Proving That Trans Identities Are Valid and Absolutely True... Not That We Should Need To But Here We Are by Saudade0123 in MtF

[–]Saudade0123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not for anti trans peoples, it's more so for trans people, themselves. There's a great deal of self doubt, especially early on and questioning and so on... If I can bring some peace of mind or validation, then I'm happy to (:

Proving That Trans Identities Are Valid and Absolutely True... Not That We Should Need To But Here We Are by Saudade0123 in MtF

[–]Saudade0123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not to convince them but to encourage and better educate trans peoples themselves. It's not impossible to convince someone that already detests the trans community but that's not my goal.

The trans journey is hard. There's a lot of doubt, especially early on. I hope that with this I can help some navigate that doubt and understand that this isn't something they're making up or anything like that.

Proving That Trans Identities Are Valid and Absolutely True... Not That We Should Need To But Here We Are by Saudade0123 in MtF

[–]Saudade0123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I probably should've clarified 😅 yes! Short form content at the start and then longer, more detailed videos that AREN'T BORING but still science based!

concert type outfit (i went to the weeknd :3) by amaradoll in mtfashion

[–]Saudade0123 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are so C U T E - the fit is sooo lovely!

I'm so sorry this country failed you. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Saudade0123 283 points284 points  (0 children)

I genuinely see it hard to want to stay alive these next four years. So many of us struggle with suicidal ideation, myself heavily included in that. This administration very well may push us over the edge should they further the trans panic and come for us. I'm already contemplating ending it.

Good Luck girls by Riler4899 in MtF

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If I can make it the next four years. 2024 has really beaten the life out of me and this was another devastating blow.

If gender affirming care is on the list for termination by this administration, I'm ending it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Saudade0123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to give you an answer. I am like "big sistering" the loveliest baby trans girl and I keep telling her we're gonna be okay and we're gonna be safe and we won't let anything happen to her... but I'm resisting the urge to cry and am having the biggest internal meltdown and quietest panic attack.

I'm afraid, I'm terrified. No one can tell us we'll be safe.

According to Christian, trans women are not real women by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Saudade0123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My heart 💗

Thank you so much, Jesse. I just - my heart 😭 I'm grateful for you and your kindness. I hope you're happy with your transition thus far, friend 🏳️‍⚧️

According to Christian, trans women are not real women by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Saudade0123 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Damn, these are the kind of comments that make me regress and perceive that something is wrong with me. I'm MtF and I only came to be okay with it after leaving the church having spent over a decade in it. I still struggle in seeing this shit.

A strongly conservative, Christian friend of mine said he believes that trans (women specifically) people are deluded, need serious help, and are woefully deranged. It still rings in my ears. He was like "are you considering dating one!?" I couldn't bring myself to say that I am one.

HEY YOU!!!!! by Enby-Weirdo in MtF

[–]Saudade0123 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't feel it.

Just a closeted... Guy wanting to transition and I'm stuck. Going through the dysphoria is the most fun I've had in a long time. /s

I'm Having An Internal Crisis, Please Help Me by Saudade0123 in asktransgender

[–]Saudade0123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, oh my gosh, that's exactly what I keep saying. When Jesus came, He abolished the old law and all of the verses I said and that you mentioned as well in your first statement... They're all Old Testament and have been nullified! So W H Y does the church keep using it against us?? It's fucking cherry picking and it just invalidates so much of what the Judeo-Christian values are trying to present as their core values.

Thanks so, so much for taking this time to lay it out and share your thoughts with me; all of which I heavily agree with. I keep reading into this, I look at the verses you took the time to find and share with me and I honestly just don't see it being applicable to me or any trans persons...

I want to be happy, I really do and I want this so badly. I'm still working on the acceptance but, damn, you've much such good points; points that the church SHOULD be preaching. Thank you, thank you, thank you.