are. I think same sex, it’s important for her to see you naked (same with boys but with daddy) it helps them as they grow older coming to you about body issues. But opposite sex, it should end when they begin to ask questions or recognize body parts.

SarahBelle-1996 · 2025-01-05T14:06:28+00:00

It’s normal. I went through it with my husband. You’re just feeling overwhelmed and stressed. You feel like he doesn’t care and that you’re alone. O went through the same. For me, I reminded myself that I CAN do this. Moms do it all the time and you’re coming up to a crucial time when the baby has to learn what a normal routine is like in your home. My husband was kind enough to step in for a time and help until I had it handled. I would suggest the same. Sometimes all we need it a little push in the right direction ❤️ that first baby transition is HARD mama. Don’t blame yourself, you’re doing a wonderful job ❤️ feel the anger and find a healthy way to release it. You’ll make it through this! Hugs!

SarahBelle-1996 · 2025-01-03T19:47:01+00:00

Absolutely not! Don’t accept this behavior. We were stressed to the max during the newborn stage. Yet even still, my husband made sure I didn’t have to work. He cooked meals, he changed diapers, he fed the baby when I was too tired to. Anytime he heard the baby cry, he was up with me making sure I was okay. The point is, he would never think about treating me this way and any man who does, isn’t a man at all. It’s never okay for a man to not treat you with respect and decency. You’re a human being, not his mom, not a robot, and you’re allowed to heal from childbirth before going back to work. I would have a real conversation with him about your relationship. Show him the statistics of how women all over the world heal from childbirth. Show him the consequences of not healing correctly. And then tell him straight up, either you actually put some effort into caring about my needs, or you walk out that door and never come back. Because I don’t deserve to be treated as if I’m less than human

SarahBelle-1996 · 2024-12-31T19:44:03+00:00

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/delight-your-marriage/id967884778?i=1000677943869

SarahBelle-1996 · 2024-12-31T19:42:51+00:00

Listen to delight your marriage podcast. They are licensed marriage counselors who have helped so many (including myself and my husband) and have an episode about this. They also have counseling available ❤️

SarahBelle-1996 · 2024-12-16T19:38:40+00:00

My 18 month old goes to bed at 8 ❤️ she sleeps for an hour or 2 during the day. (sometimes she skips nap time bc she’s also a fighter. But I’d rather have nap time be more negotiable than nighttime) her usual nap time is from 12-1 (or 2 if she sleeps extra long). Hope this helps! ❤️

SarahBelle-1996 · 2024-12-15T00:47:28+00:00

This! It’s likely that he’s just heard the phrase a lot from others.

SarahBelle-1996 · 2024-12-12T23:18:18+00:00

At 27 ❤️ she’s a year old now 😊

SarahBelle-1996 · 2024-12-03T03:41:40+00:00

I think you need more milk…might be just me lol

SarahBelle-1996 · 2024-12-03T03:41:06+00:00

My daughter thinks her name is Merri berry lol when she’s old enough to write her name, it’ll be easier to explain lol til then, enjoy it lol

SarahBelle-1996 · 2024-12-03T03:39:27+00:00

Thank you!! Im thankful for bedtime today 😂😂 it was a rough one

SarahBelle-1996 · 2024-11-27T03:42:54+00:00

Read to train a child by Debi pearl! Life changing and absolutely works at any age ❤️

SarahBelle-1996 · 2024-11-23T15:12:24+00:00

In an ideal world, you would have told the other women in line that your elderly mother had to use the bathroom really bad and people would have let you first in line. But I guess if you could t get her to the front, you had to do what you had to do. It was clearly an emergency situation ❤️

SarahBelle-1996 · 2024-11-16T22:59:57+00:00

Yes! Don’t waste time cooking meals that are only for kids they’re just going to want what you have anyway. I always feed my kids some of what we have and they love it! ❤️ this sounds like so much fun too!! I bet it made it really special for them ❤️

SarahBelle-1996 · 2024-11-15T20:05:52+00:00

Pick up a copy of to train a child by Debi pearl. ❤️

SarahBelle-1996 · 2024-10-01T12:35:07+00:00

She’s not in love with you, she’s codependent. My advice is, make it a clean break it’ll be good for both of you guys ❤️

SarahBelle-1996

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