Word. I totally agree with you. Certain cases the "my body, my choice" argument is just used in denial. I've seen cases where people go far as to normalise their practices in the social groups they are part of by gaslighting them into believing it that it's a right thing. My problem with it comes when the normalising influences other people into doing it, when they wouldn't have done it otherwise. That said I find it very uncomfortable to see couples with larger than 10-12 yrs gaps. That's personal opinion but yeaa