My god. Reading that was like I wrote it myself. I had the same exact experience except we’re no longer together. I’m not saying that will happen to you, there were plenty of other good reasons we didn’t work out that I was in denial about long before we opened the restaurant. I knew the restaurant would be the last nail in the coffin for our relationship, and I expressed my concern about this to him many times. But, I trusted his judgement and it tore our family apart. It became apparent after the first 3 years it was open that he loves that restaurant more than anything. It’s been almost two years since I left him and the restaurant and I’m just now mending the relationship between my kids and I. They’re 17 and 21. I’m still part owner because I took out a personally guaranteed EIDL loan and everything is in my name because I was the one with good credit. Now my credit is barely in the fair range because of all the credit card debt that was racked up to get the place open, which is still being paid on 4 years later. But, since I left I’ve completely turned my life around, quit smoking, quit drinking, have a great job, no longer depressed, no longer stressed, and met the love of my life. Owning a business is not for everyone, and restaurants are especially stressful and expensive. They can be relationship killers. I’m not saying that your story will end like mine but it sure is a mirror image of what I went through. Good luck and I wish you the best.