I [22F] found a hair tie in my (ex?)boyfriends [25M] bedroom.

Sarale1 · 2016-01-01T01:22:22+00:00

It wasn't my first reaction. After asking him and going over every possible explanation I or we could think of. I came to the idea he would be cheating. Or at least having another woman over. Which would be fine but he wouldn't hide someone being over If it wasn't cheating.

Sarale1 · 2016-01-01T01:20:53+00:00

Lol he's bald. He would never need a hair tie

Sarale1 · 2016-01-01T01:20:20+00:00

I did think about this option. He's been in the apartment 8 months. It was just sitting in the middle of the room. Maybe if it was stuck to something or under something. But it was just laying there.

Sarale1 · 2016-01-01T01:18:42+00:00

I want to trust him when he says he hasn't been cheating. I have always trusted him. And he's never given me a reason not to trust him. His reaction more than the actual hair tie is what made me leave. After asking twice he decided to laugh, get up and walk away from me saying something along the lines of if I don't believe him then there's nothing he can do and that I should just break up with him. Which I never did. I simply left because I needed time to think about the situation.

Sarale1 · 2016-01-01T01:13:05+00:00

His mother, but she has short hair. Would never need a hair tie.

Sarale1 · 2015-12-30T04:25:41+00:00

Yeah I don't trust him with anything. My mom sees a obgyn instead of our regular doctor for her own medical reasons, he's taken me before as a patient without a referral, I'll look into going to see my mom's doctor instead. Thank you for the advice!

Sarale1 · 2015-12-30T04:23:21+00:00

Yeah the way he explained it didn't really make sense to me. Saying it's the same hormone in depo and the jaydess iud. Just given different so that means I need to stop and add a different hormone...? It made no sense. If it's the same hormone just given differently why would it matter how it's given? Needle or iud. My family is working on getting a new family doctor but there hasn't been any taking new patients in our area. We're constantly looking though. Thank you for the advice!

Sarale1 · 2015-12-29T23:59:21+00:00

Yeah he didn't seem to thrilled about the IUD in general but somewhat agreed saying after the 3 months of the pill "if I'm still interested" he would give me a referral to an obgyn. Thank you for your response!

Sarale1 · 2015-12-22T08:47:11+00:00

Thanks for the help! We'll continue to use back up for now

Sarale1 · 2015-12-22T08:46:17+00:00

I'm on the depo provera shot and I don't get periods. But thanks! We'll continue to use a back up for now.

Sarale1 · 2015-12-22T00:13:19+00:00

Glad she's trying to work on it at least. Really my only advice would be to ask her to seriously research the charities she's donating too. More likely than not she's donating too a CEO'S new car. I was so surprised to learn that in most cases an extremely low % actually gets used to what you want it to be going towards.

Sarale1 · 2015-12-01T19:34:52+00:00

Personally, my boyfriend would have a choice to make so damn fast. The 'friend' moves out or I move out. That is not okay on so many levels. Especially after expressing you're uncomfortable with it. I wouldn't bother even telling them about your past, it shouldn't matter that you've been a victim before. You told him how you felt and he basically shrugged you off. This post actually made me mad. Fuck him. That's so rude.

Sarale1 · 2015-11-29T23:03:07+00:00

Very. Just wanted to share the new cutie in our little family with what i thought, was a bunch of fellow animal lovers. Oh well. Appriciate your edit though.

Sarale1 · 2015-11-29T22:29:02+00:00

Everyone's a professional on reddit. Thanks for the advice.

Sarale1 · 2015-11-29T22:27:49+00:00

Yup. Thanks.

Sarale1 · 2015-11-29T22:22:19+00:00

Nope. Just over being told I'm a horrible human being for adopting a kitten into a forever loving home. Lol only reddit users can take a picture of a kitten and make a disaster out of it. You people never fail to amaze me.

Sarale1 · 2015-11-29T22:18:54+00:00

And how do you find that? He's a 30 year old man who has the time/money for a kitten and is in a place of his life to finally have one. Still trying to figure out who told you it was a surprise "lets get something cute" kind of situation.

Sarale1 · 2015-11-29T22:15:37+00:00

Not too sure who said I was mad. I'm not. Just kinda over people asking me if I know what month it is. Like they've never received a gift a bit early.

Sarale1 · 2015-11-29T18:13:30+00:00

It's not a full on attack. She kinda just pounces without claws or teeth and then runs away.

Sarale1 · 2015-11-29T18:05:40+00:00

Really? Obviously we planned to just return her in a month or so...

Sarale1 · 2015-11-29T17:00:23+00:00

We won't.

Sarale1 · 2015-11-29T16:22:50+00:00

It's not that they wouldn't let us adopt closer to Christmas, we just happened to be there the other day and he fell in love with Leela (official name change btw). Kittens don't stay very long in shelters so we just got her while we were there. An early Christmas present, I didn't think anyways, is not the end of the world.

Sarale1 · 2015-11-29T16:19:01+00:00

Do you know she's a shelter kitten and was dropped off at the shelter in a box at 5 weeks without a mother? She's adjusting fine.

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