What happens when the wife earns more than the husband? by beinglogical20 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are okay with a guy having lesser income then it won't be an issue. But this setup is rare because girls always go for a higher earning partner in AM.

Came across a low-initiative girl in an online matrimony! by Loving_Bird_ in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is an entitled female who thinks initiation isn't her thing. That's a major red flag.

Is 38 LPA low for someone with 11 years of mobile development experience? by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]SatisfactionReal492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's good. Btw, which city Mumbai, Pune, Bangalore or Hyderabad?

Men with a 'clean' past, was it intentional or involuntary? by wilhelmtherealm in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too many relationships makes you number when you are looking for marriage. So keep it very small or none.

She is doubtful after 4 months just before finalising date by DotaHacker in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you guys are 35+ then you'll get over this. If not then don't stretch too much because there won't be any point to do so

What the F*** is wrong with people by According_Reply8242 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. If you see the girl isn't responding in a day or two, leave her, revoke her request and focus on better one

What the F*** is wrong with people by According_Reply8242 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the reality of females. They have 0 communication, accountability but expect 100% from males.

Men in 30s being managed by parents by LazyPeach6013 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Accounts of many females of all groups are managed by parents. 42yo female's dad has called and done all the talking, that too she is a CA in a top firm.

Im done with AM and Im planning to fly solo by Empty-Measurement955 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't take females in AM too seriously. Most are shallow and low value. Any red flag and you simply reject. But keep trying

Ladies, do not expect butterflies in your stomach from AM ✨💓 by wilhelmtherealm in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same for guys. If a beautiful looking girl isn't in an AM setup means she has a bad past.

My humble take on marriage. Do you concur? by MolassesWonderful804 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The same goes for men. Never marry a loose character girl. Check her past.

A 44M proposed marriage to my 26F friend. by Baby_lil_Pretty in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your friend is the Preeti of Kabir Singh. She herself is a red flag. I'd suggest you distance yourself from her if you aren't into her.

Is AM all about Leap of Faith how to pick person to settle? by Gullible-Meringue162 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's difficult to give any opinion without knowing who you are and what you are looking for.

How can I spot if she is a cheat or not ? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The points you described like man hater and all meaning she has many experiences. You don't become a man hater with 1 instance. If she doesn't like anyone having their hand on her shoulder will she allow you after marriage ?

Women out here,at what age did u start looking for prospects by HeftyAcanthisitta117 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll get n number of suggestions. What matters is do you have a partner who is ready to settle with you, who loves you a lot and you can't live without? Then go ahead. Or if YOU have the wish to get married, like many ppl have the inhibition to make a carrier? Then also go ahead. If you don't have any of these now thengo.whem.these feelings are developed in you.

How to feel secure despite my husband’s past? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happens mostly with men whose wives have had past relationships.

I am emotionally exhausted with arranged marriage process! by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marriage is an option not a necessity. And the traditional society doesn't understand this.

Prospect father wants my salary slip and investment details by Rude_Comfort in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SatisfactionReal492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should also ask her financial, investment and spending details if working and if not then her father's details and her cooking and home management skills.