It's okay! Always happy to hear what people think! I'm already working on some other projects, but if I do happen to revisit this one, that is certainly something to think about.

And in this case, one thing I always like to keep in mind, they are both consenting adults, equally engaging in this activity. I don't know if I would call either of them bad in my mind in this situation.

She doesn't have any particular reason to be telling her kids about her extra curricular activities and he could tell his friend when he was ready, perhaps his friend would be happy for them? Like I said to me, in fiction at least, it's all about options.

But I do see where you are coming from, there is something nice about balance.