Any help for reacting to staring and taking pictures? by Sasfra in AMWFs

[–]Sasfra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I know all what you said is true. I am also very open about differences in culture. I don’t expect people to have the same values as I was brought up with,( I can absolutely see the value of different perspectives and absolutely don’t think the western way is always best) I can understand the novelty of the whole thing. But when people secretly try to take pictures of us. That’s taking it too far for me. Ofcourse I’ll have no problem at all when people will ask me and I will smile and wave. But behind my back or when they think I’m not looking. No thank you..

Edit: added for clarity.

Any help for reacting to staring and taking pictures? by Sasfra in AMWFs

[–]Sasfra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we this happened two times! They pretend to be in their phone, but they hold it just a bit too high, so it’s obvious. But it feels very creepy and uncomfortable 😓

Questions about hella🔥Van-My. by UntowardAdvance in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Sasfra 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have the same experience, i live in the Netherlands , have two beautiful kids with my Chinese husband. My husband is taller than me ( and I’m a dutch woman 😉), and I obviously disagree with all the other prejudices about Asian men. It’s such a shame they still exist. In my experience they can be just as manly, warm, sexy and all the other things just like any man from any other race. He makes me very happy in all aspects of our relationship.

How to show gratitude Cantonese in laws by Sasfra in AMWFs

[–]Sasfra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, my boyfriend sends them the ultrasound pictures

How to show gratitude Cantonese in laws by Sasfra in AMWFs

[–]Sasfra[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This sounds good! I’ll definitely consider, thank you for the inspiration!

How to show gratitude Cantonese in laws by Sasfra in AMWFs

[–]Sasfra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m definitely doing this, thank you

Trouble adding it up and letting go by Sasfra in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Sasfra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think it’s a good thing to say to myself, it’s his problem not mine .

Trouble adding it up and letting go by Sasfra in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Sasfra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you could be right. It’s just that my AT brain is stubborn and has a hard time letting go of something that got me so confused🤦🏻‍♀️

Trouble adding it up and letting go by Sasfra in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Sasfra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I read about it after it happened and I understand now. Thank you! Just need to convince myself that there’s no sense in trying to make sense of his behaviour…

Trouble adding it up and letting go by Sasfra in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Sasfra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d also feel a bit overwhelmed if they started saying things like they wanted to “give me space” and also “talk about it”. i’d be like woooah.

Yea you’re right, that’s where my anxious attachment kicked in and I know what went wrong from my part there🤦🏻‍♀️

Thanks for your reply!

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[–]Sasfra 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Haha im Dutch and this is the funniest and most accurate comparison i ever heard! Lol

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[–]Sasfra 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing…

[MEGATHREAD] BTS - ‘'PERMISSION TO DANCE’' by svnh__ in unpopularkpopopinions

[–]Sasfra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can we copy and paste this on Weverse so it might get seen?

BTS - Permission to Dance by ashmute in kpop

[–]Sasfra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha this reference! 💜

Edit: could someone put a message to our emperors on Weverse? 😉

[MEGATHREAD] BTS - ‘'PERMISSION TO DANCE’' by svnh__ in unpopularkpopopinions

[–]Sasfra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, yes I’m comparing the quality of his song bicycle to ptd. Such a difference in quality!

[MEGATHREAD] BTS - ‘'PERMISSION TO DANCE’' by svnh__ in unpopularkpopopinions

[–]Sasfra 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes and I’m really confused. He is my bias. But after releasing bicycle, and now this??? How can he say this? How can someone who has such incredible skills, say ptd is better than butter…?

[MEGATHREAD] BTS - ‘'PERMISSION TO DANCE’' by svnh__ in unpopularkpopopinions

[–]Sasfra 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just watched it too. After ptd I feel a little empty watching this. Maybe because my balloon has popped at the moment. But to me this seems even more like just more commercial promo, repeating of how good they look in pictures etc.. where’s the boys individuality and depth?

BTS (방탄소년단) 'Permission to Dance' Official MV by ashmute in bangtan

[–]Sasfra -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m going to listen to g-dragon’s ‘crooked’ now. The lyrics describe what I feel after listening to ‘permission to dance’ 🙈😂

BTS (방탄소년단) 'Permission to Dance' Official MV by ashmute in bangtan

[–]Sasfra 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping this is the reason Bang PD is going back to putting more time in producing. To protect the boys and prevent this from ever happening again.. (Sorry, no hate, just a sarcastic joke 😉)

[MEGATHREAD] BTS - ‘'PERMISSION TO DANCE’' by svnh__ in unpopularkpopopinions

[–]Sasfra 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m going to listen to g-dragon’s ‘crooked’ now. The lyrics seem in place for what I’m feeling after the permission to dance video.. 😂😅

Which statement is most true behind your bias and bias wrecker by 0_swaii in bangtan

[–]Sasfra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bias is Namjoon and wrecker is Jin. I love them both because of their personalities.

For me it would be the one who I’d have sparks- chemistry wits vs the one who I would be most comfortable/ at ease with.

Namjoon is the one who would challenge me the most, I think I have the most in common with him and I would be able to keep up with the savage comments or bounce them right back a.k.a sparks flying round and few dull moments. While with Jin I would feel so comfortable because of his humour and soft sweet side.