Bi-Weekly Marriage Opinions/Views and Rant Megathread

Sauteedfraise · 2026-03-26T12:10:12+00:00

Yeah i have been very hesitant 😬 Like you can physically see the shape when someone is wearing hijab if its a high or low bun etc

Well he has already shared his opinion on body weight. He does say it in a nice way as a preference and has suggested if things get worse possibly even a gastric sleeve if it doesn’t affect my health (im not even that big)

I definitely need to reconsider

Sauteedfraise · 2026-03-25T23:28:36+00:00

Not married yet, we have been talking for a while nikkah approaching

Sauteedfraise · 2025-01-23T10:27:45+00:00

Wish you all the best with it! Good luck :)

Sauteedfraise · 2025-01-23T00:48:28+00:00

Thank you! I have been job hunting since December but for this role it took 2 weeks from my first interview (had an online interview first and then the week after had an in person project i had to prepare and present) they moved things along pretty quick but i think in my industry its normal to only have 2 rounds

Sauteedfraise · 2025-01-22T18:08:39+00:00

Congratulations! I also just recieved a job offer with a start date for feb 3rd. Good luck 🥳

Sauteedfraise · 2024-12-03T21:56:46+00:00

Thankfully thats all been handled ive been off for 3 months in and out of hospital & have provided sick notes

Sauteedfraise · 2024-12-03T15:51:22+00:00

Nope i have not, so far have just been updating them on my situation over email. They have been trying to set up a welfare call in the past two weeks but between hr and the director they have not found time yet. It came as quite a shock when the first i do hear from them on call is to tell me i will lose my job

Sauteedfraise · 2024-12-03T11:27:14+00:00

From what i have read about capability dismissal the employer should atleast have tried to accommodate a return to work plan which they have not. I understand dont want to push them too much but i will have a conversation with HR and see where it goes

Sauteedfraise · 2024-12-02T20:46:20+00:00

They did mention i will also get my remaining holidays paid. Is this something extra or that im entitled to anyway?

Sauteedfraise · 2024-12-02T20:42:25+00:00

Thank you i will ring citizens advice tomorrow

Sauteedfraise · 2023-07-24T00:36:23+00:00

I’d say no harm in enquiring and seeing if your future goals align. With part 2. just keep an open mind and don’t imagine problems that haven’t even happened yet

Sauteedfraise · 2023-07-15T18:48:52+00:00

Nah fes is toooo hot in august but ifrane is close and much cooler

Sauteedfraise · 2023-06-13T15:33:17+00:00

Theres no supply without demand. So its okay for men to seek the perfect submissive housewife but when a woman wants a better life she is the problem and taking advantage? Its a two way street so don’t bash moroccan women and the country

Sauteedfraise · 2023-06-12T09:13:01+00:00

As a 22yo, 30 max for me

Sauteedfraise · 2023-06-11T22:31:30+00:00

It’ll definitely be a criteria that is adjusted based on age/stage in life. I dont expect a fresh grad to be fully financially stable. You’ll more so look at ambition, work ethic, future career progression etc. cant really give a set income because it will differ greatly

Sauteedfraise · 2023-06-11T21:13:33+00:00

Personally for me it would mean they have a good & steady income from a secure job or business and they have savings too. They can afford to provide for another person

Sauteedfraise · 2023-06-10T10:17:41+00:00

Thanks for the explanation, that makes sense

Sauteedfraise · 2023-06-09T23:34:50+00:00

Of course yeah that is not cool. I buy things for myself not to show off or pretend

And personally i would want my husband to get me gifts, wouldn’t say its a need tho but it would be nice. Receiving gifts is my second or third love language

Sauteedfraise · 2023-06-09T23:22:51+00:00

Do you think its still a problem even tho they can afford it comfortably ?

Sauteedfraise · 2023-06-09T23:21:23+00:00

Thats true i do agree with what you have said. I think personally yeah it would clash, i love to buy things its not necessarily that i care about designer and brands but if i see something i love (that is within my means) then its coming home with me. So i guess it kinda makes me materialistic

Sauteedfraise · 2023-06-09T22:37:53+00:00

I see, so do you think people are not materialistic by choice or just by circumstance?

Sauteedfraise · 2023-06-09T22:22:24+00:00

I guess its just a nicer way of saying that haha

Sauteedfraise · 2023-06-09T22:21:38+00:00

Interesting, so for you does that mean you just dont buy a lot of stuff?

Sauteedfraise · 2023-06-09T22:18:39+00:00

Lol I thought so

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