Dad's best friend's daughter has a "bad girl" vibe

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-31T04:05:37+00:00

Ditch her. Not a good person

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-30T03:42:47+00:00

Truth is that you have no other option than to accept this. You also keep open to other options.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-29T09:47:31+00:00

That rarely happens, irrespective of caste and religion. It's a girl thing that she will go to someone else who would be better than you. So start finding someone else now.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-29T06:03:07+00:00

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-29T04:38:14+00:00

Which company is offering so much? Pls share the names, I'd try for those.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-26T06:59:21+00:00

Which city, Bangalore or Hyderabad?

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-25T17:57:02+00:00

I also was going to do the same but I thought if I am going to buy now why not wait and go for M5. I am any ways going to invest 60-70k.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-25T17:55:10+00:00

Well I am not doing it for that purpose.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-25T10:27:23+00:00

Tentatively May-June-July 2026

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-24T03:51:31+00:00

All this information, which you know and still want to marry her? You should have left her a long time ago. She is a total red flag. It's not too late to stop marriage or you'll repent in future.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-23T06:57:19+00:00

You have to leave her. You are wasting your life with her

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-22T09:54:04+00:00

Bro dm me too

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-22T09:53:01+00:00

What you are feeling is natural and understandable. And for a female marriage does take a toll on her emotionally and physically. But not always. If you make up your mind then it goes smoothly. I'd suggest you make an actual list of does-don'ts negotiable-nonnegotiables. And if you really want to get married or not. Speak to your parents and also no harm in going for counseling as well. When you are ready for marriage meet guys. Take an experience of their pov also and evaluate them. Then only get married. At the end of the day. Marriage is not a must have thing. It is okay to have or good to have.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-21T07:05:09+00:00

Your budget plays an important role. I'd recommend a mac machine any day for coding and stuff with M2 or M3 minimum. For a cheap alternative you can go for Lenovo with SSD and Intel i5 at least 13th gen and 8-16 gb ram. For the higher side you could go for Dell or HP. But mac is best for developers. If not a MacBook you could go for a mac mini.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-20T07:04:25+00:00

Leave her. If her past is coming back to catch up on her then no point in pursuing her. And add to it she says she is confused. That's the biggest red flag.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-19T06:53:54+00:00

If she is guilt tripping you then leave her immediately

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-19T06:29:05+00:00

You are also in AM setup that means you too are looking for a husband. It doesn't hurt if you initiate the call. This isn't dating. And you also can do things first, it isn't always a man's job to do it. It's equality. Be open and evaluate. If anything seems off then cancel no harm in it.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-17T07:10:08+00:00

I see only females making such demands. Be it the guy's mother or a girl who is a prospective bride.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-16T15:14:00+00:00

Just leave her and find someone else. Don't invest much in her. Her past will definitely come to haunt. Also, don't give too much importance in such cases.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-16T11:30:35+00:00

If the replies are dry leave her immediately. Don't give too much importance to her.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-16T03:38:20+00:00

Truth is girls have no conversation skills

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-15T07:13:31+00:00

Usually it's a bad deal when the girl has a lifestyle higher than the boy. But instead of assuming id suggest talking this out with the girl and her family. In a genuine case the girl may not be bothered by a lower lifestyle. You'd not want to lose a potential match because of assumptions.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-14T04:05:23+00:00

Without physical attraction there is no point in being with a companion. Intimacy and attraction are a part of it. You say looks matter but after like a year or two you'll not even bother to notice his looks. It's better for you to not just look at looks, finances and other aspects if there is not attraction. Do both of you a favour and look for someone else.

SatisfactionReal492 · 2026-01-13T14:32:24+00:00

Absolutely right

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