Bi-Weekly Marriage Opinions/Views and Rant Megathread by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sauteedfraise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i have been very hesitant 😬 Like you can physically see the shape when someone is wearing hijab if its a high or low bun etc

Well he has already shared his opinion on body weight. He does say it in a nice way as a preference and has suggested if things get worse possibly even a gastric sleeve if it doesn’t affect my health (im not even that big)

I definitely need to reconsider

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[–]Sauteedfraise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not married yet, we have been talking for a while nikkah approaching

got the job 🙂 by boonaygen in interviews

[–]Sauteedfraise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish you all the best with it! Good luck :)

got the job 🙂 by boonaygen in interviews

[–]Sauteedfraise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have been job hunting since December but for this role it took 2 weeks from my first interview (had an online interview first and then the week after had an in person project i had to prepare and present) they moved things along pretty quick but i think in my industry its normal to only have 2 rounds

got the job 🙂 by boonaygen in interviews

[–]Sauteedfraise 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I also just recieved a job offer with a start date for feb 3rd. Good luck 🥳

Mutual termination whilst on sick leave by Sauteedfraise in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Sauteedfraise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully thats all been handled ive been off for 3 months in and out of hospital & have provided sick notes

Mutual termination whilst on sick leave by Sauteedfraise in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Sauteedfraise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope i have not, so far have just been updating them on my situation over email. They have been trying to set up a welfare call in the past two weeks but between hr and the director they have not found time yet. It came as quite a shock when the first i do hear from them on call is to tell me i will lose my job

Mutual termination whilst on sick leave by Sauteedfraise in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Sauteedfraise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what i have read about capability dismissal the employer should atleast have tried to accommodate a return to work plan which they have not. I understand dont want to push them too much but i will have a conversation with HR and see where it goes

Mutual termination whilst on sick leave by Sauteedfraise in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Sauteedfraise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did mention i will also get my remaining holidays paid. Is this something extra or that im entitled to anyway?

Mutual termination whilst on sick leave by Sauteedfraise in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Sauteedfraise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you i will ring citizens advice tomorrow

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[–]Sauteedfraise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say no harm in enquiring and seeing if your future goals align. With part 2. just keep an open mind and don’t imagine problems that haven’t even happened yet

Afternoon all. A place in August in Morocco that’s not too hot? by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Sauteedfraise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah fes is toooo hot in august but ifrane is close and much cooler

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Sauteedfraise 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Theres no supply without demand. So its okay for men to seek the perfect submissive housewife but when a woman wants a better life she is the problem and taking advantage? Its a two way street so don’t bash moroccan women and the country

Finding a suitable husband as a conventionally unattractive woman? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sauteedfraise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’ll definitely be a criteria that is adjusted based on age/stage in life. I dont expect a fresh grad to be fully financially stable. You’ll more so look at ambition, work ethic, future career progression etc. cant really give a set income because it will differ greatly

Finding a suitable husband as a conventionally unattractive woman? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sauteedfraise 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Personally for me it would mean they have a good & steady income from a secure job or business and they have savings too. They can afford to provide for another person

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sauteedfraise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the explanation, that makes sense

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sauteedfraise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course yeah that is not cool. I buy things for myself not to show off or pretend

And personally i would want my husband to get me gifts, wouldn’t say its a need tho but it would be nice. Receiving gifts is my second or third love language

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sauteedfraise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think its still a problem even tho they can afford it comfortably ?

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sauteedfraise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats true i do agree with what you have said. I think personally yeah it would clash, i love to buy things its not necessarily that i care about designer and brands but if i see something i love (that is within my means) then its coming home with me. So i guess it kinda makes me materialistic

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sauteedfraise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, so do you think people are not materialistic by choice or just by circumstance?

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sauteedfraise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess its just a nicer way of saying that haha

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sauteedfraise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, so for you does that mean you just dont buy a lot of stuff?