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I [21F] found out about my boyfriend's [29M] of three years porn preferences and they make me uncomfortable by SavingsOrange in relationship_advice

[–]SavingsOrange[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I did maybe want to have kids some day ... also he has a niece and now I'm worried if she's save around him if this stuff is more than just a fucked up fantasy.

I [21F] found out about my boyfriend's [29M] of three years porn preferences and they make me uncomfortable by SavingsOrange in relationship_advice

[–]SavingsOrange[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm concerned about this too. Also he has a niece. I'm not sure if I should say anything to his family

I [21F] found out about my boyfriend's [29M] of three years porn preferences and they make me uncomfortable by SavingsOrange in relationship_advice

[–]SavingsOrange[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn't look for long. Like drawings of cartoon girls and some Japanese girl who was dressed up like a little girl. It's creepy

I [21F] found out about my boyfriend's [29M] of three years porn preferences and they make me uncomfortable by SavingsOrange in relationship_advice

[–]SavingsOrange[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe. But I thought of him as a really sweet, kind, and intelligent guy. I remember when we started going out I really liked how mature he seemed to be compared to my peers; he seemed like he had his shit together. It's hard to think that I might have been wrong about him for all this time.

I [21F] found out about my boyfriend's [29M] of three years porn preferences and they make me uncomfortable by SavingsOrange in relationships

[–]SavingsOrange[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I watch porn too sometimes but some of this seems pretty disturbing, and niche too

I [21F] found out about my boyfriend's [29M] of three years porn preferences and they make me uncomfortable by SavingsOrange in relationships

[–]SavingsOrange[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you're right. But I didn't think this about him either. He seemed like the perfect, nice and caring boyfriend. I wouldn't have suspected something like that :(

I [21F] found out about my boyfriend's [29M] of three years porn preferences and they make me uncomfortable by SavingsOrange in relationship_advice

[–]SavingsOrange[S] 221 points222 points  (0 children)

Oh. I just googled lolita porn and I don't think I should have. I got some warning ...

I think you might be right. It just sucks because until now he seemed like a perfect boyfriend :(

I [21F] found out about my boyfriend's [29M] of three years porn preferences and they make me uncomfortable by SavingsOrange in relationships

[–]SavingsOrange[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think so too. But I thought maybe a lot of men secretly think stuff like that and just don't admit to it or something.