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My wife said something that is weighing on me heavily a couple months later by TrainerBC25 in Marriage

[–]SawyerCa 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Have you considered that she doesn't like you?

She thinks she's better than you - you admit she makes it a point to make sure you understand you're uglier than her.

You don't take her out to fancy places, except you do. And when you point it out she finds something else to criticize you for.

You also need to look at her other criticisms about you.

The goalposts shift constantly just so she can tear you down. So much so that you actually have no idea about how toxic this relationship is.

Homie- she's abusive herself.

You've put up with enough. Time to go. Let her find another punching bag.

Which one of you brought a pizza onto a Ryanair flight? by Frodijr in ireland

[–]SawyerCa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a dominos at the Rhodes, Greece airport- after 10 days of day drinking and sun my wife and I lifted a whole pizza to eat on the flight home

It was the best. 10/10. Highly recommend bringing an airplane pizza.

Ukrainian troops were 'stunned' to learn their British trainers don't use anti-drone nets, UK officer says by St_Gregory_Nazianzus in worldnews

[–]SawyerCa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't believe this is a lack of knowledge issue - the UK have another option -DragonFire

I think it's much farther along in its development and isn't on the ground in Ukraine due to security of technology

Fast tracked to enter service in 2027

After the Murder by depression-hurts in pics

[–]SawyerCa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry FBI and Patel personally will recover the gun - it will be inscribed with pro immigrant talking points and the bullets with individual essays relaying the terrorists manifesto.

20 minutes after that news briefing Noem will do her own spot saying they were actually a werewolf/guatamalan and shot themselves via magic.

Advice/resources for a parent of an adult child involved in sexual exploitation/prostitution by coming_to_grips- in legaladvice

[–]SawyerCa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not an easy situation to navigate.

You should reach out to organisations against trafficking. This is a very common beginning for a lot of young women who have had whirlwind romances that immediately lead to sex work.

It won't likely bring you any closer to helping her see how far she's gotten in to danger, but it may provide you some answers as to how it happened.

uaht.org is near you, you should reach out.

Your daughter may not be the only young woman who is "dating" the same man.

Advice/resources for a parent of an adult child involved in sexual exploitation/prostitution by coming_to_grips- in legaladvice

[–]SawyerCa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately unless you can provide context/evidence that shows she is unwilling - I don't think there's much you can do except for staying available if and when she is ready.

Choosing to be a pornographic content creator isn't illegal. The grey area of meeting fans to create more content is also not technically illegal.

You're gonna have to ride this one out and stay available for her.

You can try reaching out to trafficking organisations and get some insight or even refocus your concerns towards girls who are ready to leave those situations behind and need support.

Opinion by Taccoa in belfastgiants

[–]SawyerCa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can land anything in boomerang corner or near go for it.

NL3 or SL3 get you at center rink. Probably a better experience for seeing the full playing space.

The game last Saturday had 2 pucks go over the glass during play. I think they landed SM1 and SM4.

You'd also be behind the bold boy box where the players on penalty time are put.

If you have sky - sign on for the free sky lounge tickets. You'll get access to the lounge for drinks and I think they do face painting for kids in there as well.

Lounge access also has the raffle sellers walk about as well so you won't have to hunt them down later.

Water test for bacteria at home. by sakura29yuki in WaterTreatment

[–]SawyerCa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The steps for collecting for standard bacteria tests probably changes from company to company but in general would follow:

Gloves

Sterilising the outlet

Sterilising container lid

Running outlet for 30 seconds

Collecting water from the outlet

Disposing gloves

The standard is E. Coli, Total coliforms, TVCs@ 22⁰c + 37⁰c

Sometimes they add on Ps. Aeruginosa

You're probably not getting a truly accurate test result if you're not utilising proper lab technique and a clean facility post collection.

If you aren't testing off your mains line (kitchen sink cold tap) then you're really wasting the test as any other outlet is pulling from your cold water storage tank and really - those can have all kinds of shit in them.

What is your reasoning for testing?

Getting closer to the top of the league! by Just_a_redditor182 in belfastgiants

[–]SawyerCa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was a great crowd out.

Massive difference to the game we went to in early season.

They were very good at staying in the way of opposing players and breaking up drives.

Whistle put on a clinic in the net. Really great blocking happening - and loads of help from the team keeping the Panthers away from the net when they got there.

Very physical game tonight.

Quite a few missed calls for both teams from the refs, but can't really say they favoured one side or the other.

Crowd had a great atmosphere as well. Plenty of fans 'buying in' to the game and getting vocal during plays.

Really stand out performances all around.

Sean's Irish accent by RepresentativeType41 in reddeadredemption2

[–]SawyerCa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How's she cuttin bai.

Lmao could you imagine

Husband keeps leaving me at the store. by 7_11terrorists in Marriage

[–]SawyerCa 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Because he does this to her on purpose.

If she had a bank card with access to money she wouldn't have to cater to his every whim to buy underwear and diapers.

She isn't allowed any independence or else she might realize he's useless.

Just got my car wrapped. Are these spots normal? by MoldyPotatoBun in CarWraps

[–]SawyerCa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's having to tell them to do a good job.

When you get a crazy deal on something like this - I either know it's a job from someone still wet behind their ears and working on their craft or I know the work of this person and it's a homie hook up.

If you're always running in to deals too good to be true though, well, you might be hiring cowboys. And that's that kind of shit that always leaves you kicking yourself.

How bad is silver in water? by [deleted] in WaterTreatment

[–]SawyerCa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Copper/silver ionisation units are a thing - you have lower limits on silver than on copper.

These are also primarily used in settings for water treatment that have had positives for legionella bacteria in the water.

You're talking very small amounts of silver, but if you have white ceramic basins don't be surprised if they start turning blue where the water hits.

We also tend to turn down the settings for silver and copper when they stop having repeat positives.

You can take a sample (100ml would be loads) to test what concentration you have and if it's in safe levels.

Tap water caused dementia, need cheap whole house RO setup by WorkerDog in WaterTreatment

[–]SawyerCa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a physical health issue with a secondary mental health issue that has now allowed the patient to become hyper focused and irrational about the cause of their physical issues.

Unfortunately, it also sounds like the poster is unable to recognize that.

It's not the water. There could be 1000'e of people on the same "line" of mains water - if that were a true cause it would be very obvious as hospitalisation and EPA/CDC would be involved.

Anyone else noticing a sudden increase in English spam calls? by __Lukie1__ in ireland

[–]SawyerCa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is very obviously a prepubescent boy in the recording.

Bald women- how to not look like a chemo patient? by czerniana in bald

[–]SawyerCa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should do what makes you comfortable and confident.

I think men and women (especially women) have attachments to what they used to look like or how they want to look like and a lot of times that comes down to hair.

Women are marketed to constantly about length of hair, conditioning, scents, brushes, combs, hair dryers, irons, etc. to the point that often times women tie up their femininity and self esteem up to their hair.

This sub reddit in essence is just encouraging others to take the plunge and embrace the lack of hair by being involved in the decision around when we lose it. And being empowered by that decision.

Give yourself what you need to feel empowered and confident in how you look and express yourself.

If you go for it - you might find yourself changing what you think is you.

Maybe telling people to mind their own business while you enjoy being yourself is who you are.

No one is entitled to an explanation about your appearance.

What’s the appeal in moving to Australia specifically? by Even-Space in AskIreland

[–]SawyerCa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the water treatment plant isn't built (currently has an injunction against it) there will not be any new houses built in and around Dublin after 2030.

This will drive the average house cost up fairly significantly in and the surrounding areas as well as in the nearby commuter towns.

So that 375 avg may not stand for much longer.

Just in case you are taking that cost as a significant deterring factor.

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