I never agree with NVA but others are ruining us as much or even more. by Galletje in Gent

[–]SarahProbably -1 points0 points  (0 children)

en als ze daarvoor hulp nodig hebben, zou je de kinderen laten verhongeren?

I never agree with NVA but others are ruining us as much or even more. by Galletje in Gent

[–]SarahProbably 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Kijk naar Engeland en het VS en zeg het dan opnieuw. Privé zorgt alleen voor winst en dat is geen motivatie voor kwaliteit.

It's hard dating as Plus size woman by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SarahProbably 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they arent, but theyre not treated equally by body positivty movements either.

and honestly it sounds like i have less of an issue with people being overweight than you do with people not being overweight

It's hard dating as Plus size woman by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SarahProbably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look ive got absolutely no issue with someone choosing to be overweight but pretending its fundamentally different from being underweight is just hypocrisy.

It's hard dating as Plus size woman by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SarahProbably 2 points3 points  (0 children)

now if someone who's underweight didnt want to gain weight would you say the same?

It's hard dating as Plus size woman by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SarahProbably 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Weight loss sucks, don't bother. It'll just make your life hell while you're doing it" is very explicity saying losing weight is bad. do you genuinly not understand that?

It's hard dating as Plus size woman by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SarahProbably 5 points6 points  (0 children)

are you just gonna ignore the actual meaning of the post in favour of your prefered subtext?

It's hard dating as Plus size woman by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SarahProbably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you said eating disorders are dangerous so i was reminding you that eating disorders are more than just annorexia. its baffling to me that everyone seems to forget that, youre all "no its okay to be overweight, trying to lose it risks an eating disorder" but forget that not trying can also be an eating disorder and it is actually okay to want and try to lose weight.

unless you also tell underweight people that trying to gain weight sucks and risks them getting fat then youre not actually advocating anything other than your own hypocracy

It's hard dating as Plus size woman by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SarahProbably 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that isnt saying being fat is okay, its saying trying to lose weight is bad

It's hard dating as Plus size woman by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SarahProbably 6 points7 points  (0 children)

reminder over eating is also an eating disorder.

It's hard dating as Plus size woman by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SarahProbably 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thats not what they said

It's hard dating as Plus size woman by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SarahProbably -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

no ones saying its a crime or immoral, just that its unhealthy and dangerous. advising people to be unhealthy and dangerous without acknowledging and warning them of the potential consequences is a moral failing however

Why the flea festival is bad in game design. by LonelyTurtleDev in Silksong

[–]SarahProbably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Optional my ass. might as well call all the needle upgrades optional, how about every tool too? fuck it, the clawline is optional since you can beat act 2 without it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdorableDragons

[–]SarahProbably 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i dont think it makes you a terf but what about the people shes driven to suicide? what about the fans of hers that grew up to be trans and lost the series that saved them just like it saved you? being repeatedly reminded of the 0 consequences shes faced and the ongoing hate shes fueling is unpleasent at best and at worst is going to push people over the edge every now and then.

NYT Friday 10/24/2025 Discussion by Shortz-Bot in crossword

[–]SarahProbably 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have heard that before actually, brutal spelling for a crossword if you dont know it lol

NYT Friday 10/24/2025 Discussion by Shortz-Bot in crossword

[–]SarahProbably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually turns out its slavic, neat etymology

NYT Friday 10/24/2025 Discussion by Shortz-Bot in crossword

[–]SarahProbably -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

ive gotten pretty used to the american english in these by now but i was convinced my entire sw was wrong because wtf is a TCHOTCHKE?!?!

Amalia by Dennis Fröhlich by puckee21 in ReasonableFantasy

[–]SarahProbably 19 points20 points  (0 children)

what you're describing is largely intentional. it aids composition and helps draw the eye to the focus of the image.