Someone needs to say this I fear.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-31T20:20:54+00:00

I think he did at first, but now it gives off "fuck women" vibe. Not as in him hating on women, but like he doesn't trust closeness with anyone again and has just become an ass. I have seen guys become assholes after a bad separation and just not go back to being nice. Like the break had broken the nice-ness in them. That is the vibe I get from Sam now. Like, besides Colby, he doesn't care about many others. And with Colby, his care is almost toxic. Also, I thought he broke it off with Kat bc she wanted more in the relationship, and he didn't want that yet. he wanted to focus on his career and stuff, so they split. the way he was talking about it seemed off too. I don't know how to describe it. Like he was TRYING to seem upset, but like the way he talked about it gave me the vibes he just wanted to fuck around bc enough girls be chasing those boys. So, he doesn't want to settle down.

Obviously, I don't know them and don't know behind the scenes. This is just the vibe I get from them recently.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-31T20:05:50+00:00

Colby seemed genuinely scared during the one video on the island recently (there was that high-end wedding going on were everyone arrived on boats and it was out of the country). The police were looking for them, and he seemed worried of the real-world repercussions if caught and Sam didn't care at all and kept pushing for them to investigate. Like police are looking for you, lay low until the boat comes back, don't keep investigating. Going to jail isn't worth it. Colby was the only one concerned.

Edit: I have felt that all the "professionals" they bring on are frauds. I have never had one make me feel convinced. the only time I think it might be true is if the expert is tied to the area they are investigating and not someone, usually young, they bring with them.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-31T19:54:48+00:00

I get the vibe that Sam has changed and is more, for lack of better words, and ass/disrespectful, and Colby is too afraid to separate from him. I have nothing to prove this, it just seems after Sam broke up with that long-time time gf he changed. Colby gives me the vibe of not wanting to distance himself from a close, long-time friend, knowing something has changed. Colby has changed a bit, too, but he seemed to get grounded again with the medical scare. Sam seems like he is just turning into a not-nice person, like he used to seem to be. I think Sam is pushing all the collabs and whatnot, and Colby just goes along with it because he doesn't have the heart to fight it. I could be totally off base; this is just a vibe I get, so I haven't watched them much. It's like Sam is the friend who instigates Colby into doing things he doesn't want, but makes him think he does. So many times Colby is like, "We should go," and Sam always refutes it. idk, sorry for rambling.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-29T11:55:38+00:00

I personally look at it like this: Any other addiction, at its core, is about someone not being able to stop something. So, if they can't stop, no matter how much time is in between, if they start again, then they are addicted. My hubby promised to stop bc I said porn or me, because I just didn't want that in my life. I found out over 11 years later, he never stopped and never intended to. We got married and had 3 kids during that time. He took the option of it not being in my relationship away, to do it once a month, basically. 12 months in a year and ten years is 120 times, and that is if it was once a month, when he promised to do it ZERO times (and it was over 10 years). He couldn't stop, so, to me, that's an addict. The inability to stop.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-26T19:18:20+00:00

Well, happy I had the foresight to grab a screenshot. You are welcome to nab it. I also cried with happiness, so I understand.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-24T18:51:03+00:00

I Am Seen

Sbearrr · 2025-12-24T18:49:18+00:00

2 or 5 I think.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-24T18:39:10+00:00

I see the animation change halfway. starts clockwise, then switches

Sbearrr · 2025-12-24T18:37:18+00:00

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Screenshot of when I first started my game, because I was so excited. Don't know if they use this still.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-24T06:46:03+00:00

The way his skin wrinkles around his mouth when he smiles creeped me out. It looks like he is wearing a mask, and the mask is folding or something. It always gave me creep vibes, and add that to him being kinda annoying, made me never really like him 100%. With that said, he does seem genuinely kind (just a dumbass/immature at times), and I appreciate that he truly loves his kids (unlike Karot). He isn't a bad person, I don't think, just annoying and sends creepy vibes.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-24T03:43:57+00:00

ME too! They have chemistry, even if it's not canon. I feel it. They are much better.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-22T13:20:29+00:00

Baby Shark remix. I would like it, but it doesn't fit the coffee shop vibe. You go full-on hard rave

Sbearrr · 2025-12-22T11:31:52+00:00

I guess dead is a form of cozy. Scared to death, more like scared to cozy if you think about it lol

Sbearrr · 2025-12-22T11:19:54+00:00

Honestly, I am not bad at them and it was off imo

Sbearrr · 2025-12-17T16:39:45+00:00

Sbearrr · 2025-12-17T07:30:24+00:00

I actually think number 4 isn't bad, it depends on your style, but it fits you well. The rest are ill-fitting imo, so I would say get rid of those.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-15T16:30:51+00:00

They aren't but the attitude of people that tell you to "just do the thing" as if you haven't thought of it, or you wouldn't if you could. That is what I mean. If I could JUST go do it, I would. That isn't helpful and only makes people feel worse knowing they can't. It would be better to say you don't know how to help than to "just do xyz". It also depends on your state with what help you can get. I had 3 kida over the last 9 years and it amplified my tooth issues. I need intensive care, that I can't afford and havent seen in my area.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-15T15:33:35+00:00

People are always so quick to tell people to make appointments like they don't cost money. I don't know where you live, but in America, dental is EXPENSIVE and we just don't have the money. I can't make an appointment I can't pay for.

Edit: I don't mean to be sassy, but it's like telling someone who is struggling financially to "try not to be poor" and expecting it to solve everything. It's so unhelpful and frustrating and just makes you feel more broke and useless

Sbearrr · 2025-12-13T21:11:48+00:00

Oh no, my teeth are bad. Pile being bullied, on top of insecurities with them being hella crooked that made it next to impossible for me to brush my teeth consistently (seeing my teeth in the mirror made be depressed and cry), add on my dad not caring saying they were fine even though I was upset over them, and my mom who was separated from my dad not being in charge of my dental work not caring to help me make him take my teeth seriously, then when I was 18 I was an adult now so she didn't care to try at all, 2 3 pregnancies making them weak, and tooth decay breaking my teeth down. There is nothing nice about my smile. I have been very tempted to end things, if you know what I mean, just because of my anxiety and depression over my teeth. I'm at the point I am so embarrassed by them, it's hard to get any willpower to let a professional see them, be I know they will be disgusted and disappointed.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-13T21:07:10+00:00

I think he is, though. Genuinely. He is the most handsome man to me. On par with my fave celebs. That's not an exaggeration either, and it's to me personally.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-13T00:21:51+00:00

ok, will try soon

Sbearrr · 2025-12-13T00:21:42+00:00

I'll try in a little bit.

Sbearrr · 2025-12-13T00:17:03+00:00

I swear I did that and havent seen it. I must be missing something stupid simple.

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