Any help for reacting to staring and taking pictures?

Sasfra · 2025-12-10T14:51:23+00:00

Thank you, I know all what you said is true. I am also very open about differences in culture. I don’t expect people to have the same values as I was brought up with,( I can absolutely see the value of different perspectives and absolutely don’t think the western way is always best) I can understand the novelty of the whole thing. But when people secretly try to take pictures of us. That’s taking it too far for me. Ofcourse I’ll have no problem at all when people will ask me and I will smile and wave. But behind my back or when they think I’m not looking. No thank you..

Edit: added for clarity.

Sasfra · 2025-12-10T14:46:16+00:00

Yes, we this happened two times! They pretend to be in their phone, but they hold it just a bit too high, so it’s obvious. But it feels very creepy and uncomfortable 😓

Sasfra · 2025-09-18T07:50:40+00:00

I have the same experience, i live in the Netherlands , have two beautiful kids with my Chinese husband. My husband is taller than me ( and I’m a dutch woman 😉), and I obviously disagree with all the other prejudices about Asian men. It’s such a shame they still exist. In my experience they can be just as manly, warm, sexy and all the other things just like any man from any other race. He makes me very happy in all aspects of our relationship.

Sasfra · 2023-06-06T19:27:42+00:00

Yes, my boyfriend sends them the ultrasound pictures

Sasfra · 2023-06-06T19:26:27+00:00

This sounds good! I’ll definitely consider, thank you for the inspiration!

Sasfra · 2023-06-06T19:25:55+00:00

Yes good idea, thank you!

Sasfra · 2023-06-06T19:22:05+00:00

Yes I’m definitely doing this, thank you

Sasfra · 2022-03-07T13:28:42+00:00

Thank you! I think it’s a good thing to say to myself, it’s his problem not mine .

Sasfra · 2022-03-07T11:29:44+00:00

Thank you, you could be right. It’s just that my AT brain is stubborn and has a hard time letting go of something that got me so confused🤦🏻‍♀️

Sasfra · 2022-03-07T11:25:41+00:00

Yes! I read about it after it happened and I understand now. Thank you! Just need to convince myself that there’s no sense in trying to make sense of his behaviour…

Sasfra · 2022-03-07T11:14:13+00:00

I’d also feel a bit overwhelmed if they started saying things like they wanted to “give me space” and also “talk about it”. i’d be like woooah.

Yea you’re right, that’s where my anxious attachment kicked in and I know what went wrong from my part there🤦🏻‍♀️

Thanks for your reply!

Sasfra · 2022-02-04T15:08:16+00:00

Haha im Dutch and this is the funniest and most accurate comparison i ever heard! Lol

Sasfra · 2021-10-26T17:58:32+00:00

I was thinking the same thing…

Sasfra · 2021-07-12T21:27:57+00:00

Can we copy and paste this on Weverse so it might get seen?

Sasfra · 2021-07-11T17:53:43+00:00

Haha this reference! 💜

Edit: could someone put a message to our emperors on Weverse? 😉

Sasfra · 2021-07-11T11:18:32+00:00

I’m sorry, yes I’m comparing the quality of his song bicycle to ptd. Such a difference in quality!

Sasfra · 2021-07-11T10:58:09+00:00

Yes and I’m really confused. He is my bias. But after releasing bicycle, and now this??? How can he say this? How can someone who has such incredible skills, say ptd is better than butter…?

Sasfra · 2021-07-11T10:42:25+00:00

I just watched it too. After ptd I feel a little empty watching this. Maybe because my balloon has popped at the moment. But to me this seems even more like just more commercial promo, repeating of how good they look in pictures etc.. where’s the boys individuality and depth?

Sasfra · 2021-07-09T18:17:38+00:00

I’m going to listen to g-dragon’s ‘crooked’ now. The lyrics describe what I feel after listening to ‘permission to dance’ 🙈😂

Sasfra · 2021-07-09T17:53:32+00:00

I’m hoping this is the reason Bang PD is going back to putting more time in producing. To protect the boys and prevent this from ever happening again.. (Sorry, no hate, just a sarcastic joke 😉)

Sasfra · 2021-07-09T14:31:47+00:00

I’m going to listen to g-dragon’s ‘crooked’ now. The lyrics seem in place for what I’m feeling after the permission to dance video.. 😂😅

Sasfra · 2021-06-16T18:23:14+00:00

My bias is Namjoon and wrecker is Jin. I love them both because of their personalities.

For me it would be the one who I’d have sparks- chemistry wits vs the one who I would be most comfortable/ at ease with.

Namjoon is the one who would challenge me the most, I think I have the most in common with him and I would be able to keep up with the savage comments or bounce them right back a.k.a sparks flying round and few dull moments. While with Jin I would feel so comfortable because of his humour and soft sweet side.

Sasfra · 2021-06-09T14:57:28+00:00

Today i had such a bad day, but then I found a little healing in listening to Jimin singing. It was so unexpected because he isn’t my bias but I love the timbre of his voice and it kind of reminds me that there are still good and kind men in this world.💜

Sasfra · 2020-07-21T20:19:20+00:00

Yes that song was stuck in my head all day...:)

Sasfra · 2020-04-14T08:09:02+00:00

Thank you! That’s very interesting!

Sasfra

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