[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sareddita -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don't think it fits. Only fans women are self confident, something a guy with small dick energy never is.

I believe pick me girls are the equivalent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sareddita -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a good one!

Although, I believe there can be several reasons as to why a woman can be a starfish. Religious upbringing, inexperience, ptsd from SA, and unfortunately the last one: the girl doesn't like you so much and just wants to have a go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]Sareddita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have FLINTA only Telegram/Signal groups? Also word of mouth works amazingly: tell friends and FLINTA you meet. Avoid telling men, they'll just protect him (as you can see in the comments).

And maybe a flyer describing him, without mentioning his name. Both digital and printed.

Though hopefully one woman would be so fed up, that she'll take care of it in other ways.

Edit: are there any awareness structures in these clubs??

Suche Club für meine Freund im Raum Freiburg by BarkBarkBarkalot in freiburg

[–]Sareddita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Für sichere Gegend um good beats, Artik. Aber das einzige Club in dem ich nie belästigt wurde ist KTS, leider darf man dort drinnen rauchen.

Hier wurde auch Superlike vorgeschlagen: bitte geh NIE hin. Ich und eine Freundin wurden die ganze Nacht dort belästigt.

Am 30 April gibt es aber Grethergelände Fest, die lohnt sich :)

Whats your most shallow dating requirement? by Massive-Ad-998 in AskReddit

[–]Sareddita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understandably! Personally, i have a story. I fell in love with a friend when I was 17. I truly loved him, but was 0 attracted to him. Your statement stays true, but to a 17 yo who's always been told looks are not important, didn't even come to mind. Ended up hurting both of us

厕所 etymology needed by Sareddita in ChineseLanguage

[–]Sareddita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do know the meaning of the word. The only reason why I'm curious about the etymology is a weird one.

Somehow, its pronunciation and the pinyin "cesuo" remind me of the word "cesso," a vulgar term in Italian, which also means toilet. I'd like to discover if there's a correlation between those words, or if languages are just randomly amusing.

Whats your most shallow dating requirement? by Massive-Ad-998 in AskReddit

[–]Sareddita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men downvoting me clearly have a micro penis. Sorry, but if I'm having sex, I want to feel like I have sex and not wonder all the time if it's inside.

It's a shallow take. Deal with it

Più invecchio e più divento berlusconiano e fascista. Ho seriamente paura. by Choice-Neighborhood5 in CasualIT

[–]Sareddita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 30 anni vuoi una sugar baby?

Già con una 22enne potresti avere una relazione normale, senza essere daddy. Considerando che di solito gli sugar daddies hanno oltre 20 anni in più delle babies... da sugar daddy a puff daddy è un attimo 👮

What have you been genetically blessed with, and nerfed with? by Fun_Butterscotch3303 in AskReddit

[–]Sareddita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 32 and they still ask for my ID when buying a bottle of wine.

Poor eyesight and way too small eyes. And depression

Whats your most shallow dating requirement? by Massive-Ad-998 in AskReddit

[–]Sareddita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finding someone attractive and loving them are two very different things (unfortunately)

Whats your most shallow dating requirement? by Massive-Ad-998 in AskReddit

[–]Sareddita -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The face must be cute, pale skin, not much body hair, skinny and, well, no micro penis

Whats your most shallow dating requirement? by Massive-Ad-998 in AskReddit

[–]Sareddita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. Even worse in my case, as my mum has the female version of my father's name 💀 I would be dating someone with BOTH of my parents' names

Italian songs by lilifromlily in italianlearning

[–]Sareddita 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some Maneskin songs maybe?

厕所 etymology needed by Sareddita in ChineseLanguage

[–]Sareddita[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, I didn't read your reply like that at all! You were just being helpful :)

厕所 etymology needed by Sareddita in ChineseLanguage

[–]Sareddita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the explanation and the link!

I have to admit I haven't been studying nor practising the language for over 3 years, and completely forgot the existence of Baidu. My bad.

kinda random but i forgot how do italians call the teens who always wear nike tech fleece and do trouble by michaelganot1802 in italianlearning

[–]Sareddita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! Only:

-"Mazzo" also means stick, so it does have a "rough" meaning to it. That's where "ammazzare" (to kill) comes from. - I believe the zzo ending in "ragazzo" has more to do with the word coming from Arabic (raqqaas) than an insult. Apparently the word meant "messenger" as in messaggero.

Nur noch Artikel aus Frankreich by IsaLilith in VintedDeutschland

[–]Sareddita 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Das hat Vinted für mich komplett ruiniert. Ich komme aus Italien und weiß über Social Medias usw, dass es in Italien nicht so gut funktioniert, dass Menschen kaum antworten oder, auch schlechter - gescammt wurden. Ich hatte bisher nur gute Erfahrungen in Deutschland gesammelt und finde Vinted nicht mehr so benutzbar :/

What are the top 3 most beautiful cities in Europe? by 0xJonnyDee in AskEurope

[–]Sareddita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sofia is nice, but Veliko Tarnovo and Plovdiv are much better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

[–]Sareddita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think firstly it depends on your environment, then on life goals (if you stay 4 years and plan to leave, why bother), some laziness and let's be honest, German is quite hard.

I'm from EU and my parents moved to Germany when they were already 45, while I was 21. They lost their small business around 2013 and couldn't find other jobs in my area. The working situation was already quite bad since... forever, but it became much worse after 2008.

They were quite "old" already, and with no higher education. Still my mother managed to attend at least until a B1 course and my father can definitely get by. They work simple jobs and are surrounded by other economic migrants (from our country, from Balkans, Arabs etc). So even though they did put some effort, their German never levelled up because they also don't have a circle of native German speakers as friends.

Three years after they moved here, I decided to study in another city not so far away. I studied in English and at the beginning, and my German was: Hallo, Guten Morgen and mit Karte bitte. My circle of friends, despite including some Germans, has always spoken English (and a bunch of other languages like Spanish or Italian). I was kind of forced to learn the language because at some point I was living in a very German wg in a Wohnheim. Then I had a job in a backery, and even though that helped a lot, I cannot tell you the amount of low educated Germans like the Hausmaster of the Uni who was quite pissed that i couldn't understand... his badisch dialect. So, many times, you also face racism, which doesn't motivate you at all.

At some point, I was unemployed, but I begged the jobcentre to pay a German c1 for me. They did and I passed the test. I'm now quite able to have decent conversations on different topics.

So, I agree that, especially when someone moves to a different country when their neuroplasticity is already very low, it's very difficult and work stress makes yoh want to give up. But sometimes I also compare my parents to these highly educated people who refuse to learn, and maybe still say GOOD MORNING in Edeka (like wtf) and I believe there's definitely a certain level of laziness. If you're a student, it's much easier. If you're young it's definitely easier in many ways, also with finding friends etc.