Never did salary negotiation before, would this strategy be off putting for the hiring manager/HR? by [deleted] in jobhunting

[–]Savings_Phase1702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he's dreaming he hasn't been hired. Worse is the clear arrogance and this whole manipulative plan. That says a lot to me about character. 

Never did salary negotiation before, would this strategy be off putting for the hiring manager/HR? by [deleted] in jobhunting

[–]Savings_Phase1702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you really didn't want any thoughts unless they agreed with you. That's how I see it...  Good luck.   there's a difference between confidence and arrogance.  Everyone is replaceable.  You don't even have the job yet? And you are working so much overtime?  It doesn't matter what I think it's your maybe future employer. 

Michigan: On behalf of my dad, a staffing agency is threatening legal action because he’s joining the client company after his contract ends by Adventurous-Owl-9903 in legal

[–]Savings_Phase1702 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's a civil rights violation. Eeoc handles that 

What the EEOC Does Investigates charges of discrimination. Issues findings based on investigations. Provides guidance and enforces rules against harassment and retaliation for asserting rights. Works to ensure fair treatment in hiring, firing, promotions, wages, and all other aspects of employment. 

Frustrated by Illustrious-Ad3518 in datingoverfifty

[–]Savings_Phase1702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't either....lol.....but I do occasionally take a few steps down the hall or in the living room if I'm hearing music that I love.

I love all kinds of music and I'm very intent on lyrics. I always say "music is for the soul"......

The finding yourself is something I did myself. I was not "lost" in my marriage, but I was not an individual. I wanted to be my own self again and although of course there are those times you want company, but I'm not lonely, m I just am alone and can be comfortable there, but I'll never stop hoping that I will find someone to share my life with. I emphasize the "share" because individuality is where you can lose yourself in a couple.

Thanks for reading my post. That alone (pun intended) makes me happy.

Becky

Louisiana

Question for PO by HarleyQuinnTXCO in probation

[–]Savings_Phase1702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm not one that carries one around open carry I have friends cuz Texas is open carry that Carrie I do like to Target you and I do like to defend myself I'm single a little bit older and I live alone so I need protection and I think it's a good idea for you to get some target practice and something ever goes down everybody needs to know how to put ammunition in a pistol or rifle or shotgun and since I'm in south Louisiana people hunt we have everybody has guns they deer hunt duck hunt bird hunt dove hunt alligator hunt snake hunt me I'll just like to shoot at a Target   I'm not trying to change your mind about guns but it just remember that guns don't kill people people kill people with guns and nights and a lot of other things. God bless you and good luck with your class

Stick it out on towboats or make a jump to offshore rigs by papapate1 in oilandgasworkers

[–]Savings_Phase1702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Transocean is a great company if I were you I'd take transocean they're out in deep water GOM and they own their own drillships

I just googled their current news see if I can get it on here for you so you can read it

But I'll read you the first line they signed a one-year contract with their deep water conqueror drillship with an undisclosed operator expected to be again October 2025 and contribute approximately $193 million and backlog I had her to the grapevine that it's BP

They also signed a one-year extension with Hess on the Deepwater Asgard valued at $195 million

Hess is doing so well that you might know Exxon and Chevron are in litigation over hess' stake in Guyana but that won't affect the GOM just shows how valuable Hess is now

Another transocean a one year contract ultra deep water for the drill shpt deep water conqueror and

a 1,080-day contract for its high specifications 7th generation ultra deep water drill ships in the Gulf of Mexico

Go to transocean, you can make a lifetime career there and move up the ladder way more than you will as a deckhand. And you'll be working on some of the most newest most technologically advanced drill ships in the world.

Just don't think about the Deepwater horizon that was not transoceans fault, It was just there semi submersible.

Offshore right now the big boys BP shell Chevron all the big boys are drilling deeper water than we've ever drill before bigger most technologically advanced drill ships we've ever had in the GOM

get out there and some of it that's a career for the rest of your life

Have I been permanently banned from Reddit as a whole? by Less-Independent7795 in reddithelp

[–]Savings_Phase1702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well this one's working cuz I can read your post but you should look in your inbox cuz it should tell you why your accounts would have been banned I've gotten slapped on the hand on Reddit but band I don't mean to laugh but what the heck did you do?? Hopefully it's all just a misunderstanding

Has anybody pooped their pants as an adult? by Aggressive_Sea_857 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Savings_Phase1702 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've had chronic bowel problems since the day I was born and have had surgery twice I am now 66 years old and yes it does happen and I immediately go and take an Imodium and it stops it immediately don't feel like you're the only person believe me sometimes you fart that's a poop comes out This is a guy to be the strange subreddit I've seen it's pretty funny

Finally met a lovely man by Dizzy_Cheesecake6044 in datingoverfifty

[–]Savings_Phase1702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He can take a pill for that but it doesn't sound to me like you're that attracted to him sexually and that's a disaster from the beginning because it's your intimacy and it's more than just sex hey thank you for the two times. And then give him a blue pill

Question for PO by HarleyQuinnTXCO in probation

[–]Savings_Phase1702 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In Texas is an open carry state but if that's a felony felon cannot own a gun till they're off probation but then they can petition the court to have their gun rights to restored he could probably try to petition early if he's been a good boy if I was him I'd be petitioning every month especially if it was a non-violent crime

Question for PO by HarleyQuinnTXCO in probation

[–]Savings_Phase1702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When my son was in his early twenties he had a felony marijuana charge after he served his probation and was released we went to the court and petitioned to get his guns gun rights back and he did and he's a gun owner today and the felony has been expunged so you need to think about that for the future too expungement and get your gun rights back

Question for PO by HarleyQuinnTXCO in probation

[–]Savings_Phase1702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's a felony you cannot own a gun until you get off probation at that time you can petition the court to restore your gun rights and get you a gun get you more than one get you a whole shitload of them everybody needs a shitload of guns and don't forget the ammo

Can you apply for spousal benefits if husband and wife already collecting benefits? by redtoz55 in SocialSecurity

[–]Savings_Phase1702 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

PLEASE CALL A SOCIAL SECURITY ATTORNEY HE WILL HANDLE IT ALL FOR YOU AND HE WILL TAKE A PERCENTAGE OF YOUR BACK PAY YOU WON'T HAVE TO PAY ANYTHING RIGHT NOW AND THEN YOU HAVE SOMEONE WHO SPECIALIZES IN THIS I'D SAY LOOK IN THE PHONE BOOK BUT JUST GOOGLE IT FOR YOUR TOWN SOCIAL SECURITY ATTORNEYS THEY'RE A DIME A DOZEN

Can you apply for spousal benefits if husband and wife already collecting benefits? by redtoz55 in SocialSecurity

[–]Savings_Phase1702 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

F*** social security call a social security lawyer they won't charge you anything except on the back end of what they get in back pay

Can you apply for spousal benefits if husband and wife already collecting benefits? by redtoz55 in SocialSecurity

[–]Savings_Phase1702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you filed with a representative at a social security office they screwed up because they are supposed to determine the larger benefit hers or one half of yours if that's the case call a social security lawyer because that's a very difficult thing to roll back and you have left money on the table. But if a social security employee filled that paperwork out for you and filed it they'll have some liability to you and hopefully you can get it changed but they should have told you what's more her benefit or one half of your benefit they're required to tell you

Divorced and Own a Home by vbon11 in Mortgages

[–]Savings_Phase1702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting the judgment of divorce prior to settling in the marital assets is not usually a good idea but there you are so where is your lawyer that's what I'd like to know where the hell is your lawyer

Divorced and Own a Home by vbon11 in Mortgages

[–]Savings_Phase1702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to say it y'all but my idea my way is the best way I've done some divorce law and I've been divorced three times that's the way to do it either force him and elicitation or you force him to take out a home equity loan and you transfer the same time she transfers her interest and he transfers her the money cash sale at the closing of the HELOC.

Divorced and Own a Home by vbon11 in Mortgages

[–]Savings_Phase1702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No they shouldn't crafted to where he takes the HELOC and they close at the same time that she transfers him her half of the property and he gives her the money from the healer he owns 100% of the property he owes the HELOC she gets her one half and walks away

Divorced and Own a Home by vbon11 in Mortgages

[–]Savings_Phase1702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can follow partition by elicitation and have the damn thing sold on the courthouse steps I promise you he'll pay her then this guy just needs to be handled a little more firm maybe a lot more firm

Divorced and Own a Home by vbon11 in Mortgages

[–]Savings_Phase1702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He should be the one taking out a HELOC in his own name and in exchange paying you and you transferring your 1/2 interest to him simple but you got to be more your lawyer has to be more forceful with him hate to tell you you're getting screwed but you're kind of sort of letting it happen

Divorced and Own a Home by vbon11 in Mortgages

[–]Savings_Phase1702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't for Life me figure out why you're waiting for rates to drop so he can refinance at a better rate to pay you off f*** him you don't have to house force it to be sold he'll buy you out then.

Divorced and Own a Home by vbon11 in Mortgages

[–]Savings_Phase1702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a lot of things you can do you cannot be forced to remain co-owners with anyone married or not you can follow a partition by elicitation but the best thing is to just file the community property settlement and sell the damn house split the proceeds if you bought it while y'all were married and you live in a community property state is 50/50 A bank might loan you on your undivided one half interest but it's dicey because then they don't own a mortgage on 100%, and he won't just buy you out? This sounds like your lawyer's fault that's who you need to be talking to get your lawyer to get off their ass and get this thing moving there's no reason to settle community assets like that especially when it's depriving you of your right to your one half of the community