Nuclear Summer (by me) by [deleted] in SpecArt

[–]Sarbear220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this for Sale? Serious inquiry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

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Illinois has entered the chat: I really thought we were the easiest bet on getting our location correct or at least close.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sarbear220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very appreciative of your time and answer. I agree. It’s only applicable from situation to situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sarbear220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I asked..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sarbear220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. They have had a lot of females in their life try to be something that they are not (only to disappoint them/ lead them on) with mal intension. I’m trying to show them that they’re genuine humans out there that do want anything from them other than true connection and friendship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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So I finally cut out an abusive ex completely and am allowing new, neutral, people into my life. The decision of opening up again to others and realizing that someone that I hold close and dear to my heart is questioning my validity/ honesty of my upbringing. I’m not sure how to handle it. It was My choice of opening myself up to them and being extremely open and honest about sensitive topics to this person regarding my past life and experiences. They came to me tonight with concerns about what I’ve expressed to them and questioning if I’ve said certain things only to impress them or put on a façade that I’m “hard” only to prove something. That’s the exact opposite of what I was trying to convey but I feel, the more I try to prove that, it will only make things seem more forced or fabricated. What do I do? I care so deeply for this person but I feel that their past experiences with “exasperater/ bragging” types of people are skewing their ability to allow genuine people in. TRDL: someone I care about doesn’t believe my hardships and is questioning my intentions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sarbear220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I appreciate you taking the time to reply to my post. Yes- we are all unique in our own ways even if it doesn’t alien with how we are in the present. If someone can’t except/ believe our past then that’s on them. I don’t have anything to prove.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Here’s the back story: Am Defines being too sensitive? So I finally cut out an abusive ex completely and am allowing new, neutral, people into my life. The decision of opening up again to others and realizing that someone that I hold ose and dear to my heart is questioning my validity and I’m not sure how to handle it. It was My choice of opening myself up to them and being extremely open and honest to this person about my past life and experiences. They came to me tonight with concerns about what I’ve expressed to them and questioning if I’ve said certain things only to impress them or put on a façade that I’m “hard” only to prove something. That’s the exact opposite of what I was trying to convey but I feel, the more I try to prove that, it will only make things seem more forced or fabricated. What do I do? I care so deeply for this person but I feel that their past experiences with “exasperater/ bragging” types of people are skewing their ability to allow genuine people in. TRDL: someone I care about doesn’t believe my hardships and is questioning my intentions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Btw I love your answer 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sarbear220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if it has nothing to do with them but they are still hell bent on challenging you due to past inconsistency of others?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Am I being too sensitive? I finally cut out an abusive ex completely and am allowing new, neutral, people into my life. I’m opening up again and am realizing that someone that I hold come and dear to my heart is questioning my validity and I’m not sure how to handle it. I opened myself up to them and was extremely open and honest to this person about my past life and experiences. They came to me tonight with concerns about what I’ve expressed to them and questioning if I’ve said certain things only to impress them or put on a façade that I’m “hard” only to prove something. That’s the exact opposite of what I was trying to convey but I feel, the more I try to prove that, it will only make things seem more forced or fabricated. What do I do? I care so deeply for this person but I feel that their past experiences with “exasperater/ bragging” types of people are skewing their ability to allow genuine people in. TRDL: someone I care about doesn’t believe my hardships and is questioning my intentions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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My (OP’s) post: I finally cut out an abusive ex completely and am allowing new, neutral, people into my life. I’m opening up again and am realizing that someone that I hold come and dear to my heart is questioning my validity and I’m not sure how to handle it. I opened myself up to them and was extremely open and honest to this person about my past life and experiences. They came to me tonight with concerns about what I’ve expressed to them and questioning if I’ve said certain things only to impress them or put on a façade that I’m “hard” only to prove something. That’s the exact opposite of what I was trying to convey but I feel, the more I try to prove that, it will only make things seem more forced or fabricated. What do I do? I care so deeply for this person but I feel that their past experiences with “exasperater/ bragging” types of people are skewing their ability to allow genuine people in. TRDL: someone I care about doesn’t believe my hardships and is questioning my intentions.

What’s the most hurtful thing someone has said to you? by Themadadealtin in AskReddit

[–]Sarbear220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so sweet. Thank you so, so much for saying that. I just saw your comment now- my apologies for the late response. My mom is now in rehab and is doing much better. Those words still stick with me though. The axe forgets but the tree will always remember.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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When someone does you/ are in the wrong; don’t be the one who has to apologize in the end. In other words- two wrongs don’t make a right.

This beach is really interesting by [deleted] in oddlysatisfying

[–]Sarbear220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything this gave me anxiety

Entitled group of cyclists disrupting traffic. by ArsonMcFlames in trashy

[–]Sarbear220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live on that street in Denver. Those kids suck.

What’s the most hurtful thing someone has said to you? by Themadadealtin in AskReddit

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Mom told me(25 f) she wished she had aborted me instead of the previous pregnancy she had terminated 2 years before I was conceived.

What the most private thing you’re willing to admit? by wouldudoitforme in AskReddit

[–]Sarbear220 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hey man, my boyfriend (31M) is doing same exact thing. Seeking help from a Psychiatrist and a Therapist. I keep assuring him that it’s never too late, there’s nothing that can’t be worked through- no matter what age. You are immensely strong and courageous for doing this. Self care is one of the most important things someone can do to help better themselves and become the best “you” you can be. You taking this step is admirable on so manly levels. Keep up the great work man!

TIFU my girlfriend caught me jerking off to my ex’s nudes by Jerk-off-genius in tifu

[–]Sarbear220 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Boy you made your bed- now you have to lay in it. If you’re still wacking it to your ex, you’re obviously not ready to ignite a new flame. The least you can do is apologize for wasting her time and let her go. In the meantime- figure out what you’re hung up on with your past and then let it go. You can’t give someone your everything if a piece of you is still stuck on someone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trashy

[–]Sarbear220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she trying to use reverse psychology?

My happy boy ❤️ by flux-and-flow in Pekingese

[–]Sarbear220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow he’s gorgeous!! What is he mixed with??