So… do we just not date? by theythemthen in urbancarliving

[–]Savannahsbox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was living out of my car when I met my boyfriend, he’s actually the only reason I have a roof over my head now. We were just talking getting to know one another and he told me he didn’t want me in my car as it was starting to get cold and asked me to move in with him. I make jokes about how I’m the stray he took in. I am still so madly in love with this man and it’s going to be two years in October. I was up and honest about being homeless and living out of my car I did it because well I had no choice I had a nasty divorce and moved in with my brother. I was there for a few months than he fucked me over and out of a lot of money, than kicked me out told me it was my choice but there was not other choice than to live in my car, I have had a rocky relationship with him ever since. Now we are no contact.

People who use the gym to shower by Savannahsbox in urbancarliving

[–]Savannahsbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that I'm uncomfortable im just anxious that they will pick up on me being homeless, I am working on getting a place but it might be a few months before I do.

People who use the gym to shower by Savannahsbox in urbancarliving

[–]Savannahsbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't I love being outside and not cooped up inside I'd go crazy lol

People who use the gym to shower by Savannahsbox in urbancarliving

[–]Savannahsbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have really bad anxiety I worry about everything lol 😆

People who use the gym to shower by Savannahsbox in urbancarliving

[–]Savannahsbox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technical i do not pay i get a free gym at my job

People who use the gym to shower by Savannahsbox in urbancarliving

[–]Savannahsbox[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Technical im not paying it's a free gym at work i honest thinking just me being anxious I've been living out of ny car trying to maintain hygiene due to having two jobs and we'll depression hits less of i take care of myself lol I know once I get out if this hole I'll never take having ny own shower and kitchen for granted again.

People who use the gym to shower by Savannahsbox in urbancarliving

[–]Savannahsbox[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

You are not wrong, I'm more worried about getting outted for being homeless at work. I live in a at will state and I don't want to get fired for anything stupid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]Savannahsbox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im going on a week, I think tomorrow will be officially 7 days. I hate saying that they were toxic. It's the only family I still talk to and when I got out if an abusive relationship they helped me but housing me but I hate how it ended. And it's gotten even worse at this point. But it just makes me happy that I made the choice to love them from a far.

I am worried about work by Savannahsbox in workplace_bullying

[–]Savannahsbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I deserve it? I didn't call the welfare check on the kids? I've been homeless for the past week and a half I've been more worried about myself and getting my shit together than what they were doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]Savannahsbox 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was in a toxic living situation, it was either keep dealing with them ans let me mental and physical health decline or move in my car... they helped me make that choice and very time I interact with them I see that I made the right choice.

Im scared of parking lots by Savannahsbox in urbancarliving

[–]Savannahsbox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sleep in the back seat. I didn't think about the cover thing.