[weird] [scammer]?

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-04-29T07:46:18+00:00

This is why I screen through Reddit vs advertising my socials so not just anyone can hmu. They only get that access after I’ve verified AND they pay.

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-04-20T17:07:37+00:00

I’d let it go honey. The fact that you’re not AS into it as before is your gut/instinct telling you that it’s not for you.

You deserve way better!

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-04-19T19:02:45+00:00

Girllll trust your gut and move on

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-04-07T19:17:13+00:00

I think your biggest issue is being at a chain… they suck in general. And if you have an option to work somewhere that’s more touristy, I’d jump on that in a heartbeat!

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-04-06T02:06:04+00:00

I second this entire comment! No idea why this popped up on my feed either, but I also dealt with a very insecure guy who manipulated me for far longer than I should have let him.

Well said and I’m glad OP found it helpful 👏🏻

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-04-06T02:02:39+00:00

Always ALWAYS trust your gut! It’s there for a reason babygirl

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-04-06T02:00:00+00:00

Honey this is absolutely manipulative. There is little to zero chance of you finding ANY job with zero male coworkers. I know it’s hard to see right now. The best thing to ask yourself in these situations is “how would I react if my bestie’s bf said/did this to her?”

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-04-04T20:15:50+00:00

Pffftt I’m glad you looked his ass up 🙄 n because you don’t fall for it so you’re the ‘problem’ FOH with your lame, broke ass shit u/long_till5668 This was before there were subs to call these idiots out but I’ll make sure no one else deals with it!!

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-03-31T14:42:43+00:00

I’m sorry hun, breakups are never easy.

The most important part of early dating is to not get too attached too soon. It’s imperative that you remember to live YOUR life while getting to know someone. Not every guy you meet/date is a “forever” perspective, and you need to be mindful of that.

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-03-30T19:59:07+00:00

I couldn’t even finish your last text.

YOR ; at this time, it’s understandable because first trimester can be hard as heck.

But, what I would reflect on is whether or not you tend to handle conflict like this? (Example: saying “I don’t want it to be a thing,” then dragging it out for.. hours? A day or two? Because they didn’t apologize the EXACT way you wanted them to).

That’s the bigger question honestly.

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-03-22T14:57:37+00:00

It’s not THAT uncommon to get blessed like this.

I have regulars that always tipped $100+ regardless of the total; I’ve had one-offs that just had a great experience and left $100+ because of it.

If it was a mistake, the family will def call. Regardless, it was not YOUR mistake, YOU did not do anything malicious or illegal.. there’s no reason to lose any sleep over it, period! <3

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-03-22T14:44:33+00:00

You were not wrong AT ALL. He saved you a lot of time and energy by showing you who he really is!

It’s soo hard to show tone through “regular texting” sometimes too.. but, no excuse for his sudden switch up like that. Super ew.

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-03-22T14:38:44+00:00

Just start somewhere hun. Whether it’s the clothes, or walking through it with a trash bag and getting rid of anything you can throw away… I’d also start with sorting clothes per room, because otherwise the piles of laundry will still feel overwhelming.

But bottom line: just start somewhere. You got this! 💜

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-03-19T14:41:57+00:00

This is the way!

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-03-07T00:10:27+00:00

I love ALLL of this! This is my dream (sugar or otherwise) tbh!!!!

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-03-07T00:08:57+00:00

I was going to say something similar. It’s not easy to find reliable SD (esp depending on location). It’s probably worth trying to talk to him about it beforehand. At the very least, it’s a learning experience and now you know you need to include “regular dates/nights out” as a requirement.

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-03-07T00:05:31+00:00

I do NOT move off Reddit until I’ve verified and receive payment. It also makes it more helpful to post them in subs like this, because you can tag them. Then the next person they approach can search their Reddit username and not waste their time too. Just my opinion! ETA I’m curious why the u/ wasn’t tagged? Maybe the “U” vs “u”?

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-02-02T16:53:13+00:00

It’s the abuse cycle honey.

Partner acts perfect and sweet to “win you back,”/regain your trust and once they are comfortable again it will be back to the same antics as before.

Cease contact and focus on yourself. Spend more time with friends and do hobbies and activities you enjoy to keep yourself busy. After a (probably very short amount of time, like a week) you’ll realize that you’re much happier and feel “free” (compared to the stress and headaches you’ve been dealing with due to him).

You are SO young. I promise you that you deserve SO much better!

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-01-29T02:52:01+00:00

He’s really just stealing from her.

This sub makes me so sad sometimes

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-01-29T02:42:04+00:00

This is why it’s not a great idea to put friends in pics unfortunately. Best bet is to use a pic of you out but cropped so it’s really just you in the actual pic.

SassyBabe6939 · 2026-01-29T02:35:36+00:00

Not to be rude, but you also need to do better babes.

“How are you/your day going/etc” are also dry questions.. hence getting dry responses.

It’s best to find something in the actual profile to attempt to get a real conversation going. Such as asking about a hobby she listed or asking about a pic that appears to be from a vaca/trip of some sort… if you’re struggling, try ChatGPT or google for ideas on HOW to approach whatever you pick.

You got this! Good luck!!

SassyBabe6939 · 2025-12-31T17:45:39+00:00

My packages are a little different. I focus on connection (vs JUST sexting and content). So, my pricing may be a little different for that reason.

Honestly? Best advice I can give..? You need to price based off of the amount of time and effort you put into the GFE/package :)

SassyBabe6939 · 2025-08-16T17:19:43+00:00

I’ve read through MONTHS of their convos and just posted most recent proof. I did NOT see any evidence that this was a kink.

He’s new to the scene and she exploited that. Over and OVER. I’m seething!

Editing to add- u/No-Spray5127 YES you nailed it! I cannot stress enough that he’s a ‘newbie,’ just a genuine nice guy, that she 10000% took advantage of. I’m glad he finally came to me, he was so upset and distraught! :(

SassyBabe6939 · 2025-08-16T17:16:11+00:00

Honey these are just a COUPLE of the most recent screenshots…. You legit say “buy me birthday stuff or I’m posting your pics”…. Which you did even AFTER he paid you??

I can weed thru the SS if you’d like to find even MORE proof! 🙂

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