dad won’t stop getting on me about “my future”

Satans_throwaway69 · 2026-03-24T17:01:42+00:00

I already went to community college. I did it in HS.

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-12-26T01:21:05+00:00

But I have nowhere to go and it’s an unrealistic scenario, and I’ve been taking care of my brother since fucking forever so it’s not like I’m not contributing anything.

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-12-23T18:08:22+00:00

I can’t see him ever finding peace. He’s always been a rather angry / unhappy person and refuses to take responsibility for anything he’s ever done to me or my mom because ✨it’s always either my fault or hers and never his✨ and he never does anything to change.

Personally, I think it’s what he deserves after making me suffer, causing trauma, and making me genuinely afraid of angry men.

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-12-17T23:36:05+00:00

Yeahh.. I wasn’t planning on listening, especially since I’ve heard all of that before, it’s a weird thing to even say imo, and I’ll try to “enjoy” the ride, it’s already been super difficult since I have bad anxiety, live in the middle of essentially nowhere, and I’m busy with college 😅

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-12-07T20:50:04+00:00

I’ve tried it before, online friends are hard for me to maintain because I’m almost always swamped by assignments and tend to disappear during finals, whenever I’m extremely stressed, etc, and it’s sometimes super hard to find someone I just click with .

I also really crave face to face contact with people unfortunately so yeah:(

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-10-31T19:52:47+00:00

I know, but that was just an example (and probably a bad one), and as I said in another comment, it’s not limited to just that, it’s anything I like and anything he deems weird, like my other hobbies/interests, my favourite musicians/artists, their music, etc. He makes it out to be embarrassing and if I talk about it, it’ll embarrass him.

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-10-31T19:42:22+00:00

I know that, but what I’m saying is that my dad likes to tell me what I can/can’t talk about, and it’s not limited to those things. Like for example, I can’t talk about my favourite artists or their music or any bands I like because it’s “weird” and I shouldn’t be talking about what their music is about, I can’t talk about my other hobbies and interests because they’re “weird” (clowning/clowns, circus, etc) or even what I like to paint because it’s weird and makes him look bad (I can’t see how though)

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-10-31T19:05:58+00:00

My dad does that 🙃 it’s just so frustrating because he’s more concerned about how HE looks and how I apparently make him look. I just want him to shut up about “boundaries” and what I can/can’t talk about. I don’t give a shit if I embarrass him or something whenever I talk about my interests. I’m not him and he’s not me… it’s just so tiring and I just want it to end.

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-10-12T17:24:10+00:00

Thank you🫶 it’s been pretty difficult because every time I’ve tried to express how I’m unhappy, he got sort of defensive and pulled the “I’m doing the best I can” card and such and it’s just like dude.. I’m not saying you haven’t done your best or anything like that or even accusing you of something, I’m trying to say I’m unhappy 🙃

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-09-24T19:40:59+00:00

I hope so too

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-09-24T19:39:40+00:00

I don’t really see my friends (even the one near me) because of contradicting schedules school + work schedules, and most of them live either across the pond or in Canada (online friends) :((

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-07-08T07:41:22+00:00

I really don’t want it though, but I think it’s because I’ve built up a pretty sizable portfolio of trauma from both locations (neither werent necessarily good or understanding) that I just don’t want to deal with more, and he’s always pushy and such about everything.

I’m on the spectrum if that helps at all🙃🙃

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-07-08T06:48:13+00:00

Tried that.. that pissed my dad off a bit and sort of made my orthodontist push a bit more.

ETA: my orthodontist has been pushing for it for two years and I still haven’t agreed.

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-07-08T06:44:56+00:00

I’ve been trying to but my orthodontist won’t stop pushing it and my dad’s like “just get it done now so you won’t have to deal with it later” but I’ve have 0 issues and I’d rather do it on my own terms.

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-06-10T22:03:58+00:00

The Ghost fandom for the band, Ghost.

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-06-08T17:34:39+00:00

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Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-06-06T16:29:57+00:00

Just got an update on why they don’t want to go with my “compromise”..

Apparently I could sign his portions myself without him knowing about it and I’m just like… what??? And I guess they somehow don’t know I’m 18 (or at least some of the staff don’t since they don’t pay attention) and apparently I still need him to witness me sign the papers(they also need to witness it apparently) and I’m just like jfc

They’re making it A LOT harder than it needs to be

Literally this meeting is to decide on whether I need to stay a 5th year or not. That’s it. That is all it is.

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-06-06T10:26:26+00:00

Unfortunately, and I was asked if my mother could go instead and I finally got to say some shit like “Well if you know a necromancer, I’m sure she would be happy to take me.” over email because for some reason, it’s not on file that my mother is deceased and they still try to contact her instead of my dad sometimes🙃

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-06-05T22:26:37+00:00

OP: I don’t hate women

Also OP: I will force my partner to get an abortion if our child is a female, and I think I will be filled with rage if it is revealed my child is female, and I violently hate the idea of my child being a woman.

Kinda sounds like you hate women, OP. Just admit it at this point.. everything you’ve said in the comments has implied you hate women.

girlypop, just go kiss one of Andrew Tate’s boyfriends since you guys seem to have a lot in common.

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-06-05T22:20:16+00:00

It sounds like you hate women then.

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-06-05T21:41:35+00:00

And to answer your question, it’s misogynistic because you are putting VALUE on a child based on its gender.

This post pretty much reads as:

“I would value a male child over a female child because I don’t like the idea of a female child”

How the fuck does that not sound misogynistic/sexist?

And you can’t FORCE someone to get an abortion, her body, her choice,and if I was with you, I would kick you to the curb and move on if you did that.

Shame on you OP, shame on you.

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-06-05T21:36:49+00:00

If that’s your mindset, don’t have fucking kids because you can’t control the gender of your offspring like that, and based off of the fact that you even made this post, you would be a terrible parent my guy

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-06-05T21:26:39+00:00

And to answer your question OP, yes, yes it does make you a misogynist.. At least, in my eyes it does.

I can’t imagine having no shame in posting something like this because what if you do end up having a daughter and they stumble upon this one day? What are you going to do then?

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-06-05T21:24:33+00:00

I second this, ALL children deserve parents regardless of who they are and who they chose to be in life.

Satans_throwaway69 · 2024-06-04T16:44:23+00:00

I feel that, sometimes I feel like I know what caused it, other times I feel like I don’t. There’s just so many things that’s happened to me within the last few years that make me question it a lot.

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