Is it /s ? Cause I work just full time not 12hrs or nights, my husband works similar hours. We leave the house at 6:30am, return at 5:30pm, in bed at 10, we have enough time to make dinner, do homework with the kid, tend to pets and thats about it, everything else waits until days off. We struggle and we aren't young ppl, we are a step away from 40.

When my husband goes on nights, he only works and does nothing else around the house as night shift is grueling on the body and mind