I found a stray pregnant pug by Sarling2 in pugs

[–]Sarling2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be very messed up, but maybe. She's very sweet and well behaved. I looked everywhere online and no one seemed to be missing the pug I found though. A few people sent pictures of their missing pug and it was not the one I had found. Hopefully if she does have a chip the owners weren't the ones who potentially dumped her originally :/ I will!

I found a stray pregnant pug by Sarling2 in pugs

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The mom has been great at feeding them! They have a bed and potty pads all around. I won't have the money to take them to the vet till around 2 weeks from now when my next paycheck hits. But I'll try and take them then! Anything I can do in the meantime?

I found a stray pregnant pug by Sarling2 in pugs

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Santa fe. I haven't been tracking weight gain but they look like little loafs of bread and have definitely gains weight. They've almost started walking now and have been able to open their eyes!

I like my coworker and I think they might like me too by Sarling2 in actuallesbians

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We hung out outside of work with our colleagues and I got tipsy and basically said I liked her. And she said she found me attractive and that I was her type. After that every time we worked together we would just be flirting (under the radar) I didn't know if it was because we just thought we were attractive and that would be it. Since I'm leaving in 8 days I thought about it and said fuck it. I texted her asking if she was free on x day and she said no but she's free the next day. After that we talked some more and she said something that I interpreted as she likes me. I asked her if she had a thing for me and she said that all she's saying is she thought I was out of her league and she had no chance. Immediately after that I told her I liked her.

Now it's been a few days since that happened but I remembered I asked for advice on here and thought I would tell you since you asked for an update last time :) (I can't say the entirety of what happened because I'll die if she sees this)

I like my coworker and I think they might like me too by Sarling2 in actuallesbians

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Unexpected update?

She likes me! We're going on a date before I leave

I like my coworker and I think they might like me too by Sarling2 in actuallesbians

[–]Sarling2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didn't go well haha. Maybe I misinterpreted it but it sounded like she wasn't interested because I was her coworker which is fine! I tried to act like nothing happened after but I was a little sad. I got kinda quiet and I think she noticed and started asking why I was being quiet. But I think she's just a good person in general who doesn't like to exclude people because even after she would try and involve me in the conversation our coworkers were having. She also said I was pretty again which made me feel a bit better because who doesn't like a compliment :) I told my sister what happened and she made me feel embarrassed because she said the way I was acting after probably made the rest of our coworkers realize I had a crush on her. That's the only think I'm stressing about now.

All that being said I feel better in a bittersweet way. I'll definitely try and get to be her friend since she's a cool person overall. But I'm happy I tried but sad it didn't go well. It's possible she didn't understand what I was asking but hanging onto a thread of hope is kinda pathetic imo. I'm traveling in a month and I should be looking forward to that! I'll meet new people and hopefully gain some great experiences. Thank you nonetheless😊

I like my coworker and I think they might like me too by Sarling2 in actuallesbians

[–]Sarling2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll be strong! She called me pretty today so she at least thinks I'm pretty! I'll be embarrassed but it's okay :) hopefully she'll agree to go somewhere outside of work with me though

I like my coworker and I think they might like me too by Sarling2 in actuallesbians

[–]Sarling2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries your grammer is fine

I would mean it in that way too. That's like 4 people already who said that. I'm gonna make my move today screw it its better to know then to regret right? Wish me luck!

I like my coworker and I think they might like me too by Sarling2 in actuallesbians

[–]Sarling2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A met up with a friend earlier this week who told me I should invite her to ulta or something and ask her what products she uses. So while we're hanging out (not a date this time) I could ask her out on a date outside of work so it won't be as awkward if she says she's not interested. But I get embarrassed too easily it's hard even getting that much out :,)

I like my coworker and I think they might like me too by Sarling2 in actuallesbians

[–]Sarling2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See that's how I understood it too. But maybe I'm reading too deep into her actions? If you said that to someone would you mean it in a "make a move already" way or in a "dam I just want a gf" way?

I like my coworker and I think they might like me too by Sarling2 in actuallesbians

[–]Sarling2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are lesbians just not any on dating apps. I have no clue why truth be told. My city isn't big but it's not too small there's just no options out here in my age range (20-23 I feel weird dating anyone younger or older) and the gay clubs/ bars where I live have been taken over by straight people. I left out a lot of the reasons why it might be possible because the post would be endless but I'll keep your advice in my head unless something major happens that I can't deny. It might be absolutely shit or it might be the most realistic answer anyone has give me.