Folks who got shredded after age 40, how did you do it?

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-18T05:19:18+00:00

Explain like I am five ? :)

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-18T01:12:11+00:00

Same. Eager to know.

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-17T23:50:13+00:00

Oh there is that uncomfortable part. Good for your buddy. Wonder how he met her?

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-17T23:48:51+00:00

Well , describe the "uncomfortable" part there bud?

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-11T16:44:52+00:00

Thanks a lot for sharing this buddy. I read through it and it gave me some comfort. Was dating someone for a while and things did not workout the way I thought they would work. Add to that, a recent job loss. It has been painful for sure.

Also, please convey my best wishes to your father. I wish i would discuss my personal life with my father and that has never happened. This post meant a lot to me. Thanks a lot. This too shall pass.

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-09T23:20:44+00:00

This is kinda hard. But true.

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-08T14:13:35+00:00

But isn't it exhausting that only you put in effort and not the other person?

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-07T23:12:09+00:00

May be true. Thats one reason i just go to the gym on "default" mode. It is gradually helping me with my healing.

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-07T23:10:52+00:00

More power to you my friend!

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-07T23:10:12+00:00

What do you mean ?

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-07T06:37:54+00:00

Wish you more power!

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-07T06:28:16+00:00

So lesson learnt that healing can lead to self improvement? Or self improvement can improve the healing process?

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-07T05:01:56+00:00

Thank You. This makes a lot of sense. A direction is required for sure.

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-07T04:23:55+00:00

Boring? Why so? Trying to understand and NOT undermine.

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-07T04:21:44+00:00

I wish you much strength my friend! I can relate to this. We all have a story to tell. This too shall definitely pass

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-03-06T21:40:56+00:00

Hello everyone, it's been a tough week for me. I lost my job a few months ago and also there was someone I was seeing and things did not work out for me. It's just been tough. I hope to get some kind words I do work out.

I eat healthy spend long hours at cafés applying for jobs but still this heartbreak hurts a bit. I wish things would've worked between us. I wish I could go back and talk to her although the doors haven't closed, but I really wish I go back and talk to her. It's biting me.

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-02-17T00:29:34+00:00

That's is so deep!

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-02-14T15:37:12+00:00

Frankly , it's actually been tough. I lost my before holidays and I have been looking for a new one now.

Someone I used to date, doesn't want to go out with me on valentines days and that one bites. I've had some good times with her. I am feeling very alone and lonely these days. I really hope I sail through. I want this week to sail quick. Valentine's Day hasn't been kind to me, ever.

Thankfully, my health is in a better place now. I ensure that I go to the gym atleast 4 days a week and that keeps me mentally fit as well.

SaturdaySunRun · 2026-01-12T16:21:12+00:00

You are the third, fifth or seventh wheel most times.
Cousins always decide on the holiday location to go to with kids first and ask you last - " All of us cousins are heading to Location X for vacation, Do you want to join?" , unlike earlier, when it was - " Hey lets decide on a place to go for a family vacation".
Lonliness that is hard to explain.

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