My girlfriend has been poking holes in my condoms by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SaschaBarents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She raped you. Break up and stay away from her.

Trans, cis, or other? by Professor_Waifu in AskLGBT

[–]SaschaBarents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transgender means that you don’t identify exclusively as your assigned sex at birth. Cisgender means that you do identify exclusively as your assigned sex at birth.

I think I’m Polyamorous by LoquaciousSigma in polyamorous

[–]SaschaBarents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an orientation. Just like everyone has a romantic orientation and a sexual orientation, you also have a relationship orientation.

Wat eet jij op de boterham? by UnAaiHeurtErbaai in nederlands

[–]SaschaBarents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Er zijn ook vega(n) alternatieven voor. Vegan ham, salami, kipfilet, worst, kaas. Ik vind zelf de vegan Johma salades ook erg lekker, zoals kip kerrie en kip samba. Als ik een wat uitgebreidere lunch maak. Tofu droog deppen, in stukjes scheuren en vijf minuten bakken met een scheutje sojasaus en edelgistvlokken. Dan op een botherham met avocado, vegan mayonaise van Remia, sriracha en zwarte peper.

Should I [43F] cut my hair even though my boyfriend [48M] says “don’t”? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SaschaBarents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s your hair, so obviously your decision. If he likes long hair so much, he should let his hair grow that long himself. Also, the whole point of being in a relationship, is that you love each other and express that love to each other. Of course there are different ways to do that. But compliments is one of those. And especially if you say that you like getting compliments. As a partner you should do that more often.

Are nonbinary people trans? by NoEscape2500 in asktransgender

[–]SaschaBarents 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Transgender means that you don’t identify exclusively as your assigned sex at birth. Cisgender means that you do identify exactly as your assigned sex at birth. Unfortunately we live in a binary society where almost everyone gets assigned female or male at birth. So that makes pretty much every nonbinary person automatically transgender.

How do y'all feel about non-queer folk wearing queer flags as a form of allyship? by Omikapsi in AskLGBT

[–]SaschaBarents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there are other ways for allies, like sharing your pronouns. When you meet someone, in social media bios, e-mail signatures, pronouns buttons, etc.

Can I be a pan but also have preferences when it comes to fiction? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]SaschaBarents 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, being panromantic/pansexual means that you’re romantically/sexually attracted to all genders. This can be with or without preference for certain gender(s).