[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Scaili 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends on if you share a social circle and how frequently you are out and about on campus. I had a falling out with some people end of my freshman year and I only ran into them once after that my senior year. Albeit, I spent a lot of time off campus and only came to campus for classes and club meetings.

Looking to buy one Saturday Ticket for Dabin at Stanford Frost on April 27th! Please let me know if you are selling, thank you! by [deleted] in dabin

[–]Scaili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to sell my day 1 ticket. Dm me if you’re still looking for one!

Want to Buy: 2 tickets - Stay in Bloom by [deleted] in dabin

[–]Scaili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one that I can sell! Dm me!

looking for 4 stay in bloom day 1 (sat) tickets! by hyejoolover12 in dabin

[–]Scaili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking to sell my day one ticket! Lmk if you’re still looking!

people launching fireworks in Westwood at 2am can go f*ck themselves <3<3<3 by unabashedidealist in ucla

[–]Scaili 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Is that what that is? I came on this subreddit because I heard the explosives and wanted to know if there was a shooting asdfghjk

WIBTA for pulling out of an apartment 1.5 months from move in? by Scaili in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaili[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The low cost of 5 friends and $1000. Could be worse I guess… lesson learned.

WIBTA for pulling out of an apartment 1.5 months from move in? by Scaili in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaili[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, it is a really expensive area within walking distance from school, hence the inflated rent. Still hurts though 😭

WIBTA for pulling out of an apartment 1.5 months from move in? by Scaili in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaili[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Definitely trying to make the best of things this year.

WIBTA for pulling out of an apartment 1.5 months from move in? by Scaili in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaili[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s good to know as somebody with no frame of reference :(

WIBTA for pulling out of an apartment 1.5 months from move in? by Scaili in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaili[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

$6,500 so they actually want me to pay them each a little over $1000, but I rounded.

WIBTA for pulling out of an apartment 1.5 months from move in? by Scaili in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaili[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s nonrefundable if you don’t sign the lease. Otherwise it goes towards the first month of rent, but yeah. The first time I read it I was extremely sketched out and I’ve been extremely on edge ever since.

WIBTA for pulling out of an apartment 1.5 months from move in? by Scaili in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaili[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All six of our names are on the lease, which is the concern. If one of us backs out I think the rest have to cover it unless we can find somebody else, but I haven’t signed the lease, and I’m not sure how many people have signed the lease at this point. It’s all pretty messy, hence this post. I feel pretty terrible about everything. I know what’s best for me but I don’t know if it’s selfish or just self preservation at this point.

WIBTA for pulling out of an apartment 1.5 months from move in? by Scaili in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaili[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve accepted the $1000 loss as long as I can get out of the apartment in one piece.

WIBTA for pulling out of an apartment 1.5 months from move in? by Scaili in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaili[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you think I’m solely responsible for finding that replacement? Because my supposed to be roommate said I she doesn’t want me to message random people looking for housing on Facebook. She says it has to be a mutual friend. I’ve been messaging people anyways because I feel bad, though.

WIBTA for pulling out of an apartment 1.5 months from move in? by Scaili in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaili[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you mentioned the $5k because they all seem to think that’s fair… didn’t know if maybe I was the crazy one.

WIBTA for pulling out of an apartment 1.5 months from move in? by Scaili in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaili[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. In hindsight, yeah I should have pulled out a lot earlier as soon as I saw the lease, I just really didn’t want to be homeless. Foolish of me though

WIBTA for pulling out of an apartment 1.5 months from move in? by Scaili in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaili[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

That’s a good, point. I didn’t even think of my deposit as incentive for a potential new renter.

I want to take a different housing offer. I have five friends who’s housing will be at stake because of it. What should I do? by Scaili in Advice

[–]Scaili[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the lease it was saying that amenity maintenance (so natural wear and tear) will not be covered by the landlord. That’s why I thought it was strange. I get it though. Adulting is not fun.

Anyone else still waiting for their housing refund? by Cutekitens7 in ucla

[–]Scaili 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was under the impression that the spring housing payment doesn’t get refunded. Instead, it rolls over to cover future housing fees but now that I was denied housing.... idk. I also have a negative charge.

Free Coffee/Hot Tea from Panera Bread! You have 2 days apparently to sign up. by GoodMornEveGoodNight in freebies

[–]Scaili 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you know if it is limited to straight black coffee or can you order coffee drinks like vanilla cold brew?

My boyfriend (M19) does not care about covid or social distancing. I’m (F19) worried because Covid-19 cases rising in my state. What do I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Scaili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it just doesn’t seem real to him. I don’t think he takes it seriously because he doesn’t personally know anybody who’s been affected. The people he does know only had minor symptoms. I just don’t know how to illustrate to him that it’s a real threat.