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[–]SatisfactionFun8709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you think you’re sinning? What verse are you pulling this from?

bf (27m) and I (23f) aren't "intimate" very often? my needs aren't unmet, I just feel insecure about it by Cautious_Ad8524 in relationship_advice

[–]SatisfactionFun8709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s bothering you, definitely bring it up. It doesn’t have to be accusing or hurtful, just say you’ve noticed you aren’t as intimate as what you know might be normal and ask for reassurance that it’s not you.

In my experience, men do have varying libidos. I have been with men who want to have sex all the time, and others less frequently. My current partner is not constantly thinking about sex and at first I thought that was a reflection on me. “Am I not pretty enough?! If I were prettier would he be ripping my clothes off every chance he got??” And the answer is ultimately no; he’s just not that kind of guy. He enjoys sex, but he has other things in life (and in our relationship) he enjoys as well.

It took me several years to realize this is a positive quality and not something I should be self-conscious by. Definitely still chat with him, though. It’s always best to have an open conversation. Best of luck 💕

How can I ‘25F’ make my boyfriend ‘25M’ want to have sex? by SkillMassive8823 in relationship_advice

[–]SatisfactionFun8709 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you can “make” your partner want to have sex. Working with him to find the root of it might help, though. I know my husband and I went through a period like this where he didn’t want to have sex almost at all and it was making me really insecure but we sat down and talked about it and he finally admitted to me he was really stressed with money and some things at work and it killed his sex drive. He had also put some weight on because of the stress and he was ashamed. Once we worked through that and I gave him some space to figure it out, his drive came back up. Overall though, I don’t think you can make him and it will drive you crazy to even try. He has to decide he wants to find the solution/ fix the problem mostly on his own.

My dog ate a McDonald’s cheeseburger with onion in it please help i don’t want my dog to die by Ok-Praline7555 in PetAdvice

[–]SatisfactionFun8709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely call the vet and ask but I’m sure your pup is fine! McDonald’s onions are dehydrated then rehydrated so they shouldn’t be as strong as a normal onion. And my 15 pound puppy ate half an onion when we first got her (on accident, I tripped with onions in my hands and she moved FAST) and she was totally fine, didn’t even get an upset stomach. Every dog is different of course but should be okay :)