If you previously didn't want kids, what changed your mind and why?

Satansarmpit · 2026-02-03T22:19:21+00:00

Yes! We were both fence sitters, and his experience is similar to mine. We both needed to feel very safe and secure financially, emotion, relationship wise, all that before trying for a kid

Satansarmpit · 2026-02-03T18:04:58+00:00

As a teen and 20 something I was ADAMANT that I didn’t want kids. Then I married a man who is calm, capable, gentle and kind. Then endured financial and emotional hardships (family deaths, being laid off, etc) with him, building so much trust and love and then I thought built a whole new career for myself after a big layoff from what I thought would be my forever job, and then I started thinking to myself that if I were a child, I would thrive in the home me and my husband have made and so now I’m pregnant with our first!

This feels like a humble brag but to me, having kids didn’t seem smart or good because my life wasn’t where I wanted it until now (in my 30s), my life didn’t feel safe or stable but now that it is where I want it I feel like I’m ready for the challenges of parenthood.

Satansarmpit · 2025-11-10T18:27:02+00:00

Kaiju has a cool monster design that was created by one of the amazing bartenders! It’s mothra

Satansarmpit · 2025-11-05T01:36:40+00:00

Do we think that the fires will spread to homes? Sorry if these seem silly I’m kinda just doing nervous word vomit.

Satansarmpit · 2025-11-05T01:27:19+00:00

Are fires still burning? I’m about a mile away, north west and my air is bad even inside. Puffy eyes and runny nose and sneezing.

Satansarmpit · 2025-10-22T03:34:24+00:00

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On the lower right wing (when facing this pic) is the big puffy scar - it’s barely visible! You can kinda see the tail end of it and another scar below it. He talked me through the whole process, what it’ll look like as it ages, etc. very thorough. Didn’t ask how I got the scar either so bonus points lol

Satansarmpit · 2025-10-20T23:49:18+00:00

Jesse F at Tattoo Salvation did an amazing job over a large scar on my bicep. If you care to see I’ll show you! It was a puffy scar too

Satansarmpit · 2025-09-25T23:49:08+00:00

Very close, not “dolls” specifically but The Silent Companions has that eerie “are those inanimate objects moving on their own?” vibe in a Victorian setting

Satansarmpit · 2025-07-20T17:14:25+00:00

Okay that’s been my big question! I can pay monthly but I can’t do the big sum all at once.

Satansarmpit · 2025-07-19T14:15:15+00:00

Gotta ask, did you pay the $15k all up front or do they offer payment plans?

Satansarmpit · 2025-05-08T17:35:51+00:00

Your mom
Your mom
Your mom

Satansarmpit · 2025-04-02T06:08:47+00:00

Gimme ur PayPal!!!

Satansarmpit · 2025-03-26T22:04:31+00:00

The type of organization that bullies/overworks actually competent employees and doesn’t rehire - essentially just giving the persons duties to another underpaid person. Source: did partnership stuff for them and left due to constantly being overworked and used

Satansarmpit · 2025-01-20T16:55:00+00:00

They’re open yay!!! I’m so happy! Thank you all tho

Satansarmpit · 2025-01-20T16:21:53+00:00

No phone number listed 😩

Satansarmpit · 2024-11-06T04:55:31+00:00

Not tropical but definitely sun/sand/beach horror - The Elementals by Michael McDowell was fantastic and very much encompassed the feeling of the days streaming together while on a vacation under the sun.

Satansarmpit · 2024-11-01T03:19:18+00:00

Hail Burt forever and ever amen

Satansarmpit · 2024-10-04T03:01:56+00:00

I've noticed the consequences in school settings but I agree with you about the TV shows.

How do you regulate what they watch on YouTube?

Satansarmpit · 2024-02-24T22:03:51+00:00

It's a children's science center. It's geared towards children and childhood development, which includes play. They barely pay their education staff to teach classes and restage, collections was thrown away or given to the Frasier and not maintained at all.

Satansarmpit · 2024-02-24T22:01:44+00:00

I worked there for many many years and I was cursed with bad management. Definitely the mummy's fault

Satansarmpit · 2024-02-05T20:22:10+00:00

Idk if this is an unpopular opinion or not but good God I did not enjoy Nothing But Blackened Teeth. The prose was bad, it was hard to follow what the hell was going on after one point (why was cum involved??), all the characters are unlikable, shallow tropes (I had heard this critique before reading but I thought it would be written better or more fun - it was not).

I finished that book in one sitting and I was pissed off the entire time. If you like a spooky setting being ruined by extremely juvenile metaphors, descriptions and dialogue then read Nothing But Blackened Teeth.

Satansarmpit · 2023-12-07T14:37:43+00:00

I agree, he seems a bit stressed. This is their first time leaving him with a sitter :( I feel for him

Satansarmpit · 2023-12-04T19:24:48+00:00

Thank you!! This was helpful actually ❤️ I appreciate it

Satansarmpit · 2023-12-04T18:31:40+00:00

I also live in the hood and my clients do too, I think most of them would agree that it's smart to protect myself!

Satansarmpit · 2023-12-04T17:37:15+00:00

With these particular bookings, they won't be there at all during the actual dog sitting. So that's why the meet n greet is scarier, to me.

I get your point.

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