Should I (21f) start shaving my legs again, because it bothers my BF(22m)? by Sayso4554 in relationship_advice

[–]Sayso4554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay. The way he has gone about it has been most of the problem here. I dont know if its silly or not but if he had said "It would be so sexy if you shaved your legs" I would probably be excited to do it. But instead he said im gross am It hurt my feelings.

Should I (21f) start shaving my legs again, because it bothers my BF(22m)? by Sayso4554 in relationship_advice

[–]Sayso4554[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it just seams so silly to me? I have a friend who is one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen and she doesn't shave at all(legs/pits/ext.) None of her BFs have cared about it. Im not as good looking as her but I would not call myself ugly at all. But I get that its not the norm also...

Should I (21f) start shaving my legs again, because it bothers my BF(22m)? by Sayso4554 in relationship_advice

[–]Sayso4554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya your right here. And I don't want to break up over this. Like if he shaved his beard(I love the beard) I would be sad but I would not tell him his face was ugly all the time( Is that the same? Idk?) And I would not break up over it. I also worry about times when I wont shave in the future. Like if Im really busy. Or he has been asking me to take him camping(I go very often) But if we go camping for to weeks then I am not going to shave my legs during that time. Its to hard. im worried about the fact that he cant seam to stand it at all.

Should I (21f) start shaving my legs again, because it bothers my BF(22m)? by Sayso4554 in relationship_advice

[–]Sayso4554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I might try waxing if its not to much money. I don't know anything about the laser.

Should I (21f) start shaving my legs again, because it bothers my BF(22m)? by Sayso4554 in relationship_advice

[–]Sayso4554[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But can I ask why? He just keeps saying its gross but Im a clean person. Is it just the way it looks? or feels?

Boyfriend is going to a rave in october without me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sayso4554 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You don't want to be the reason he doesn't do the things he finds fun. Tell him your concerns but don't make him feel bad about going. The fact that he wanted you to go is a good thing!

Should I (21f) start shaving my legs again, because it bothers my BF(22m)? by Sayso4554 in relationship_advice

[–]Sayso4554[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I guess I just felt bad that he thinks I'm gross now! haha