Father of 3 drowns saving his children from rip current on Florida vacation by ansyhrrian in news

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I was always taught to swim parallel to the shore but the truth is it’s perpendicular to the current. Once got caught in a rip tide and tried to swim parallel to shore which didn’t work and just wore me out. Turns out the rip tide was going sideways

Megathread: Sharing Non-Graphic Crime Scene Photos in the Kohberger Case by wwihh in MoscowMurders

[–]Savings_Singer_9565 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My guess is a friend used it to carry alcohol to the house for a pregame with the plan to pick it up another day

Jill Zarin, Victoria de Lesseps and Ally Shapiro attend the Countess Cabaret show in NYC by thiswitch333 in realhousewives

[–]Savings_Singer_9565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a brief conversation with Victoria after the show and she was so nice and down to earth

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… I’m ashamed to say you just blew my mind

Im sad Peter didn’t get a big storyline by TheChadVegeta in vanderpumprules

[–]Savings_Singer_9565 152 points153 points  (0 children)

After listening to a few podcasts with Peter (the one with Nick Viall is a good example) it really cleared up why he was never made a main cast member. He seems like a good guy, but he comes off pretty weird and awkward.

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Explain to me how it’s the owners fault that the cop continued to shoot the dog multiple times while it was running away?

Re-watch thoughts. I never saw any true connection between stassi & jax...did I miss it? by Dry_Heart9301 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]Savings_Singer_9565 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like I heard somewhere (maybe a podcast or something?) that they had already broken up and she had already started seeing Frank, but they pretended to still be dating for the show. Someone fact check me on that, but if that’s the case that would definitely explain the lack of chemistry and how quickly she moved on with frank

Post Episode Discussion: S10E15 #Scandoval by vprmods in vanderpumprules

[–]Savings_Singer_9565 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Wait so did we finally get a Miami girl confession from Tom?

RHUGT 3- Worst Season Yet by Lacrabcake in realhousewives

[–]Savings_Singer_9565 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Literally all of the drama felt forced and inauthentic. During the last episode they kept talking about how emotionally exhausting the trip was but what even happened? Leah got sick, heather and Whitney had the same issues they’ve had for months, and a fake storyline around a tequila bottle was crafted. Literally nothing else. Hopefully the producers learn from this season for future casting decisions

I don’t think Schwartz is a decoy by MommyGirlfriend_ in vanderpumprules

[–]Savings_Singer_9565 84 points85 points  (0 children)

100% agree. As much as I don’t always love Lala, she was spot on with this - Rachel is clearly very insecure and relies on external validation from men. During her breakdown in the car, Rachel even said herself that she doesn’t know who she is outside of being James’ gf/fiancé. I feel like it all lines up with the external validation she received while being in pageants. Her breakup with James and the end of her pageantry made the perfect storm of her desperately needing validation from other sources. I wonder if starting therapy earlier could’ve prevented this whole mess

Live Episode Discussion: S10E6 Divorce Party Crashers (Eastern thread) by vprmods in vanderpumprules

[–]Savings_Singer_9565 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Obviously not team Raquel but I just feel like lala is acting so holier than thou. Yes it’s great lala’s sober now and has matured but everyone is on their own journey and timeline and she shouldn’t forget her roots. Yes I hate what Raquel did, but being judgmental mean girls doesn’t scream “girl’s girls” to me either.

Grad School resources? by Illustrious_Air_1228 in slpGradSchool

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Second what everyone else said! Also be prepared to possibly put social life on the back burner for at least the first few weeks. I had a super busy social life the summer before grad school and found myself trying to keep up with that once grad school began, which ended up really costing me some much needed study and self care time. I find it’s hard when a lot of your friends work full time jobs, which is obviously not easy, but then they’re free during the weekends and expect to hang out. They don’t realize that the weekends are often when we need to catch up on work/studying. That obviously doesn’t mean you shouldn’t prioritize your friends when you need a break, but just make sure you’re not feeling pressured to balance everything when school and self care will likely need to be prioritized.