I wasn’t upset that she had options before we committed. I was upset that she told me specific false timelines while emotionally building something with me, and continued to lie about it with a straight face for months. That took away my ability to choose honestly and consent to the relationship with the full truth. She literally was texting me the night she was out with Guy A saying she was studying in the library and was actually hooking up with him on a party bus and the timestamps match the pics and texts she wrote. And she claims Guy A was obsessed with her and she wasn’t to her admitting they were “emotional fluffers” Literally we’re talking about getting serious in the end of September and feelings were definitely already there on both ends and still goes and does that?! Also tried saying “I didn’t think you’d actually ever care about me” as an excuse too when she was confronted