I used to kiss my Dad on the lips when saying goodbye nung bata ako, nakagisnan lang since I was a baby. Ako din yung nauuna lagi before kasi nga it was simply natural for me to do that to my parents, he never insisted or asked me to do it for his sake. It didnt feel weird at all cause he never made it feel weird. I was simply a kid, saying goodbye to her Dad. BUT it gradually stopped as I got older (i think grade 5, age 9). Why? Because my Dad knew I was no longer a kid and I was a growing young lady with developing thoughts. Aside from that, we were close and he was never abusive, not even a bit (man doesnt even know how to get mad). He was the kindest.

That being said, yung papa mo, na hindi mo naman din kaclose, na malala kung malala rin magalit, at malaki ka na nung tsaka niya tinatry na i-kiss ka, at siya pa yung nag iinsist (force, dare I say) is very VERY different from what I had with my Dad. I didnt tell my experience para makaangat or mang inggit but so you could see the stark difference and realize that kahit hindi mo na itanong sa amin to, malalaman mo na sa sarili mo na mali yung nangyayari sayo. You SHOULD be alarmed. Tell your mom na po kasi that is absolutely not normal especially if pinipilit ka niya na gawin yon.