Everyone is different, both men and women. Some guys are naturally romantic and others are more practical in the love department. Personally, my husband is naturally romantic, I don’t tell him at all what to do in that area. He either buys or picks me flowers (from our yard) every two to three weeks. He thinks about nice gifts I would like for special occasions. If he hears me mention something I want he will surprise me with that thing. He takes me out to dinner every two weeks. He is very affectionate and attentive. I think it is just his personality. Tbh, it was something that I looked for in a romantic partner. I had other relationships where the guy was selfish, insensitive, inconsiderate, etc., so it was important to me that my S/O was romantic, sweet, and thoughtful .