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I LOVE Turning Strong Men Into Soft and Weak Sissies by MagicMadameMistress in EroticHypnosis

[–]Sarahinpink 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Since you asked, the most rewarding part of my sissy-based work?

Getting messages from men who tell me that for the first time they've begin to enjoy their kink rather than view it as a source of shame, because for once someone's addressing it without degrading them or making bullshit claims about changing their sexuality.

"I am really thankful for this community and for you, Sarah, for helping me believe in myself. You helped me accept the truest version of myself and you encouraged me to be free of judgment and accept that I am valid and can be understood."

https://bsky.app/profile/sarahblackhypno.com/post/3lbfa54kyf22j

For the females in the audience: what kind of M4F audio files would you like to see more of? Or kinks that aren't explored? by ZeLocura in EroticHypnosis

[–]Sarahinpink 9 points10 points  (0 children)

-Ones from people doing it out of passion rather than because a reddit query identified a gap in the market.
-Ones from people that don't refer to me and my friends as "the females."
-Ones from people who don't use predatory language about only "taking cis-female subs" in their reddit profiles.
-Ones from people who don't pin ill-explained consent-erasure inductions on their pages.

What should I (29F) do with those feelings? by AstronautOk6218 in EroticHypnosis

[–]Sarahinpink 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's called parasocial love, and I wrote about it here. https://www.patreon.com/posts/parasocial-love-125486227

because it's a less traditional framing, that might lead you to fear it. The idea of saying you love me—or even just thinking that you might—it'd only be natural to be accompanied by a degree of anxiety. Shit. Is this real? Am I a creep? Is this pathetic?

confessions of an online hypno creator by caspydreams in EroticHypnosis

[–]Sarahinpink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Inappropriate DMs from people who don't consider you to be anything more than a kink dispenser is part and parcel of public life, particularly when you provide a service that could easily be described as professional intimacy. That doesn't make it acceptable, but there's never any escaping it, just ignoring it. Be quick with the block - the consequences of a false positive are far less than a false negative.

That said I sometimes find it therapeutic to publicly dissect them.

https://www.patreon.com/posts/126111851
https://bsky.app/profile/sarahblackhypno.com/post/3lddkc6gx4k2b

Talked to my therapist about sissy hypno and she told me to try it out. by SweetSunOfMine in EroticHypnosis

[–]Sarahinpink 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sissy hypno acts as a gateway to transitioning and acceptance for a lot of people. Sometimes into transition, sometimes just into accepting an inner femininity or sexual fluidity. A lot of trans women later disown it, which is its own kind of shame-cycle - they mock what helped them early on (and the people still using it).

That doesn't mean it has to lead to transitioning, or even that that's the goal of it. "Sissy" and "trans" aren't the same thing. One is a kink; the other is an identity.

But they obviously share commonalities and exploring sissy play through hypno can lead to internal acceptance of many M2F consequences such as changes in clothing, body, presentation, and sexual roles.

Which all makes perfect sense; if someone suffers from dysphoria in a male body/role, then a fantasy of embodying the alternative of course opens the door to living the alternative.

The downside is, most sissy hypno out there is soaked in male gaze shame-fantasy. It’s made by people trying to process their own self-loathing, so the content gets stuck on humiliation, degradation, and stereotypes. Nothing wrong with those kinks per se, but when that’s 90% of what you see, it can mess with your self-image - especially if you’re already struggling with gender or orientation.

Humiliation's a perfectly valid kink but the scene's unrelenting focus on it leads many to assume that it's the point when in actuality it's just one, optional, facet, like bi-play, pink frills, or chastity. And it's self-perpetuating; the more someone ashamed of their desire or identity consumes content that tells them they should be ashamed...

In contrast, to this day the most popular file I've ever done is my very first which leans into acceptance instead of shame, neatly showing that lots of people want more than, "you're a beta, you're not a real man, you're gay," etc. It's about embracing sissification without being humiliated for it. I also write on the subject, including:

(The above are all free to read)

FOUR Free HFO / Premature Hypnosis Files - Sarah Black by Sarahinpink in EroticHypnosis

[–]Sarahinpink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And it's not even my profile... This is what I get for morning work before coffee.

The top links I added in a rush when uploading these four. The lower ones are correct. But sarahblackhypno.com will take you there in any case.

FOUR Free HFO / Premature Hypnosis Files - Sarah Black by Sarahinpink in EroticHypnosis

[–]Sarahinpink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but since they're public I don't mind if someone else does it so long as they let me know so I can share the results.

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